knowhowk:
Why do we feel Urge to have Sex in the first place,Who Created man with the sexual.Feelings and urge . is it Almighty God or the Devil ,Was that natural sexual feeling or urge not Created By God .No human would wake up and command sexual Urge to come it's part of the body leave hypocrisy alone ,The passion ,Urge to eat,Sleep,Drink ,Urinate are all parts of man ,The feelings and urge to have sex suppose to get into human when he is ready to Marry only .So you expect everyone to keep sufferings from emotional feelings for years before he gets Married Abi .Someone without Jobs ,Unemployed with no money who is already an Adult say 30 years with super libido and complete body should not have sex abi till he marries ,You are just Joking .

Niggga.. fundamentals questions..

A new marriage arrangement should be made for young people.

MikkieEl:


You can't use food as comparison here. Food gives live and the likes. Can you die if you abstain from pre-marital and extra-marital sex?

You are going deeper here.. truly you can't die from sexual urge..but trust me you DARE not stop the forces because it's beyond your capacity..if you know you know

Bahamas95:
Oh God help me! This is one major problem am battling with, I just can't do without sex. No day passes without me craving for/ having sex. Any day I don't do it I become somehow restless all through that day. ......Even last night I did it with someone I swore never to sleep with again and am feeling kinda sad now because of what it led to the last time which I don't want to happen again.

You see what I mean... majority goes through this but can't be honest

ud4u:
Truly accepting Jesus in your life and every immorality will give way

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okay
how will u control libido

kenny160:
Women unclothedness doesn't move some men

Woman pass woman...


Figure pass figure

If you know you know..

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

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It is a problem of the heart. A godly heart will overcome temptations. But it is also a problem of your fellow human beings. Immodest dressing has led and is still leading many into sin. Remember that lust is a sin. So it is not just when u do it physically. And for those who lead others to sin, here is what Christ have for you:

Luke 17:1: Jesus said to his disciples: "Things that cause people to stumble are bound to come, but woe to anyone through whom they come.

Modest Vs Immodest Dressing: What is God Saying About Them?: http://farmersjoint.com/thread-309.html

The Dangers of Immoral Songs and Dirty Jokes
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WildChild00:
I döubt if this can be possible in this modern day wörld that we find our selves, where sex is seen as nothing anymore.

It is never possible for Bingo.
RIP

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

I disagree with you too. Sexual immorality is in degrees. Most of what you see in our society today were passed down to us by westerners all in the name of socialization and civilization. And if you don't play along, you become an outcast with a perception that you are still living in stone age.
You said men vibrate only for naked women in Europe. Are you insinuating that we are more corrupt sexually? Let me point that the reason they only vibrate for absolute unclothedness is because they are in 3As degree of immorality. For example, if someone slept with three whores at a club before day break, you won't expect him to start vibrating at the sight of a lady's thigh.

By reverting to the one and only true religion Islam and adhering to it's norms and ethics......

abbatoir:


You are going deeper here.. truly you can't die from sexual urge..but trust me you DARE not stop the forces because it's beyond your capacity..if you know you know

U are a Christian right? Have u ever heard anything like " Grace of God ?. When u have there is nothing i can't overcome

OkpanachiMax:

That's from my own opinion and assessment, remember the world is not just terrible because of wicked people but people who look at it without doing anything. I just contributed, make your own contribution too if you are not a supporter of immorality.

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Immorality comes in all form like sight, thoughts, physical and on and on.
If you ever want to do anything makes sure it is always balance and not bias to one partly if not it will never solve anything

[quote author=Ochiban post=88774988]And for heavens sake - stop blaming women for your own problems. It is not dressing that is worrying you. otherwise all men would behave the same way to the same dress. You have trained yourself not to shake when you see a girls ankle in nigeria but in saudi- a man would be vibrating. meanswhile in Europe, what makes you vibrate in nigeria will not even turn an eyelid there. its all training. STOP BLAMING other people for your own problems.

Adam said...It is the woman you gave me....

