So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

marry her properly before u vandalise the place again

U can start immediately so dat u give am another belle and the circle continues.

maxjax:
marry her properly before u vandalise the place again

what am i vandalising? I thought people don't steal what is theirs?

For the one wey happen to my guy, na the girl still come back again for sex. My guy was dumb founded, I swear some girls no dey pity themselves.

Balaxx:
U can start immediately so dat u give am another belle and the circle continues.

Do you mean i am sterile or incapable of having a gf?

How is the situation attention seeking?

itzdeejay:

what am i vandalising? I thought people don't steal what is theirs?

you think its yours....but its not. my frnd go and do the needful

itzdeejay:


what am i vandalising? I thought people don't steal what is theirs?

Its never yours until you pay for it

itzdeejay:
So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

just negodu! Nonsense questions, what do you want us to tell you?

You and your corrupt Government is in the same WhatsApp group.

I like dis guuyyyy








very responsible and considerate

itzdeejay:


Do you mean i am sterile or incapable of having a gf?

How is the situation attention seeking?

BELLE GIVER,IMPREGNATOR

Gentle0wavez:
For the one wey happen to my guy, na the girl still come back again for sex. My guy was dumb founded, I swear some girls no dey pity themselves.

Men!! Honestly para dey oh!
Not that we cant protect or prevent it, but what if there is another stubborn sperm that refuses to comply with our intentions and goes in to mate....again!

I cant see her pass through the pains again.

Balaxx:
BELLE GIVER,IMPREGNATOR

The positive i took away from the experince is that, we are both fertile. It would have been triplet.

Aboks:

Its never yours until you pay for it

Are they selling 'it'? I thought we are humans?

devil pro

itzdeejay:


Are they selling 'it'?
I thought we are humans?

Pay bride prize and it becomes yours

Yungmil:
I like dis guuyyyy







very responsible and considerate

It is our problem and not hers.

itzdeejay:


Men!! Honestly para dey oh!
Not that we cant protect or prevent it, but what if there is another stubborn sperm that refuses to comply with our intentions and goes in to mate....again!

I cant see her pass through the pains again.

But condom still dey market na

Matured tadpoles Hot motherf*cker.

You just dont know the curse that is following you and that girl up and down. You think abortion is child's play. Karma will hit you hard. wait for it.

itzdeejay:


what am i vandalising? I thought people don't steal what is theirs?

How is she yours? Have you paid her brideprice, what is the legal thing binding the both of you?

I don't blame you though. I blame the Dumbo dating you

Abortion is dangerous mehn....

How soon she recovers depends on:

1. How far gone she was before the abortion. This is because while abortion recovery times vary from woman to woman it is generally known that Women who have first trimester abortions and those who do not have any complications will usually feel normal within a few days. The bleeding usually stops within 6 weeks.However, if a woman has an abortion later in pregnancy, especially during the second trimester, the symptoms may be more severe.Recovery may take longer for late-term abortions. If complications develop, recovery can take much longer, and people may need hospitalization or surgery. This is unusual though, and most women will recover within a few weeks. The longer she had carried the pregnancy, the more time it would generally take her time to heal.

2. The method used for the abortion. A doctor may recommend different methods of abortion according to a woman’s medical needs and stage of pregnancy. These include, the abortion pill, vacuum aspiration dilation and evacuation, or D&E. Women may usually experience similar symptoms regardless of the method.

After an abortion, it is normal for women to experience the following symptoms:
-bleeding or what is called spotting for 3–6 weeks, although some women do not bleed at all
-passing small- to medium-sized blood clots
-cramping that is similar to or slightly heavier than that of a menstrual period
-painful or swollen breasts
-The usual menstrual period should return within 4–8 weeks, although the flow of the bleeding may be slightly different initially.

Some women feel very emotional or experience mood swings. The change in pregnancy hormones can be responsible for this, or it might result from their feelings about the abortion or the pregnancy. Sometimes it will be a combination of both factors.

After an abortion she is supposed to visit the doctor who performed the procedure for follow up checks.

THE GENERAL RULE OF THUMB IS:

1. She should be physically ready. Allow all pains heal. All side effects to clear. Allow all bleeding from the procedure to stop. Allow her menstrual period to return to normal. This takes about 2 months on the average.

