It is nothing but using the pumpumn as a weapon to pressure men into marriage.

You are not being fair to the guys....and i will explain.

Can you accept the following conditions,then i will know you are fair.

*he would not kiss you or hug you till marriage

*he would only call you once or twice a month

*he would not compliment you till marriage

*he would not ask you to visit him till marriage

*he would not buy you gifts till marriage

*he will not take you out till marriage

*you can only see him twice a month 1 hour each day

The thing is men have a drive for sex,and women have a drive to receive care and attention and if you not prepared to have sex with him....he should not give you the attention,care and validation you crave for.....if he does that he is getting the short end of the stick.

Men should not be made to feel like bad people or perverts for wanting sex as they were biologically designed to do.

All is fair in love and war.

Yes ooo. Your Sisters and Daughters should give it freely to anyone who ask. At least they will help service the Men that need it. So let leave the Ladies that prefer to keep their. 'Honeypot'.
And I trust, you will like to marry a lady with a body count >100.

JasonJidenna:
If the much publicized sex in this write-up is what Femi Otedola, Adenuga and Elumelu used in acquiring their wealth and fame, then I am interested...

If @ this time of Covid19 you have not realised that all this wealth and fame means nothing, then you have learnt nothing in life. I gree say OP topic no make sense, Buh your response sef no make sense..

HarunaWest:

If @ this time of Covid19 you have not realised that all this wealth and fame means nothing, then you have learnt nothing in life. I gree say OP topic no make sense, Buh your response sef no make sense..

A sensible person will quietly contribute to the topic and allow other people share their own opinions...


But you're so intellectually barren to know that.


Stay Safe.

HarunaWest:

If @ this time of Covid19 you have not realised that all this wealth and fame means nothing, then you have learnt nothing in life. I gree say OP topic no make sense, Buh your response sef no make sense..

wealth and fame means nothing?

Dey there dey console yourself.

go and make more money and see if it will mean nothing to you.

I just have nothing to say

theophorus:
Yes ooo. Your Sisters and Daughters should give it freely to anyone who ask. At least they will help service the Men that need it. So let leave the Ladies that prefer to keep their. 'Honeypot'.
And I trust, you will like to marry a lady with a body count >100.

okay

stupidity:
wealth and fame means nothing?
Dey there dey console yourself.
go and make more money and see if it will mean nothing to you.

in the end everything is the same

Those comparisons of yours are just things you made up.

Sex is still sacred, and women who have decided to maintain their stand on no sex till marriage should not be condemned. If you really want a woman to the point you want to spend the rest of your life with her, what prevents you from marrying her? Then you can keep having sex till you die.

Will you go and collect a car from the dealer and start driving up and down the town, just like that? If you want a car, you inspect. If you really want it, you pay and you take the car home. It becomes yours. You're willing to take a risk on that car, out of the numerous cars in the market.

If no sex till marriage is the only condition a woman has given you, if she's genuine and you truly love her, you don't need a wedding that will have all your village people in attendance. Just do something modest and she's all yours.

Lostz:


in the end everything is the same

everything is the same but how about working hard to play a major role in this earthly script?

You want to be the actor or passerby in the movie? That’s what matters

stupidity:
everything is the same but how about working hard to play a major role in this earthly script?

You want to be the actor or passerby in the movie? That’s what matters

in the end having enough to live is the only important thing.

we are all passerby

SavageMaster:
Those comparisons of yours are just things you made up.

Sex is still sacred, and women who have decided to maintain their stand on no sex till marriage should not be condemned. If you really want a woman to the point you want to spend the rest of your life with her, what prevents you from marrying her? Then you can keep having sex till you die.

Will you go and collect a car from the dealer and start driving up and down the town, just like that? If you want a car, you inspect. If you really want it, you pay and you take the car home. It becomes yours. You're willing to take a risk on that car, out of the numerous cars in the market.

If no sex till marriage is the only condition a woman has given you, if she's genuine and you truly love her, you don't need a wedding that will have all your village people in attendance. Just do something modest and she's all yours.

I agree but they should go for men who are interested in settling down in say 6 months time....and not put the burden an guys who they know have no intention of settling down in say 2 or 3 years time, but because they are attracted to him the want to use the vagina to blackmail him into settling down sooner.

What money cannot solve, more money will solve it.

As someone born and bred in Nigeria, so much money opens all doors.

Lostz:
in the end having enough to live is the only important thing.

we are all passerby

think of making a lot of money and leaving it all behind someday. It shouldn’t be about you. Leaving it behind will impact others lives. For the better. Don’t be selfish bro. I’m guessing you think dying and leaving everything behind is what everything comes down to. You have family, not just family.


everyone is a passerby but your humanitarian contribution to earth life matters to.

