@We4all change your moniker to @I'm4female. Because you ain't for all

gRESEARCHER:
I reported it to my mom that our house help used to play with my dick when she's bathing me. Mom didn't believe me. She thought I just dislike the girl. The first day I told her she shouted at me. the second day she flogged me.
I kept quiet and didn't tell her again.

Imagine what would have happened in the case that you happened to have been born to american parents in the year 2000?

gRESEARCHER:

Later I told dad and immediately he changed our maid to a new one. The second maid didn't do that but has her bad character and was get out. the third maid came when I was 10 or there about and would play porn video tape when my parents are away and would watch while I stay there. she uses goodies to lure me till I became her sex doll. I finger her she romance my dick.
i reported her my mom asked her she denied. Could u belive the girl lied that i once told her that am going to lie to my parents against her so that they will sent her away. since then i was given a deaf ear. i stoped reporting because at a point i was taken to church for prayers. the maid and i kept malice and we later became friends and shit started again this time around no reporting and tbh i enjoyed the latter time. Then my cousins came for holidays and I swear my cousins and I had orgy. (2 girls 3 boys, plus a maid not the third maid) I was bleeped in the ass. they used vegetable oil. boss I went through a lot growing up.

interesting ....

gRESEARCHER:

I am always angry when female rape is given attention to and male ignored.
I don't support rape be it male or female

Wait a minute .... the one who denied you justice in this case was your own mum Why take it out on everyone else and try to belittle other people's pain because of that?
At least confront your mum about these things now that you are able to, and let her answer you truthfully about her reasons for not believing you. It might help you in many ways that no one on here can.

Kobojunkie:


Male rapes are taken more seriously in western nations than in a place like Nigeria where the prevailing societal culture is still majorly patriarchal. Rape of any kind is considered criminal both in America, and in England -- in fact in most of the western world. This is not about what you read in foreign forums. We are discussing what happens when the criminal system is made aware of many of these cases today.
The shift in the western culture from a has begun to shift out in the west , and that is why it is not yet 100% in all places but it is definitely getting there. Thanks majorly to efforts of anti-patriachy movements in the west, the rape of males is now more commonly criminalized, and there has been experienced a shift in culture away from a patriachal extreme, and this has been to the benefit of victims, regardless of gender.

Unfortunately the idea was not invented by feminists

Lol. Reading what real people go through on forums would open your eyes to a reality that CNN, Fox News, Aljazeera and BBC would never show you.
You keep on referencing cases that law enforcement are made aware of, and I have said before that, that is not the issue, the issue is the lack of or little attention given to male victims of rape. By going to foreign forums you would see that the same thing is happening in the so called developed nations.
You're just blinded by their movies, music and news channels.
Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's an invention of feminists. Unfortunately I didn't bookmark the exact write up that totally debunks this so called patriarchy.
I would give you another write up, but my fear is that you'd misunderstand it.
The write up is below
https://qr.ae/pNtftA

angelfallz:
You keep on referencing cases that law enforcement are made aware of, and I have said before that, that is not the issue, the issue is the lack of or little attention given to male victims of rape. By going to foreign forums you would see that the same thing is happening in the so called developed nations.

Here's a question for you. If law enforcement are not made aware of a crime that has supposedly taken place, how do you expect law enforcement to do anything about said crime? Do we magically deduce who the accused are and who the criminals are? Do we simply go around questioning everyone hoping that one person will trip up and admit the details of said crime?

angelfallz:

Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's an invention of feminists. Unfortunately I didn't bookmark the exact write up that totally debunks this so called patriarchy.
I would give you another write up, but my fear is that you'd misunderstand it.
The write up is below
https://qr.ae/pNtftA

Here's a question for you at this point. What do you think the word PATRIARCHY means or refers to? Shall we import the dictionary definition of the word at this point to help this talk at this point?
I am the very pit of understanding itself so do not be afraid of throwing whatever thoughts you have there my way. I have thoughts, and delusions of my own to booth.

Kobojunkie:

Can you please provide a link to this story cause something does not add up at all.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/11/woman-who-impregnated-self-with-stolen-semen-from-billionaire-wins-child-support-battle/

Kobojunkie:

Here's a question for you. If law enforcement are not made aware of a crime that has supposedly taken place, how do you expect law enforcement to do anything about said crime? Do we magically deduce who the accused are and who the criminals are? Do we simply go around questioning everyone hoping that one person will trip up and admit the details of said crime?


Here's a question for you at this point. What do you think the word PATRIARCHY means or refers to? Shall we import the dictionary definition of the word at this point to help this talk at this point?
I am the very pit of understanding itself so do not be afraid of throwing whatever thoughts you have there my way. I have thoughts, and delusions of my own to booth.