Why will it turn their eyelid when they are the original devil. Will a IndecentStar be moved by the tigh of a woman. Abeg, indecent dressing in Nigeria is too much jare and we don't have the shock absorber to look away

Just like hunger , humans are created with the urge to have and enjoy sex...

It can only be controlled by regulating the factors that can increase one urge to do it outside "the right platform"- marriage...

* The females should dress more decently
*We all should avoid tempting situations
*Avoid pornography or masturbation as much as possible...

The urge for sexual relations can be regulated...

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

You have a great mind.

It baffles me when people tactfully blame women for the acts of men. We can never solve the problem if we keep shying away from the truth.

OP,
Are you a sexual pervert?
Perverts are the people who spend their waking hours thinking about sex, regulating sex , hidding their own sexual desires, and then projecting their feelings into others on religious grounds.

Upon all the problem facing our country today, all you can think about is sex, sex, and more sex.

Why don't you think about surviving COVID-19 first, then you think about hunger in the nation, unemployment, economic disasters, Fulani herdsmen, lack of electricity, lack of medical care. Oh, don't forget general insecurity all over the nation!

Let people live, breathe, enjoy sex any how they please. We don't need government regulation of sex based on your narrow religious view! There are many more serious issues facing us than sex.

Before religion was sex. After humans get rid of religion, sex will remain.
Please take your preaching to the rooster and tell him to stop banging hens anyhow.

The only time I frown is when it involves children, or when it's against somebody's will. But between any number of consenting adults, irrespective of gender and orientation? Man, I can't be bothered... I'm too busy enjoying my own life, for the short time I have it!

I really like eagleu's post because it summarize very well the twisted state of mind of the overly religious:

eagleu:
OP, Are you a sexual pervert?
Perverts are the people who spend their waking hours thinking about sex, regulating sex , hidding their own sexual desires, and then projecting their feelings into others on religious grounds.

FarmTech:
Immodest dressing has led and is still leading many into sin.

What is immodest dressing? In many cultures (especially in hot countries) women went topless, and no man harassed them, or thought it was immodest. These were well established societies, mind you, and people held meetings, farmed, and carried on with life without obsessing over breasts.

Oyinbo came with their twisted obsession about breasts, and decided they were the sole arbiters of what is modest or not. It's all in the mind.

Mekusjee:


U are a Christian right? Have u ever heard anything like " Grace of God ?. When u have there is nothing i can't overcome

I concur... you must have developed a reasonable sense of discipline to qualify for the Grace of God

I blame the moderators for putting this on front page

Add marrying nonblacks to the list of sexual immorality.

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

I need my time reading this back! Would this stop Covid-19?

This is an immoral generation.

I’m not quite sure why someone else’s sexual immorality affects you if you don’t want to be sexually immoral yourself. I will suggest that you focus on yourself and leave others to God’s judgement.

If you really want to do something useful, I will suggest you find solutions to the problem of corruption by the country’s leaders which is depriving people of decent jobs, good education, proper healthcare, good roads and a decent standard of living on a daily basis.

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

Normalize sexual right education and polygamy

Sexual Immorality Is A Choice Not What Anyone Says Can Change That Fact.. God Has A Standard For Everything But Man Decided His Own Fate And There Always Consequences Whether Good Or Bad, Let's Always Worship God And Not Religion. We Are Not Made To Judge Anyone Faith.

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

...God bless you for this intelligence advice,..the same I use to think that,instead of running away from,all these group of sexual urges and sin,.won't it be better ,if we trained our mind and eyes to be "INURED" with the effects?..

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OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

We need to also sensitise the men to desist from all appearances of evil and flee no matter how available and cheap it looks.

OkpanachiMax:

Just like you said, it can be minimized if the females dress decently because men are moved by sight (it's just naturally the way we are created).

What about India that has a high amount of rape cases or Middle Eastern countries that have a high amount too. How do they dress? Absence makes the heart fonder and the mouth water.

yassinattah:
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okay
how will u control libido

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