If the money plenty well well, and I die leave am, family, friends and whoever can benefit from it.

Op they are coming for you.

theophorus:
Yes ooo. Your Sisters and Daughters should give it freely to anyone who ask. At least they will help service the Men that need it. So let leave the Ladies that prefer to keep their. 'Honeypot'.
And I trust, you will like to marry a lady with a body count >100.

women including my sisters and daughters who want to wait till marriage should go for men who are interested in settling down in say 6 months time....and not put the burden on guys who they know have no intention of settling down in say 2 or 3 years time, but because they are attracted to him the want to use the vagina to blackmail him into settling down sooner.

HarunaWest:

If @ this time of Covid19 you have not realised that all this wealth and fame means nothing, then you have learnt nothing in life. I gree say OP topic no make sense, Buh your response sef no make sense..

Spot on

stupidity:
think of making a lot of money and leaving it all behind someday. It shouldn’t be about you. Leaving it behind will impact others lives. For the better. Don’t be selfish bro. I’m guessing you think dying and leaving everything behind is what everything comes down to. You have family, not just family.


everyone is a passerby but your humanitarian contribution to earth life matters to.

If the money plenty well well, and I die leave am, family, friends and whoever can benefit from it.

why accumulate wealth when people are starving only because of leaving it behind?
why can't you give them out when alive.


after death nothing matters to you. you know nothing.
you won't even know if your family is starving, eating or died few months after your death.

in the end being happy is all that matters in life

Lostz:


why accumulate wealth when people are starving only because of leaving it behind?
why can't you give them out when alive.


after death nothing matters to you. you know nothing.
you won't even know if your family is starving, eating or died few months after your death.

in the end being happy is all that matters in life

i didn’t say you should accumulate wealth. The argument was what if one dies and leaves it all behind. That’s the argument.


Your submission is wrong, we will all die and not know if family are starving or not. But does this mean we shouldn’t accumulate the wealth when we can? If families don’t get to enjoy the wealth, others around will.


Imagine someone like mayweather leaving millions of dollars behind. If it doesn’t get to family, others will benefit from it. That is my argument bro.

stupidity:
i didn’t say you should accumulate wealth. The argument was what if one dies and leaves it all behind. That’s the argument.


Your submission is wrong, we will all die and not know if family are starving or not. But does this mean we shouldn’t accumulate the wealth when we can? If families don’t get to enjoy the wealth, others around will.


Imagine someone like mayweather leaving millions of dollars behind. If it doesn’t get to family, others will benefit from it. That is my argument bro.

what matters is when you are alive. when you are gone is the business of those alive.

you should be good as long as you have enough to live and be happy.

Lostz:


what matters is when you are alive. when you are gone is the business of those alive.

you should be good as long as you have enough to live and be happy.

i see where you are coming from.

“Men of little faith”

Dream big bro. The fact we all going to die shouldn’t stop anyone from making it big. Leaving it behind or not.

stupidity:
i see where you are coming from.

“Men of little faith”

Dream big bro. The fact we all going to die shouldn’t stop anyone from making it big. Leaving it behind or not.

we all can't make it big.

no one should be made to feel less human because of not being dangote.

if you are lucky fine. if you are not, just be happy

HarunaWest:

If @ this time of Covid19 you have not realised that all this wealth and fame means nothing, then you have learnt nothing in life. I gree say OP topic no make sense, Buh your response sef no make sense..

Let me not learn anything.....


Poverty is the last thing I should dine with because wealth and game means nothing according to you...


I want to be rich and very rich and I want it to be vanity upon vanity and I will so much love the vanity to a point that I will never get to see poor people around me as I will ensure that I change a village into a city....


I am even in love with the sound of vanity upon vanity....

JasonJidenna:
If the much publicized sex in this write-up is what Femi Otedola, Adenuga and Elumelu used in acquiring their wealth and fame, then I am interested...

Lostz:
we all can't make it big.

no one should be made to feel less human because of not being dangote.

if you are lucky fine. if you are not, just be happy

we all can. It’s your mindset. Nothing but your mindset.

yanabasee:



Let me not learn anything.....


Poverty is the last thing I should dine with because wealth and game means nothing according to you...


I want to be rich and very rich and I want it to be vanity upon vanity and I will so much love the vanity to a point that I will never get to see poor people around me as I will ensure that I change a village into a city....


I am even in love with the sound of vanity upon vanity....

stupidity:
we all can. It’s your mindset. Nothing but your mindset.

not my mindset. that is the way the world is. it has been like that since the beginning

Lostz:


not my mindset. that is the way the world is. it has been like that since the beginning

bro I said it’s your mindset. You are programmed to think you can’t make it big. Break that jinx bro.


I can help you. Not help you to make money but help you overcome that poor mindset. It’s all in your head