Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

Biglittlelois:



Ive modified, It wasn't there when I quoted him.

VIRGINlabia:
Codely poison her naa.........

merahki:




Did you read the part where he said he is lame?
Even “poor” people deserve the chance to love and be loved
Your post is super uncool
SweetLawd

safarigirl:
I will never understand how people get married and have kids in certain conditions

OP, why are you waiting for your husband to give you money for everything? Didn't you have a means of making money before marriage?

I'm so sorry if I sound harsh, but do you people think marriage can run on vibes and Inshallah? At the end, the only victim here is an innocent baby.

Why will you birth kids you can't sufficiently care for?

At first, I was wondering why you wouldn't be with your husband, but even he, is living at the mercy of his sister, why won't your stepmother do anyhow, when she knows neither you nor your husband are capable of bringing hail and brimstone upon her?

This is the worst time to be stuck in the same house with an evil witch.

I pray your daughter heals, and I pray God protects her, from whatever harm that witch will want to further inflict on her, but you cannot protect your child, when you live at the mercy of the tormentor

Biglittlelois:



But that my comment was not directed to the Op, it was to the guy I quoted that said his wife was packing his excreta when he pooed in a potty, what kind of disgust is that? Come to think of it self, is the man handicap that he can't pack his own excreta? Must a woman suffer to show a man that she loves him? Can't a woman show that she loves a man in riches? I hate when people dignify poverty as if its an achievement, it is a sick mentality.

Biglittlelois:



But that my comment was not directed to the Op, it was to the guy I quoted that said his wife was packing his excreta when he pooed in a potty, what kind of disgust is that? Come to think of it self, is the man handicap that he can't pack his own excreta? Must a woman suffer to show a man that she loves him? Can't a woman show that she loves a man in riches? I hate when people dignify poverty as if its an achievement, it is a sick mentality.

Alwaysachick:
Op Tiarababy

Forget about revenge, don't listen to people telling you that. The woman will still do more because she is trying to fraustrate you to leave her house. Keep quiet and pray in silence.

Treat your baby, there are ppl here who have dropped their emails to see how they can help your husband. Please reply them, you too find something doing so you can leave that house asap.

Right now she is on her lane, you are the one disturbing. And it could have been an accident so leave it to God.


Leave that house as soon as you can, you are married, you shouldn't be there.

crackland:
I don't know which of you two women is more silly.

Is it the witch who poured hot water on a baby, or a grown-up you who feels entitled to getting fed in a house you're squatting in.

Her own level of fvckery is definitely higher than yours though, that much is certain.

chinchonglee:

Sorry to say this but u re really a born fool...

Didn't u read the part where she said her husband lost his job
It simply means he was actually working before.

U pple jst want to comment to sound relevant

Tiarababy:

My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital

chatinent:
What a pity. Report the matter to the police immediately.

cyprus000:

The only plausible explanation for this insipid foaming in the mouth, is either you've got dyslexia or have cognitive deficiency, cos I can't understand a post as unequivocal as the Op stating that he was lamewhen his wife helped him out, can be misconstrued to earn this level of blind vituperation.

You nairalander's make me sick with your confrontational hogwash.

Tiarababy:

My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital

Glistinin:
You see why it's great for women to be gainfully employed before getting into marriage or while in the marriage?
Seriously, things won't get to this extent if you are.

Whenever I tell women close to me to be gainfully employed, most of them see it as me attacking them, not knowing that I am saving their lives.3

It's so risky to depend only on a husband these days.

merahki:
Babies can get really hurt from having seemingly small areas of burn/scald injuries though. An example is immediate kidney shutdown (I will not use medical terms) with can lead to death.
So while you are pondering what to do, you have to take her to the children emergency of the teaching hospital near you. They will rate the degree of injury and treat accordingly. She will likely need fluid therapy, ointment, maybe antibiotics and or other supportive therapy.
This is very very important dear poster.

After ensuring the baby is okay (or after starting therapy if it’s not), you can come back and negotiate how you have to go back to your husband. How you can help your situation. How to fight your stepmom, etc
The immediate need is to ensure your child is all right .

frozen70:



Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him