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Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:35pm On May 07, 2020 |
if they came for hospital appointment then as soon as it is done, they should go back home...and certainly not stay and make their home feel like camping site. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Chikelue2000(m): 2:35pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:U are this quick to conclude just hearing from one side?...what happens to fair hearing? |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 2:35pm On May 07, 2020 |
instinct57vm: She shouldn't have married that asshole in the first place, she can't even talk to him and they obviously aren't even friends! People should understand that we all pretend and put our best foot forward when dealing with strangers or people we feel might be useful to us in some way, ditto these relationships; so ladies need to stop getting married out of desperation or peer/family pressure, because they invariably end up worse off when marriages break. Men usually fare better socially, emotionally and psychologically after divorce. When you tell these ladies to 'marry your friend' it sounds like gibberish. You meet a man and after six months of casual dating you're doing marriage counselling classes already. Reason why arranged marriages of the old days lasted longer and were more stable than these days, those were people who knew each other over decades! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Shancca: 2:36pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: Your type will mislead people into a dungeon. I do not support the man’s action neither do I side his mother for not interfering, purportedly wanting the marriage to be in disarray. However, you have to refrain from saying that ladies shouldn’t marry any guy who are so close to their mum. Point of correction, using myself as a case study, my mum practically made me what I am today. He toiled to the point of selling unsalable to ensure I have a good life. I will make sure my mum and wife coexist naturally in happiness but if my wife don’t my mother in my house, then I don’t know what will happen. So help me God. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by seanjy4konji: 2:36pm On May 07, 2020 |
Two sides to a story..can't be as simple and you just typed it here.. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Origin(f): 2:36pm On May 07, 2020 |
What the OP is silent about: Two days yam don finish. No soap again ( girlfriend don use am wash him clothes) Wifey is thinking I'm very tired that stew that will last us 5 days is in the freezer ( she gets home pot is empty- we manage am chop small garri). They keep sleeping in the parlour The lack of privacy continues. Wifey gets home late has to prepare food for three extra people ( worse when those people don't eat the same thing) Wifey will be grumbling inside and out. Husband sees a frowning and nagging wife and hears complaints about wife ( she no cook for us before she go work, she no sweep before she go, she no greet anybody) In African settings extra visitors is all on the wife, But a wise person knows that if the wife is good all this people go soon fight among themselves. (That is if the extra girl is not for the husband and they were not just trying to chase the wife in the first place) 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by eagleeye2: 2:38pm On May 07, 2020 |
instinct57vm:My verdict: The man, his mother, the brother and his girlfriend are irresponsible fellows. But I pity the girlfriend the most. I also pity the man. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Therapyken(m): 2:38pm On May 07, 2020 |
oglalasioux:You may just have a point. Nollywood Patience Ozokwor tins 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Insectkiller: 2:38pm On May 07, 2020 |
Husband needs to grow up, if he loves his wife. Communicate with ur wife as if all ur life depend on it. Communication is very key. it's a fresh marriage, try and make it work.. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 2:40pm On May 07, 2020 |
instinct57vm: The husband didn’t try at all. I have a lot to say but let me keep quiet cos I’m angry right now. I wish I were the wife’s brother |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by DozieInc(m): 2:42pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:Being his wife doesn't in any way makes you his mother. You have a significant role so does his mum. Hope you are not one of those that don't wish to meet their mother-in law? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Newmans: 2:42pm On May 07, 2020 |
The mother in-law and co was on a mission, they where only waiting for the bubble to burst and it happened, pain is a gift, good luck to her, she left there alive . 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Mexyz(m): 2:44pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:Really? Where exactly do you want to see a guy that's not closed to his mother? |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by manuelreports: 2:44pm On May 07, 2020 |
The Mother is a trouble maker and I just blame the son for not keeping her mother in check. Your wife is your wife, your mother is your mother keep the both in check and be neutral. Put yourself in that Woman's shoe and check if you will be happy if someone else do the same to You. If I am a Lady I will take time to study my mother in-law before going into any marriage because they can make ones marriage a hell on Earth. Right now the mother have bought the mind of the son, the only thing that can be done is to reach out to two or three people that the guy highly respect to talk sense into him and accept his wife back into his matrimonial home and gradually and amicable discharge his mother and siblings . 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Sterope(f): 2:44pm On May 07, 2020 |
Your girl is still going yo get more beatings as time goes on. Although, her approach might have been wrong but for goodness sake, she is in for it with that kind of family and her husband. instinct57vm |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Acidosis(m): 2:46pm On May 07, 2020 |
