Amya:


Her mum (mil) called me and started blasting me. Saying I'm feeling too big to be helped

He thinks i rejected the offer because of pride.

What i am trying to understand is why both your mother in-law and your husband are accusing you of pride.? Other than that the only place i would fault you was why you didn't tell your husband about it after your conversation with her sister

Such scam job offers abound in Abuja and Lagos. You did well.

Amya:
I have never discussed jobs with her before so the call took me by surprise.

Are you sure? Cos I went through your thread on 7th Jan. And you sound like one who's desperate for job and can discuss with anyone around
....my advice to you is that, since your hubby was the one to pay the money, you should have let him pay

Amya:
I've been looking to get a federal agency job in Abuja for a while now and haven't yet had any reasonable connection.

Madam if he thinks you rejected because of pride, kuku tell him you’re sorry and are willing to take it now if he can pay for you.

Amya:
Modified: What's it with nairaland guys and they always trying desperately to fault women in any post concerning them. How can i in good conscience tell my husband that his sister is trying to scam us? Do you know the blowout that could happen from it? The bad blood that may be forever caused by such accusstion? Yeah my sil was trying to pull a con, but she's not the devil. Even now, I respect her and still relate well with her especially as she didnt succeed.

For my husband, i told him that his sister could mean well and i just wasn't sure of her source and when a source I'm sure about comes around, only then will we pay, but if he still believes the job is legit, he can go ahead and pay. Of course he didn't pay and the whole thing ended there.

The way i did it was the best because even now, everything has died down. Pkatakpata they'd only say i was too proud to take the job offer. That isnt a sin.

now here we go... it's now about guys and not the issue on ground anymore. were you expecting to hear something and you didn't? you telling us here she is trying to scam you but you can't tell that to your husband.
what's that?

shiki:

Are you sure? Cos I went through your thread on 7th Jan. And you sound like one who's desperate for job and can discuss with anyone around
....my advice to you is that, since your hubby was the one to pay the money, you should have let him pay

Discussing with people with info on what i seek does not make me desperate .

Odoogu:

now here we go... it's now about guys and not the issue on ground anymore. were you expecting to hear something and you didn't? you telling us here she is trying to scam you but you can't tell that to your husband.
what's that?

You're not very bright.

Amya:

You're not very bright.

You better don't mind those saying your husband should pay for a scam. As if the money is sooooo easy to come by.
If he wants to dash his sister money, let him do it but not under the guise of paying for a fake job.
Those asking him to pay for a fake job are perhaps among those who send fake messages to people's phones asking them to come for fake interviews and to pay certain amount. I had similar experience with this nnpc scam as far back as 13 years ago, so it hasn't changed at all. I didnt fall for it then, and nobody should now.
It's not a new scam and everybody knows about such.
No be today yansh dey back

Amya:
You're not very bright.

that's your opinion and I won't hold you against it. selah

You did everything RIGHT!! I hope I marry someone as smart as you. XOXO

Amya:


Discussing with people with info on what i seek does not make me desperate .

i know you are not, what i mean is, you may discuss with her but you may forgot

i mean no offence Amya, i'm sorry if my words were harsh

Amya:


Discussing with people with info on what i seek does not make me desperate .

If you don't mind will love to help out (not with a job) this is my email; israelsf2@gmail.com

Have been a big fan of your chronology from Kaduna (you know the topic am referring to)

Enjoy your day