What can i do pls, i seriously love this girl but she's too attached to her mum and tells her every bit of whatever i tell her (future plans, e.t.c) even plus the privacy we share. Whenever even we fight, her mum knows. Im beginning to feel her mum might influence much of her decisions and attitudes towards me. She doesn't seem to be able to make decisions on her own concerning her private life without consulting her mum. Wise people on here, your advices are needed. Thanks

How old is she

She's been jinxed

Always have this at the back of your mind. that you are going to marry both daughter and her mom..your home affair will be decide by your wife mother. Take it or leave it

Two of dem go join hands kpokpo u oneday.

well her mum is in her board of trustees...same as her friends
most ladies have their board of trustees

Trust your instinct & do the right thing.

Either she's not yet mature or she's too attached to her Mom...
I'm sure this is a concern for you

CDon:
well
her mum is in her board of trustees...same as her friends

most ladies have their board of trustees

But seems this one's case seems a lil too much... Bad for business

if the woman na bad woman bros your in for a hot ride, well have in mind the mom na first wife

No tell her anything just watch your mouth, what about when una fvck she go tell? See my sign below

You may not have problems with her if you marry her , because your own decision sometimes will stand. The reason she is confiding in her mom is that the mum take d daughter has a friend . For you to get the best out your Children is to make them your friend not a dictator parent

Olawalejeremy18:
What can i do pls, i seriously love this girl but she's too attached to her mum and tells her every bit of whatever i tell her (future plans, e.t.c) even plus the privacy we share. Whenever even we fight, her mum knows. Im beginning to feel her mum might influence much of her decisions and attitudes towards me. She doesn't seem to be able to make decisions on her own concerning her private life without consulting her mum. Wise people on here, your advices are needed. Thanks

op na so my gf de do I swear

Olawalejeremy18:
What can i do pls, i seriously love this girl but she's too attached to her mum and tells her every bit of whatever i tell her (future plans, e.t.c) even plus the privacy we share. Whenever even we fight, her mum knows. Im beginning to feel her mum might influence much of her decisions and attitudes towards me. She doesn't seem to be able to make decisions on her own concerning her private life without consulting her mum. Wise people on here, your advices are needed. Thanks

if you are not into some weird shiiit, you shouldnt care what your babe tells her mother.. its either mother or close friends. pick your demon!

expecting her NOT to consult with mother/friends, is where you will always fail... this woman isnt comfortable with making her own choices in life, and certainly does not trust your views yet.

Olawalejeremy18:
What can i do pls, i seriously love this girl but she's too attached to her mum and tells her every bit of whatever i tell her (future plans, e.t.c) even plus the privacy we share. Whenever even we fight, her mum knows. Im beginning to feel her mum might influence much of her decisions and attitudes towards me. She doesn't seem to be able to make decisions on her own concerning her private life without consulting her mum. Wise people on here, your advices are needed. Thanks

Dude, how old are you?

What are you afraid of? That you won't be able to get one over on her or something? What is wrpng with her being open with her mother? Do you have some ulterior motives that you suppose the mother may sniff out or something?

25, the coming July

Bola146:
How old is she

25, the coming July

Olawalejeremy18:

25, the coming July

As far as love, and success in a relationship, the truth is there are NO TEMPLATES. I know Nigerians pretend there are such things but that is the bloody lie.

Out here in the west, you find it comes in all shapes and sizes and ....you name it. Think of anything you feel you can never accept from your partner, here, there are people that have accepted it and made it work for BOTH(not just one person)partner's involved in the relationship.
A relationship can whether any odds as long as both parties are willing to bear it for each other.

Examine your ownself and make sure the issue you have with her telling her mum,everything that has to do with her, isn't about your EGO. Never let your ego get in the way of your relationship , it is a quick way to destroy that which is going good.

you are just a boyfriend lol, marry her first