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Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by kalufelix(m): 1:04pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by adebayo111: 1:09pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
funshint:best response 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by clemmonce(m): 1:09pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
funshint:You correct bro. The guy nah correct guy. He sees that the wife is not too clean he cleans the house without causing any issue in order for peace to reign. Wise man i must say. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
samwash: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by NwaliE01: 1:14pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Adasun:As in eh. This one weak me pass |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by cruz419(m): 1:14pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
what do u ladies want self my dear u man cant have it all ,,appreciate him this he is doing oo,, |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by kalufelix(m): 1:16pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
youngestgrad:Bro.. May sense never elude you in your lifetime... There are many supportive men out there but this OP will forever rot in her delusion...check out this giveaway ... "I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house" 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by joyfullyjoyous(f): 1:17pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
You should hold him tight n always make him realise you appreciate all he's doing. By all possible means assist . His type is not common. This shows his parents did a good job. If they are alive love n respect them more. Some men can't even tie their shoe lace themselves,spoilt brats. Don't tell anyone this lest they start saying what's not. Ppl may say you must have charmed him. His friends may try to make him stop. Try and make sure he doesn't do much when they are around. At all times thank God for giving you such a man and make sure you always pray for him. Buy him gifts no matter how little. Love him more. Respect him too. May God give you the wisdom to sustain your marriage. Lucky you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Uganto(m): 1:19pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Adasun:what do women really want? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by mygreenday(m): 1:19pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: you didn't type this. the devil and the village people power working in your brain typed this. what a blind f00l you are. you never mentioned that you ever praised and thanked him for being such a life saver when you needed it the most. if he had dropped money and went off drinking beer with his guys you would have loved it more. I just hate you so much right now because you remind me of many ungrateful cows like you. Please go ahead and use this stupidity to fight the man and cause trouble and confusion. open the door wider for the devil and all your village people to come in. FOOOOOL. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by brosprophet(m): 1:20pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Iffffffy: What we? You and who? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by toprealman: 1:24pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:You can walk away from the "mess" you call it ba.....your eye go soon clear. You think he is enjoying it abi? This is the reason why men end up sleeping with their housemaid, because the wife living a simply confused with life. Why don't you open up and talk to your husband. Also volunteer to do things with your hand. Must it be puna issue always? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by omolasho: 1:28pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: Mam, firstly I appreciate the fact that you appreciate and love your hubby's doing most of the house chores. I also understand your resentment. He is too devoted to your physical needs at the expense of the emotional need of you both. His excessive undertaken of what is predominantly feminine chores is making him slip off the masculine aura you wanted from your man. Now you may wanna do these in the night; tell him you really appreciate his chores efforts. and your concern of him being overwhelmed. you wanted him to do less of chores(you may tell him of the ones you need his help). you should step up in doing some of the chores yourself. Finally, tell how you need him more by your side (sure he will have more energy and time for you when his chores are less) Wrap up by giving him a nice sex(sit and roll on his d**k with kiss and fairy touch on his chest). Good luck! |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Legendguru: 1:29pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
You turned him to slavenor what |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Philadelphia: 1:36pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Op must have Patience Ozokwor as a mother who must've given her something from baba to her husband.. What is nairaland turning to? Did you not pray for a hardworking man? You've found one now and it's a problem? If the man is lazy, una go complain. Now he's doing the chores you dey complain. Na so one come here dey complain say her husband like sex too much. Una wey be women ehn, you women can't just be satisfied. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by kalufelix(m): 1:39pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
mygreenday:.. Bros take am easy.. She may just be trolling.. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Timtim007(f): 1:39pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
You have married a 1 in a million kind of man...just do everything you can to show him you appreciate all he does..let this be your secret.. Don't tell people about this..and as much as you can make the effort to do the chores together.. Men like this are quite scarce.. I'm happy for you..despite the fact that you are whining about the chores he does around the house.. Tell him to relax,give him a massage..do the things he likes.. You make the effort to please him..even when he is exhausted.. U r a lucky woman |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Xclusiveme: 1:41pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: He really loves you madam |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by ajl: 1:41pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
I think its this woman conscience that is hitting her hard. She said she could work away from a mess around the house unlike her husband who can't stand the mess and would try fix it. You are simply taking advantage of this guy and don't expect it to be like this forever. I've been in a similar situation to just a less extent. Period when my wife was not working, I will still come home to take care if the mess in the kitchen. She could walk away from it unlike me. But these days I have given up. It will come with cost if she continue this way. I just can't tolerate people with such attitude and it could strain a marriage except the guy is super-tolerant of such attitude. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Xclusiveme: 1:42pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Wish my wife would be like that husband |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by oluigboelijah(m): 1:47pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
What it means is you are lazy that's why ur husband is busy with house chores . |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Munzy14(m): 1:48pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
funshint:1000.....likes for this post, that woman is just lazy, soon e go clear for her eye... A good and smart wife elongates her husband's life by being supportive...This one will soon kill that man with laziness... In Nigeria most women see pregnancy as sickness. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by livitexguy(m): 1:48pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:Manage him like that, then when ur children grew up of age they can also be supportive and stop complaining. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Xandelle: 1:49pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
sweetmelanin: Your reality isn't someone else's reality. That husband to feminist A is an asshole, doesn't mean that husband to woman B must also be an asshole. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by mathew2oa(m): 1:51pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Adasun: Nah, too much of everything is not good. Remember, moderation is key. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by MrFly(m): 1:51pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Nne u wan trend Abi? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by humilitypays(m): 1:52pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
So many men do this na, especially those born in midst of guys with no sister or one sister, so what's the big deal My own question is this: why do ladies, mostly the ugly looking ones love answering sexy usernames online, why |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 1:54pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: Are you for real?? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:I can see alot of reverse Psychology in your post |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 2:07pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
gentlegenius:She is simply using reverse Psychology to cover up some of her deficiencies.. I hope NL ladies are not expecting their husbands to do all chores for them while they are busy typing grammar on a Forum?? Lazy people are very great at making up coherent excuses!! Beautykate?? Stop hiding under breastfeeding to overwork your husband!!! He has been doing great since bride price time, stop leaving all domestic works for him!!! It is unfair!!! |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by OriOko88(m): 2:07pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
kalufelix: Lol. funny you. You and your wife could start dragging kitchen with each other oo |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by OnyesomJ(m): 2:08pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Over feeding na na sin ?! |
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