Your friend got married to her husband towards the end of 2019? Barely 6 six months after their wedding, they pulled money together to rent a 3 bedroom apartment? Wait, what was she thinking when she made that contribution for a 3 bedroom apartment?? The two empty bedrooms are meant for who?? Ghosts? People sef. The husband's action is completely irrational and out of place though. He's not a responsible person. Doesn't matter what his wife said to him or his family. There are many ways to make your woman feel very very sorry and remorseful over what she's said/done. I mention this because I'm sure the wife must have said terrible things to the man and his mother (of course, she won't tell you @OP, the story teller). Anyhow, mama should return to her house (even if going back to her husband is no longer an option). It is well. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by ivoryfile: 2:48pm On May 07, 2020 |
The first problem is that the couple left there matrimonial bed for family. This is 100% improper.... The husband is not man enough. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Sterope(f): 2:50pm On May 07, 2020 |
It is not everybody that has stupid useless mothers who have chosen to be insensitive about their children's marital lives. Come on, there is no scenario on earth some of our mothers would act like that. There is also no scenario where some men would be insensitive to their partners' needs. I don't see how a newly wed man with common sense, understanding the constraints he finds himself will choose to accommodate a man, his gf plus his mother in a house with just one bed. solmus: 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by DCmonster: 2:52pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:Fvck u bitch! No guy will marry or choose a hoe over his mother in the first place. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by MichaelDuf: 2:52pm On May 07, 2020 |
instinct57vm: Old wives tale for.twitter and instagram. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Sterope(f): 2:53pm On May 07, 2020 |
It is not her family. Her family would not come impromtu and she would have planned for it WITH her husband. Someone like my mum would never agree at all without a very good reason. Also, it is her money. Not all bankers are earning 6 figures. gentle70: |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Printerscanner: 2:53pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: My wife's elder sister lived with us for about two years before she got an apartment and moved out, there was no single day that I complained. Currently, my wife's three nephews who are all 15 yeas and above have been living with us for about three years now, yet there has not been any major disagreement on this issue. Why do wives always have problems with their husband's family? Simple, women are devilish. Yes, I said what I said. Wherever the devil is too busy to go, he sends a woman. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by olureignforever: 2:55pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: The main reason I left a nine year relationship. Anything mama say na final plus mummy is a single mother. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Ishow7: 2:57pm On May 07, 2020 |
There's no vendetta anywhere. Leave all this happenings they have been and will always be. Just follow your heart and your God and get married. Ningen: |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by NnamdiN: 2:59pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:just look at the nonsense you typed |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by akaahs(m): 3:00pm On May 07, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:She just marry a boy without any iota of sense in him. Isn't an issue of closeness to his mother. I'm very close to my mother more than anyone on the surface of earth but never allow her makes or influence my decision, I know when to draw the between my mom and my relationship. Let her just move on. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Gosanzy: 3:03pm On May 07, 2020 |
benjijosh: Thank you. How many men reason like you. May God help us in this institution called marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Mizwisdom(f): 3:04pm On May 07, 2020 |
Is there anything good in marriage? |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by JBL316: 3:06pm On May 07, 2020 |
Bj5all: You are right.....NO MAN IN HIS RIGHT SENSES.....hope ur not unaware that we do the most terrible things when we are not in our right senses....and it happens now and then buddy....there is a word for it....SENSELESS! |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Peppermintflav: 3:07pm On May 07, 2020 |
Cant advise until i hear both parties, but if this story is anything to go by.. Why the heck will my mum come with my brothers girlfriend? For what? Maybe they brought a new wife for the man. Clearly the mum does not like the banker wife, thats why she didnt say anything while his son was beating up the woman. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by onoja12: 3:08pm On May 07, 2020 |
Surely you are not married,so in your mind a husband would write offically to his wife informing her that his family members want to visit.atlist she was notified and in some cases even the husband self no dey get notice.the fact remains if it was the wifes mother the wife wouldnt have a problem with it but once it is the husbands family most women behaving like evils spirit.i can remember a day when my wife came to me to tell me that her pastor said my mother was a witch,i am not an abusive man but she got what was coming,i told her that she should pass it on to her pastor and that would be the last sunday she would attend that church or pack out.it is the same,she feels everything in the house should be given to her family like they own it but your family shouldnt even come around.it is like they are on assignment to liquidate you for there family. quote author=baralatie post=89255430] the problem is not in staying at all. it is the keeping the [b.wife in limbo[/b] and the unablement of the husband to put what the issues are to the wife in a very simple English then there is the void between the husband mom dad and brother. there is a problem that is hidden in this story [/quote] |
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