They have no choice,they should let us roam,Men must have 100 percent freedom,PERIOD.

this thread is something else.

190:

^^Nite never reach for where u dey

or are u working @ TESCO today!

i wish i was working at tesco tonight,i would have eaten all the food in the shop.

;d ;d ;d

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Why not 3-5 times, i mean be generous here.lol

Quote from Deniyor:
Forgiving a cheating wife does not make you a fool or a weak person, in fact it the other way round, it makes you a much better person, more understanding, and more sensible, ( we are not saying those who don’t forgive are weak or otherwise).

This also does not mean we approve of cheating, but what it means or what we are trying to say, is what we never give our selves time to think things over, once we hear the word cheating, we normally would react. Yes it does not matter who approached who, if it was your wife or the other man, that is irrelevant, what is sad but important is that they are cheating, and a solution has to be reached.

Understanding your wife is very important as well as understand why she cheated, we always make this mistake when we hear the word cheat, we dismiss the women, and refuse to have a dialog, you need to, you need very much to see things from her eyes, why she cheated how she felt, how she covered her tracks, what she wanted out of the other person, this way you are able to put things to gather and work out a better relationship plan for the future, there is just no woman out there who would not cheat in certain situation, , unless they are born again Christian, those who think and believe theirs would never do a thing like it, and it happened, should not run a mile from the problem, it so easy this days to just end the marriage just for selfish reason, if it was your good job, and you had some problem with you boss or the job, will you just leave it and walk way. , will you not try and rectify the problem, the way it is with all marriages, problems comes, you look for the solution, the word solution is for a reason.

And forgiving her cheating ways, try and work thing out, so it will not occur again, remember your marriage is for life, most cases when a partner cheats, and they work things out by talking about everything and seeing things from different angles, it brings them ever closer together, please do not forget your marriage vows.

Believe this; every good marriage and long lasting ones are always face with major problems, it all the testing of your marriage to a more better great place.

so guys pls make it a top priority to forgive your spouses even as we enter a new year, women pls let us try to make a diference in our relationship with our spouses it will certainly make the world a better place.


Now 190 et al, what do you think of this version?