Paxie55:

Don't spend that money on him.
Use it and build yourself to attract well to do men lool.
Poor boys can love oo, but once the money is there, they start misbehaving.

Don't ever trust the love of a poor boy, he's even dishonest.
Btw, don't ever listen to the sermons of these 19year old kids on Nl.
They are very poor and would do anything to make you see poverty as a blessing.

BigJoe19:

Everytime broke man this, broke man that.Broke men dey suffer Sha. I remember when I use to be broke and just laugh. The same broke man of yesterday is the rich man of today, no difference.

BigJoe19:

Everytime broke man this, broke man that.Broke men dey suffer Sha. I remember when I use to be broke and just laugh. The same broke man of yesterday is the rich man of today, no difference.

zicoraads:

No bi only burned, na fried.

That's how some of you talk, if we check am now, you didn't even do a thing or only did an ignorable little.

Raalsalghul:


Eeya!

Beey:
Experience teaches fools, am wiser now.

Now you gonna make me cry.

1StopRudeness:


It’s hungry leeches and parasites that men pay all their bills....I never chop babes.....and a man that wants a woman to do all these for him is not alright ....

brodalikeme:
My dear don’t allow the devil use you against yourself!

You have 95% of what every lady dream of and you want to throw it away for something trivial and temporary? He stays in a rented one bedroom apartment, he isn’t the landlord, he is not squatting with some friend, haba!
He loves you and is honest with you take that is all that matters!
If the plan is marriage, support him to grow in his career or business, the benefits will come back to you in the form of more love and comfort. If it’s not marriage, at least you would have helped your fellow human being. I know so many ladies that have gone the extreme length of giving their man money to pay their bride price(Dude should have borrowed from friends though).

Sister support him! If his a good man like you said, you’ll be better of for doing that.

Have you heard that great song by Cobhams Asuquo Ft Simi titled We Plenti? A part of it says “beans no dey cook forever”

A little patient, a little input, you guys will be fine.

jacoik:
guy if to say u dey close to me I for carry u go mama amaka shop to chop isiewu because dis ur wisdom is not of dis world

brodalikeme:
My dear don’t allow the devil use you against yourself!

You have 95% of what every lady dream of and you want to throw it away for something trivial and temporary? He stays in a rented one bedroom apartment, he isn’t the landlord, he is not squatting with some friend, haba!
He loves you and is honest with you take that is all that matters!
If the plan is marriage, support him to grow in his career or business, the benefits will come back to you in the form of more love and comfort. If it’s not marriage, at least you would have helped your fellow human being. I know so many ladies that have gone the extreme length of giving their man money to pay their bride price(Dude should have borrowed from friends though).

Sister support him! If his a good man like you said, you’ll be better of for doing that.

Have you heard that great song by Cobhams Asuquo Ft Simi titled We Plenti? A part of it says “beans no dey cook forever”

A little patient, a little input, you guys will be fine.

efosky1246:


I don't get why people give relationship advice based on their own romantic experience. its always a recipe for disaster, this lady is not your wife and you are not the man in question, people are very different, your wife would probably still be fine with you if you were still in that position financially but this lady clearly would not be. you might be hardworking and ambitious but the man in question might not be(I understand that context is missing). so give your advice based on the illustrated scenario. your lived experience is not the golden rule.

and sorry, you cannot make a man more ambitious. its either its in him or not.

Stacyomolola:

Yes no condition is permanent but that only works on a hardworking guy with a vision, tho she did not give much details but i dont think hes keen about moving out, which is a problem to her(which shouldnt)
Not all girls like that face to face compound compromising love.

Shugavee:
lol I don’t envy you at all, I don’t even see it as motivational in anyway

Amotekun777:

Ugly mofo Olofo!

Esthered:

I didn't write to motivate you Madam. You have the right to react to it and no need to tell me dear. Have a great day and stay safe.

Shugavee:
yeah u need to understand that this I feed my man motivational rubbish, is irritating to some .

Wash ur hands regularly dear

Esthered:


If it irritates you that bad, you know what to do than telling me dear.

Shugavee:
well am very happy I told you ,, if u like suffering others don’t ,, so thinking u need women to emulate u because u feed ur man is a shit ideology.

Esthered:

Mind you, I never said I feed my man. You're the one assuming that from my post. You don't have to be rude to express yourself regardless that it's a faceless forum.

SweetCunt97:
And you never do giveaway?

Raalsalghul:


Now you gonna make me cry.

BigJoe19:
If I have to do a giveaway, I will never do it on Nairaland.

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


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