Gudmorning Nairalanders,l op we all had a great nite.av been a member of nairaland for some yrs now but a silent member.
Pls guys l need ur advice on dis issue,in my place of work(school)though am close to most of the staff,so last month dis guy(lawyer) he works with the proprietor of the school which is a barrister, they av an office in d school compound.So this where l need ur advise is dat the guy asked me out last Thursday, l accepted his proposal but the issue now is that the guy has been pestering me to meet his family members so they could know me,and l insisted that am not ready but my mom said l should go and see them,and from our chats,this guy is someone who is desperate to get married,and am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all.
Please Nairalanders,should l go or tell him to give me tym

Shine your eyes before you enter one chance

"am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all"
Simple, tell him to give you time or release him. Don't waste his time and don't play with his emotions.

Aunty want to reach camp ground single so she can explore...


Ma, don't rush something you aren't feeling. Tell him what's on your mind if he understands,fine if not let him go. Thing is, introducing you to his family is just a way to tame you before going for service. Baba self want some ASSURANCE

You don't need any advice from anybody...


You are not ready and you don't have feelings for him...All you have to do is to talk to him and not us.....

olawumi171:
Gudmorning Nairalanders,l op we all had a great nite.av been a member of nairaland for some yrs now but a silent member.
Pls guys l need ur advice on dis issue,in my place of work(school)though am close to most of the staff,so last month dis guy(lawyer) he works with the proprietor of the school which is a barrister, they av an office in d school compound.So this where l need ur advise is dat the guy asked me out last Thursday, l accepted his proposal but the issue now is that the guy has been pestering me to meet his family members so they could know me,and l insisted that am not ready but my mom said l should go and see them,and from our chats,this guy is someone who is desperate to get married,and am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all.
Please Nairalanders,should l go or tell him to give me tym

make up ya mind based on straightforward thinking

The man is not that rich lol

Since your mind has not yet agreed with him, it does not make sense seeing his people.

olawumi171:
Gudmorning Nairalanders,l op we all had a great nite.av been a member of nairaland for some yrs now but a silent member.
Pls guys l need ur advice on dis issue,in my place of work(school)though am close to most of the staff,so last month dis guy(lawyer) he works with the proprietor of the school which is a barrister, they av an office in d school compound.So this where l need ur advise is dat the guy asked me out last Thursday, l accepted his proposal but the issue now is that the guy has been pestering me to meet his family members so they could know me,and l insisted that am not ready but my mom said l should go and see them,and from our chats,this guy is someone who is desperate to get married,and am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all.
Please Nairalanders,should l go or tell him to give me tym

Although it is too soon but nothing stop you from going.

Just let him know you are going to meet his family as a FRIEND.

You still need time to know him and visiting his family as FRIEND is no BIG DEAL.

If he is cool with that NO BIG DEAL, go ahead.

olawumi171:
Gudmorning Nairalanders,l op we all had a great nite.av been a member of nairaland for some yrs now but a silent member.
Pls guys l...
Please Nairalanders,should l go or tell him to give me tym

Just tell the guy straight up that you're not ready for marriage.

I understand that you want to keep your options open so you can meet other people and have a better chance of making an informed decision.

You do not owe anyone any apologies!

olawumi171:
Gudmorning Nairalanders,l op we all had a great nite.av been a member of nairaland for some yrs now but a silent member.
Pls guys l need ur advice on dis issue,in my place of work(school)though am close to most of the staff,so last month dis guy(lawyer) he works with the proprietor of the school which is a barrister, they av an office in d school compound.So this where l need ur advise is dat the guy asked me out last Thursday, l accepted his proposal but the issue now is that the guy has been pestering me to meet his family members so they could know me,and l insisted that am not ready but my mom said l should go and see them,and from our chats,this guy is someone who is desperate to get married,and am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all.
Please Nairalanders,should l go or tell him to give me tym

What is your main reason for accepted him when you know your feelings is not that strong for him?

duduade:
Shine your eyes before you enter one chance

thanks

Bola146:


"am not ready, am going for service dis yr,though my feelings for him isn't strong at all"
Simple, tell him to give you time or release him. Don't waste his time and don't play with his emotions.

thanks sis,my relationship with him before he wooed me was just platonic dat y l said so,l guess d feeling will grow as tym goes on

mechanics:
Since your mind has not yet agreed with him, if does not make sense seeing his people.

thanks for d advice

BestAccessories:


Although it is too soon but nothing stop you from going.

Just let him know you are going to meet his family as a FRIEND.

You still need time to know him and visiting his family as FRIEND is no BIG DEAL.

If he is cool with that NO BIG DEAL, go ahead.

thank so much,l met dem today,because my aunt base in dat state,so l called him to let meet

Thanks to everyone for ur perspectives, really appreciate it

ednut1:
The man is not that rich lol

ednut1:
The man is not that rich lol

Maddo... Loool