It's obvious you're hell bent in refusing to understand what I'm saying. It's not about law enforcement, it's about the attention. The attention on social media, on Twitter on Facebook on nairaland etc.

As for the patriarchy I've given you something to read please read it.

Kobojunkie:

Imagine what would have happened in the case that you happened to have been born to american parents in the year 2000?

interesting ....

Wait a minute .... the one who denied you justice in this case was your own mum Why take it out on everyone else and try to belittle other people's pain because of that?
At least confront your mum about these things now that you are able to, and let her answer you truthfully about her reasons for not believing you. It might help you in many ways that no one on here can.

I told my mom, told my pastors, told my teachers told everybody I came across including my peers none gave me a listening ear. when I grew older I discovered that male rape isn't taken serious.
I'm not after justice I'm after male victims being heard.

gRESEARCHER:
We4all is not a female. it's a male. a female's ass-licker.
A male mod banned me because I stood up against male rape.
A lot of female ass-lickers in the world.

I suspect a female. Some of them calm to be male.

angelfallz:

It's obvious you're hell bent in refusing to understand what I'm saying. It's not about law enforcement, it's about the attention. The attention on social media, on Twitter on Facebook on nairaland etc.

What reason(s) are there for rape victims to seek attention for a rape crime on social media? What does social media do for a rape case other than maybe helping gather up support that in some countries may be necessary to getting the crime prosecuted through the right channels?

angelfallz:

Lol. Reading what real people go through on forums would open your eyes to a reality that CNN, Fox News, Aljazeera and BBC would never show you.
You keep on referencing cases that law enforcement are made aware of, and I have said before that, that is not the issue, the issue is the lack of or little attention given to male victims of rape. By going to foreign forums you would see that the same thing is happening in the so called developed nations.
You're just blinded by their movies, music and news channels.
Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's an invention of feminists. Unfortunately I didn't bookmark the exact write up that totally debunks this so called patriarchy.
I would give you another write up, but my fear is that you'd misunderstand it.
The write up is below
https://qr.ae/pNtftA

Kobojunkie here is my problem. the attention and not the justice

GreatResearcher1:
We don't speak up because you lots don't give a damn. and if we enjoyed it, I think women too enjoyed it.

. I was raped too, when I was 23years old, but the babe Sha, na banker she be, and I enjoy the raped, we last up to one hour, how I wish the babe go dey raped me constantly, walie, I no go make noise, na sweet journey to everlasting satisfaction. . Make una no insult me oo, na raped issue we dey discuss, if e happen to you, table your matter for here, we get elders way go settled the case for us once and for all.

Kobojunkie:

Here's a question for you. If law enforcement are not made aware of a crime that has supposedly taken place, how do you expect law enforcement to do anything about said crime? Do we magically deduce who the accused are and who the criminals are? Do we simply go around questioning everyone hoping that one person will trip up and admit the details of said crime?


Here's a question for you at this point. What do you think the word PATRIARCHY means or refers to? Shall we import the dictionary definition of the word at this point to help this talk at this point?
I am the very pit of understanding itself so do not be afraid of throwing whatever thoughts you have there my way. I have thoughts, and delusions of my own to booth.

You are talking about justice for victims of rape while I am talking of attention for victims of rape.

Why do female victims get much attention and male victims get less or no attention?

Martinez39s:
I suspect a female. Some of them calm to be male.

Alright.

gRESEARCHER:
You are talking about justice for victims of rape while I am talking of attention for victims of rape.
Why do female victims get much attention and male victims get less or no attention?

My bad! I thought the end of the attention is to obtain justice. But seems you are simply seeking attention for the sake of attention. If that is the case, then you still up against the cultural issue.
But, I am puzzled as to why you are not aware, and accepting of this at this point, given your personal experience? It was not social media that cut you off but the cultural wall that basically blocked you from being heard.

gRESEARCHER:
I told my mom, told my pastors, told my teachers told everybody I came across including my peers none gave me a listening ear. when I grew older I discovered that male rape isn't taken serious.
I'm not after justice I'm after male victims being heard.

Usually, when a crime is committed, victims want to be heard by the right people, not the wrong people , as there will always be those. Just as with any sort of attention, there is always good and bad, shouldn't the victim of a crime then want to only get that which benefits his case and cause, not just attention for attention sake?

gRESEARCHER:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/11/woman-who-impregnated-self-with-stolen-semen-from-billionaire-wins-child-support-battle/

[img]https://image.iol.co.za/image/1/process/650x366?source=https://inm-baobab-prod-eu-west-1.s3.amazonaws.com/public/inm/iol/media/image/2019/11/11/37018777/fakenews.jpg&operation=CROP&offset=0x74&resize=791x445[/img]
[url="https://www.iol.co.za/lifestyle/family/baby/hotel-cleaner-who-stole-millionaires-used-condom-turns-out-to-be-fake-news-37018777"]Hotel cleaner who stole millionaire's used condom turns out to be fake news[/url]
The case was an unusual one in the fact that the hotel cleaner, going by the name "Jane" and the unnamed millionaire, never even had sex. Picture: website screenshot

I knew there was something insane about the story, and I am glad it was fake.

