Wetabix:

LOL there is nothing I will tell you that you won't fault the woman. You have made up your mind already,

solmus:



Nigerian women are generally wicked, were is the love? are we saying 5 people cant share 3 rooms and a parlour peacefully without quarrel ? My first time outside the country I spent almost a month in a tiny apartment with 2 rooms and a parlour, the husband and wife shares one room, their daughter and the man's neice shared another, while I slept in the seating room with the husbands younger brother.. we all enjoyed our time together and contributed to pay bills, buy groceries.. we hide from neighbors to avoid being reported for being overcrowded and early in the morning everyone is out of the door , saying our goodbyes at the subway station

Its absolute lack of love that make Nigerian women hate house helps and husbands family, they would even treat their kitchen like its a sacred temple meant for only them.. whats the big deal if anyone cooks while the wife is away, and once she's back she microwaves it and eat? the other occupants in the house can make themselves useful by cleaning the house and making everywhere tidy, and in the evening after meal they can all share stories or watch a movie together


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brownemmanuel43:

LOVE AND PEACE I PREACH AND SAME LOVE AND PEACE I PRAY FOR EVERY HOUSEHOLFS

ManOfSteel2:
Family issues are best sorted out internally!

ManOfSteel will never interfere

Mypeople2:
Thank you very much for abusing the women .Did you see the part she said only one room has a bed ?For goodness sake, you went to a house that has only one bed, won't you carry your babe from that house to some where else ? You want to turn a family house to NYSC camp ? In some situations you just have to use your head

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

Millenniumlady:
Shut the Bleep up

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

Sirvingeo:
There is more to this story. The husband will never drive his wife away just because she asked if his family will stay with them permanently.

instinct57vm:


Bros, speak for yourself! Lots of crazy dudes out there. Speaking this way means you’re short of experience. I’m not saying my friend is perfect but that’s the summary of what happened. Again speak for yourself

solmus:



may you witness same as a mother, may your son treat you the same way you suggest someones mother be treated... may you son's wife also keep asking for when you would leave the house of the child you spent every penny you begged for online to train say amen if you agree to your own comment

baralatie:

don't you think the husband should have bought the foam and kitted one of the two remaining bedroom in the flat to cater his MOTHER

Justbehave:
Both the man and his wife including you who is her friend. All of you are immature.

yuswrld20:

wateva wateva my wife is ma wife.she is a new mum 2 me.he is not supoz to do dat

brownemmanuel43:

ur mama born u well baba. The man is not mad to beat and send the wife away.
See, women always play the victim game in every issue in marriage. Op dat friend will not tell u the part she played that waranted the husband to beat her (I hate domestic violence) but if u hv been or seen the true colour of some women, to marry no hhhhungry u. Having worked in an NGO that deals on women right, i must confess that that ur friend has larger portion of blame here.

Wetabix:

The woman is always to be blame..if you hear say your in law beat your sister how you go feel.. Op tell your friend to move on the man already choose his mom over her

2buffagain:
IF this story is true,

then it means the OP is being a typical woman leaving out MASSIVE, meaty chunks from the story to manipulate the emotions of her audience.

People don't get thrown out of their house by their spouse by..."asking a question"....as you put it.

What exactly did she do?
Until that is answered, I am not an audience of these telemundo narratives.

Wolgrace:
Incomplete story. The story is one-sidedly written to accuse the man and his family... The woman's victim card is so glaring in this story.


Op, tell us the truth.

Ningen:
Shit. Is like there's a vendetta on Nairaland to discourage single folks from getting married.

MEGA4BILLION:
Why on earth will a couple sleep in a living room leaving their matrimonial bed and room for boyfriend and girlfriend. Well maybe they are yet to understand what marriage is. If the visitors occupies the couple's room why wouldn't they be in charge of the kitchen. From your naration the man is immature, he needs to be tutored and counseled about marriage. She should give him time. But we don't know the man's side of the story.

Mypeople2:
Thank you very much for abusing the women .Did you see the part she said only one room has a bed ?For goodness sake, you went to a house that has only one bed, won't you carry your babe from that house to some where else ? You want to turn a family house to NYSC camp ? In some situations you just have to use your head

davillian:
Mom is welcome anytime
But coming with my bro and his gf is a big no
Its either the girl leaves or both of them leaves
And if mum gets involve 3of them are leaving be that....
I don't take nonsense from anybody I don't really give a flying Bleep....

Durchess:
OP, you said it started in march, this is may. Your story never complete.