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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Karemarealty288: 7:40pm On May 23
This your friend sef...

Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by SavageResponse(m): 7:41pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

Tell her to always keep her mind busy
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by MedicH: 7:42pm On May 23
stupid boys are already asking for her number. who raises all these boys self?

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Uniquekriss(m): 7:51pm On May 23
She's nymphomaniac and its not her fault, the issue is, is she addicted to sex to d point of being so randy around men, does she sleep with any man that comes her way when d urge comes or she has a bf who services her? If d addiction isnt leading to promiscuity i would say she should get married to a man good in bed and forget her worries. She can also use masturbation to suffice to prevent STDs, abortions and loss of her dignity.

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Rickmann(m): 8:21pm On May 23
Allsingles:
She can overcome it if she is determined and that is by avoiding pornographic pictures and websites.

Be committed with God, surrender her life to God and accept that she has sinned against God and willing to come back to him.

Stay away to those guys on speed dial whenever she want sex because those guys too is a problem to her since they can't resist her whenever she ask for sex.

Mind u, she doesn't even need pornography...the thought of sex alone consumes her and that's the damn problem.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Aditkd(f): 8:26pm On May 23
Please she will need the aid of a psychologist ASAP. This is a serious issue pls.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Fidelismaria: 8:27pm On May 23
"Guys can barely say no"

What an insult

The male gender has really suffered a lot of ridicule

Nonsense
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Rickmann(m): 8:28pm On May 23
dialajenni:
Just take your Bible or Quran and read...

I strongly agree with you dear... In such a case, constant reading of the Bible or the Quran like u said, is the remedy. She needs to strengthen her mortal body along side her spirit with God's word and hopefully she'll heal with time.

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Greatlee54: 8:28pm On May 23
Hormonal issues is what I see here
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by OnPointMan(m): 8:37pm On May 23
Tell her to go for counseling. You can contact me through the number on my signature for how to go about it. I know people who can help.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Blackmoran(m): 8:45pm On May 23
buy a vibrator for her as a present....... simple

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by lightangel65i(m): 9:12pm On May 23
Made up story girls don't have sexual drive
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by lograr(m): 9:15pm On May 23
DanseMacabre:
grin

I can help your friend.

I studied delibidinisation at undergraduate level and am currently pursuing my PhD in Dekonjification Approaches.

Gimme her number. undecided

Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Nyamve1: 9:19pm On May 23
Jesus is the answer to ur friend's problem
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Exc2000: 9:25pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

get married, no point demonizing the fact that you have a higher libido, find a guy who also has a high sex drive and can have sex 3 times a week and settle down
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by ZINIBANKS: 9:32pm On May 23
Ohh poor girl embarassed
OP she's konjiralized I also had a neighbor who was once konjitic God really use me for her
OP send me her contact I can be of help to her
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Dfynboi: 9:34pm On May 23
some guys here will be like" abeg b4 she change 4 gud let me collect my share of d coochie"
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by gift2xl: 9:34pm On May 23
There is no cure.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by mechanics(m): 9:40pm On May 23
She should marry
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by NwaliE01(m): 9:58pm On May 23
Let her check whether she is under a SPELL
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:16pm On May 23
She works in a multi-national and has a tight work schedule but she has her weekends to herself.

Abfinest007:
She should get busy all the time, in that case she won't think about sex
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:17pm On May 23
What is it? Tell me here first.

James4bright:
Tell her to reach out to me. I have something special to tell her.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:20pm On May 23
You don't have a problem with that kind of addiction?
varnaija:

Why stop when she likes it. Do as much, you only live once. Just practice safe sex.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:20pm On May 23
You don't have a problem with that kind of addiction?

varnaija:

Why stop when she likes it. Do as much, you only live once. Just practice safe sex.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:22pm On May 23
A therapist? Do we have good ones Nigeria?

Aditkd:
Please she will need the aid of a psychologist ASAP. This is a serious issue pls.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:22pm On May 23
Explain please

Greatlee54:
Hormonal issues is what I see here
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 10:24pm On May 23
mechanics:
She should marry

I've heard this many times but the truth is women don't just decide to marry and marry. There has to be a man and he makes the final call.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by stonemasonn: 10:26pm On May 23
She should try circumcision wink
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by mechanics(m): 10:30pm On May 23
Norahsthought:


I've heard this many times but the truth is women don't just decide to marry and marry. There has to be a man and he makes the final call.
Then he shouldn't do what she wants him to do.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by James4bright(m): 10:37pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
What is it? Tell me here first.


I need to ask her some private questions na. I can be very helpful, trust me. Lol
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by VicM6: 10:38pm On May 23
Ipromote:
Tell her to get married.

I hope she overcome it though. Addictions like these are hard to beat. I feel her. cry

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I rest my case on the guy she will marry, you will read the full story back here on NL... jst chil nd watch.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by ybalogs(m): 10:42pm On May 23
HarunaWest:
Advise her to get married then
Simple and short.

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