Trayceey:
Nonsense post. No be only make rape. As if u did not enjoy it. Male rape my foot

. Try to understand him, he was raped by a matured lady at a very tender age, must it be female before all the time, why not male victim.

Kobojunkie:

Usually, when a crime is committed, victims want to be heard by the right people, not the wrong people , as there will always be those. Just as with any sort of attention, there is always good and bad, shouldn't the victim of a crime then want to only get that which benefits his case and cause, not just attention for attention sake?

Who are the right people male rape victims should run to?

Kobojunkie:

My bad! I thought the end of the attention is to obtain justice. But seems you are simply seeking attention for the sake of attention. If that is the case, then you still up against the cultural issue.
But, I am puzzled as to why you are not aware, and accepting of this at this point, given your personal experience? It was not social media that cut you off but the cultural wall that basically blocked you from being heard.

alright

Tboy1419:
. I was raped too, when I was 23years old, but the babe Sha, na banker she be, and I enjoy the raped, we last up to one hour, how I wish the babe go dey raped me constantly, walie, I no go make noise, na sweet journey to everlasting satisfaction. . Make una no insult me oo, na raped issue we dey discuss, if e happen to you, table your matter for here, we get elders way go settled the case for us once and for all.

even women enjoyed the rape. quote me anywhere

gRESEARCHER:
Who are the right people male rape victims should run to?

The authorities for one? Those who are open-minded enough to understand a crime has been committed. Who else would you run to in the case of a crime?

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/14-boys-raped-by-fake-pastor- in-dr-congo-hospital.html



what did y'all have to say on this?

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/14-boys-raped-by-fake-pastor-in-dr-congo-hospital.html




what did y'all have to say on this?

Kobojunkie:

My bad! I thought the end of the attention is to obtain justice. But seems you are simply seeking attention for the sake of attention. If that is the case, then you still up against the cultural issue.
But, I am puzzled as to why you are not aware, and accepting of this at this point, given your personal experience? It was not social media that cut you off but the cultural wall that basically blocked you from being heard.

It ´s not just about getting justice for the abused but about the male who was abused, will punishing his abuser help him heal? Basically you assume males who get raped don't need to recover or heal from anything unlike females who are claimed to go through alot of psychological, mental and emotional breakdown. Abused males go through these too, they need to receive as much attention as females receive bc they too need it.

I’ll also point out that women used to ask questions like “what was she wearing” and “did she lead him on,” but most have learned that those are the wrong questions.
We need to educate people that 1) tell a guy he got lucky, not raped is not helpful and 2) that male getting raped isn't funny or a sign of weakness
3) Same attention should be given to a male victim as it is to a female

GeeJack:

It ´s not just about getting justice for the abused but about the male who was abused, will punishing his abuser help him heal? Basically you assume males who get raped don't need to recover or heal from anything unlike females who are claimed to go through alot of psychological, mental and emotional breakdown. Abused males go through these too, they need to receive as much attention as females receive bc they too need it.

I quite understand the possible emotional and psychological trauma that rape can inflict on the human mind. What I don't understand is the need for attention just for the sake of it.
Victims of any kind of rape tend to value their privacy, so forgive me if I don't see the sense in a victim choosing to boast or broadcast his/her violation, if not for the sake of obtaining some closure to what happened. And even that has to be done in the right setting.

Attention for the sake of attention ....makes little sense to me as far as dealing with psychological and emotional trauma.

GeeJack:
I’ll also point out that women used to ask questions like “what was she wearing” and “did she lead him on,” but most have learned that those are the wrong questions.
We need to educate people that 1) tell a guy he got lucky, not raped is not helpful and 2) that male getting raped isn't funny or a sign of weakness
3) Same attention should be given to a male victim as it is to a female

Now attention for the sake of educating people, now that I can understand.

angelfallz:


ignorant comment. little evidence? what evidence is there in female rape?

now this is an ignorant question. Forensic evidence duh!!

funmisticqueen2:
now this is an ignorant question. Forensic evidence duh!!

So there is no forensic evidence in male rape abi?
So there is no dna evidence in male rape abi?

angelfallz:

So there is no forensic evidence in male rape abi?
So there is no dna evidence in male rape abi?

I doubt there is

funmisticqueen2:
I doubt there is

now you know why i first said that your comment is ignorant.