simplepee:
Very silly.

With a baby mama, you don't have a say in her life, she will sometimes drag you, she decides when you can see your kids especially when they are young, you have no idea what she exposes your kids to, you will have a lot of court cases and on and on. Why go through all that stress with different women when life is short. It is either you are married or stay on your own without kids. Don't compare a baby mama with a wife. There is no God fearing baby mama, she wouldn't agree to be a baby mama if she is.

With a wife, you have the opportunity to be in every part of your kids' life till they grow. Mind you, marriage is not ONLY about birthing kids.

simplepee:
Interesting.

Men seeing marriage like favour done to women as usual.

If you TRULY believe in God, then you shouldn't have a problem with getting married because God supports it, that is how he wants it. Two heads they say are better than one.

Only if you marry a liability then your name is sorry.

crafteck:



You haven't said anything about value of marriage to a man, "if you believe in God" isnt a reason

pansophist:
For men, marriage can only be hell if he is NOT with a good woman, for it is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. (Prov 21.9).

Commitment is a natural way men become responsbile, and establish themselves as a valuable male capable of reproduction and organising a household, which further qualifies them for a bigger leadership task society confers. It is why most positions of authority requires a man heading a family.

A woman makes a man life beautiful beyond what he could achieve himself, such as being a mother to his kids, integrating her feminine energy into the typical rigid lifestyle of men, and makes him feel valuable and desired. By default, the life of a man is candle fire, and the quality of women he will attract depends if he has transform the candle fire to a furnace.

This is the natural order of things, and instead of see a reason why marriage is bad, see a reason why its good instead.

Davash222:
There's nothing a married wife can do that a baby mama can not do.

come back after five years of marriage and tell me if you still hold this opinion

#marriageisascam!

pansophist:
For men, marriage can only be hell if he is NOT with a good woman, for it is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. (Prov 21.9).

Commitment is a natural way men become responsbile, and establish themselves as a valuable male capable of reproduction and organising a household, which further qualifies them for a bigger leadership task society confers. It is why most positions of authority requires a man heading a family.

A woman makes a man life beautiful beyond what he could achieve himself, such as being a mother to his kids, integrating her feminine energy into the typical rigid lifestyle of men, and makes him feel valuable and desired. By default, the life of a man is candle fire, and the quality of women he will attract depends if he has transform the candle fire to a furnace.

This is the natural order of things, and instead of see a reason why marriage is bad, see a reason why its good instead.

are you married?

simplepee:
Thank God we still have sensible men.
It's a win win for both parties if they are both good.

simplepee:
Interesting.

Men seeing marriage like favour done to women as usual.

If you TRULY believe in God, then you shouldn't have a problem with getting married because God supports it, that is how he wants it. Two heads they say are better than one.

Only if you marry a liability then your name is sorry.

simplepee:
If you can't read in between the lines, face front.

Davash222:
There's nothing a married wife can do that a baby mama can not do.

pansophist:
For men, marriage can only be hell if she is NOT a good woman, for it is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. (Prov 21.9).

Commitment is a natural way men become responsbile, and establish themselves as a valuable male capable of reproduction and organising a household, which further qualifies them for a bigger leadership task society confers. It is why most positions of authority requires a man heading a family.

A woman makes a man life beautiful beyond what he could achieve himself, such as being a mother to his kids, integrating her feminine energy into the typical rigid lifestyle of men, and makes him feel valuable and desired. By default, the life of a man is candle fire, and the quality of women he will attract depends if he has transform the candle fire to a furnace.

This is the natural order of things, and instead of see a reason why marriage is bad, see a reason why its good instead.