2. She should be emotionally/psychologically ready. The feeling of guilt. Mood swings. Etc. Should have elapsed. This has no definite time frame. It depends on her psychological/mental integrity.

Thank for this, it has all the infos i need.

Hope say u go marry dis ur galfrd??hope u wont dump her after so many abortions??

itzdeejay:


Men!! Honestly para dey oh!
Not that we cant protect or prevent it, but what if there is another stubborn sperm that refuses to comply with our intentions and goes in to mate....again!

I cant see her pass through the pains again.

u can start as soon as possible..as far as she av done abortion already u gat no fears...jus take bitter kola so dt sperm wud be very active and you last long...dont forget to pour all ur contents in her afterall if she get belle again, abortion de...attention seeking robot..

itzdeejay:


what am i vandalising? I thought people don't steal what is theirs?

if it's yours there wouldn't be any need aborting the outcome

itzdeejay:
So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

Pls just shut up! If she loses her womb now, will u marry her? Selfish mofo

paulolee:
u can start as soon as possible..as far as she av done abortion already u gat no fears...jus take bitter kola so dt sperm wud be very active and you last long...dont forget to pour all ur contents in her afterall if she get belle again, abortion de...attention seeking robot..

I wanted to respond aggresively to your post, but when i saw your profile and its picture, i decided against it.
I will just say "be mindful of how you share your opinion, since you are so opinionated and wander around nairaland sharing it, you may not know who is who, i might be the person to change that dirty towel on your head to a fancy cap".

itzdeejay:


I wanted to respond aggresively to your post, but when i saw your profile and its picture, i decided against it.
I will just say "be mindful of how you share your opinion, since you are so opinionated and wander around nairaland sharing it, you may not know who is who, i might be the person to change that dirty towel on your head to a fancy cap".

lolz..c who wan change person life de find attention on a bright sunday morning abt a stupid fake question.abeg i no wan talk..jus de ur lane

PoliticallyInco:
How soon she recovers depends on:

1. How far gone she was before the abortion. This is because while abortion recovery times vary from woman to woman it is generally known that Women who have first trimester abortions and those who do not have any complications will usually feel normal within a few days. The bleeding usually stops within 6 weeks.However, if a woman has an abortion later in pregnancy, especially during the second trimester, the symptoms may be more severe.Recovery may take longer for late-term abortions. If complications develop, recovery can take much longer, and people may need hospitalization or surgery. This is unusual though, and most women will recover within a few weeks. The longer she had carried the pregnancy, the more time it would generally take her time to heal.

2. The method used for the abortion. A doctor may recommend different methods of abortion according to a woman’s medical needs and stage of pregnancy. These include, the abortion pill, vacuum aspiration dilation and evacuation, or D&E. Women may usually experience similar symptoms regardless of the method.

After an abortion, it is normal for women to experience the following symptoms:
-bleeding or what is called spotting for 3–6 weeks, although some women do not bleed at all
-passing small- to medium-sized blood clots
-cramping that is similar to or slightly heavier than that of a menstrual period
-painful or swollen breasts
-The usual menstrual period should return within 4–8 weeks, although the flow of the bleeding may be slightly different initially.

Some women feel very emotional or experience mood swings. The change in pregnancy hormones can be responsible for this, or it might result from their feelings about the abortion or the pregnancy. Sometimes it will be a combination of both factors.

After an abortion she is supposed to visit the doctor who performed the procedure for follow up checks.

THE GENERAL RULE OF THUMB IS:

1. She should be physically ready. Allow all pains heal. All side effects to clear. Allow all bleeding from the procedure to stop. Allow her menstrual period to return to normal. This takes about 2 months on the average.

2. She should be emotionally/psychologically ready. The feeling of guilt. Mood swings. Etc. Should have elapsed. This has no definite time frame. It depends on her psychological/mental integrity.

I felt very uncomfortable reading this. Imagine the pain a girl would go through after abortion and some gals do perform numerous abortions.
The bleeding for 3 - 6 weeks got my attention most. Is the pain and stress worth the unprotected sex?
Abeg, abstaining from sex is the best. I can't imagine myself going all through this stress.....

ALWAYS USE PROTECTION IF YOU WANT TO DO TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCHES THE HEART LIKE THE OP'S.