Joycekkh:
You just dont know the curse that is following you and their girl up and down. You think abortion is child's play. Karma will hit you hard. wait for it.

Karma will be so fair to me due to the way i have treated her and the 'supposed child' wil understand that we want the best for him/her and this wasnt the best time him/her to come.
We will be expecting him/her soon but if the child cant wait in there, he/her should move to another womb that is capable and ready to do a better job than us.

itzdeejay:


I wanted to respond aggresively to your post, but when i saw your profile and its picture, i decided against it.
I will just say "be mindful of how you share your opinion, since you are so opinionated and wander around nairaland sharing it, you may not know who is who, i might be the person to change that dirty towel on your head to a fancy cap".

santa claus..

Joycekkh:
How is she yours? Have you paid her brideprice, what is the legal thing binding the both of you?

What is legal have to do with living ones life with someone you want to be with and both of you happy?
Is legal suppose to be another 2 persons life determinant?

xynerise:
I don't blame you though. I blame the Dumbo dating you

She is actually no dumbo!
I bet if you see her, you would want to snatch her or atleast taste it.

itzdeejay:
So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

I really don’t know how legal abortion is, seizing life from a feotus. Most ladies don’t even know what they are doing to their lives, you are no different from a murderer. You committed one and now you planning on how to start up another one. May God help you both....it is not like you both will even marry!

illicit:
Abortion is dangerous mehn....

And having a grumbling and unwanted child that will now be termed a mistake and probably later loved by sentiment is more dangerous, not just to us, but to the society and enviroment.

Futurejoy:

I really don’t know how legal abortion is, seizing life from a feotus. Most ladies don’t even know what they are doing to their lives, you are no different from a murderer. You committed one and now you planning on how to start up another one. May God help you both....it is not like you both will even marry!

I understand you. Life is important but only to the child in the stomach, the mothe's life is not important?
Same with the condition the child will grow in too.

Lets look at the foetus from the onset and generalize together.
It also means;
Sperm cell and ovaries should be protected bc they are living cells and are small babies.
It means menstration should be prevented bc you are wasting and killing the eggs(murderer) every woman should get pregnant everytime and avoid let the ovaries from dying.
Masturbation is murder!
What happens to the girls swallowing cum?(carnibals)
What about condoms, 'pull out game', using other methods of birth control is murder

FreeMejoor1:
santa claus..

Now you are understanding.

itzdeejay:
So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

You are wicked than the devil.
You got her pregnant, you had the pregnancy aborted, and now you are in a hurry to go into her again.
You no get sister Bros abeg you no get conscience??...

I don't blame you.

It's the girl I would blame if she opens her leg for you without paying her bride price first.

That lady that was dumped after 24 abortions, also started like this.

itzdeejay:


I understand you. Life is important but only to the child in the stomach, the mothe's life is not important?
Same with the condition the child will grow in too.

Lets look at the foetus from the onset and generalize together.
It also means;
Sperm cell and ovaries should be protected bc they are living cells and are small babies.
It means menstration should be prevented bc you are wasting and killing the eggs(murderer) every woman should get pregnant everytime and avoid let the ovaries from dying.
Masturbation is murder!
What happens to the girls swallowing cum?(carnibals)
What about condoms, 'pull out game', using other methods of birth control is murder

We can all eat egg but no one will agree to eat a chick that just crack up from its shell.....think about it

Futurejoy:

We can all eat egg but no one will agree to eat a chick that just crack up from its shell.....think about it

How do we eat egg if we dont crack the shell?
Think about!
Is is only an ignorant person that belives or use this analogy.
But then we are all guity of ignorance.

itzdeejay:


How do we eat egg if we dont crack the shell?
Think about!
Is is only an ignorant person that belives or use this analogy.
But then we are all guity of ignorance.

You can’t even comprehend that analogy, no need to banter words with you.

itzdeejay:


And having a grumbling and unwanted child that will now be termed a mistake and probably later loved by sentiment is more dangerous, not just to us, but to the society and enviroment.

Hmmm still, abortion is bad and u know it

i weak

Futurejoy:

You can’t even comprehend that analogy, no need to banter words with you.

I understand you still, you think because you dnt like cracked egg, you think everyone else, including me, shouldnt like cracked egg.
Maybe you are to tell me the kind of rice i should eat too, mayb foreign or local.
Since you want everyone to be and act like you.

As you like it.

Protected sex is the safest for everyone.

RTSC:
I don't blame you.

It's the girl I would blame if she opens her leg for you without paying her bride price first.

That lady that was dumped after 24 abortions, also started like this.

You people are leaving the solicited advice and putting opinion where it is not needed.

Am i the man that abadoned the lady after 24 abortion?
Did i tell u i would not marry someone that have had 24 abortions?
Did she tell you she wanted your pity and blame?
Did she tell you that she is not happy or we are not happy?
The enemy of knowledge isnt ignorance but "illusion of knowing".

itzdeejay:


You people are leaving the solicited advice and putting opinion where it is not needed.

Am i the man that abadoned the lady after 24 abortion?
Did i tell u i would not marry someone that have had 24 abortions?
Did she tell you she wanted your pity and blame?
Did she tell you that she is not happy or we are not happy?
The enemy of knowledge isnt ignorance but "illusion of knowing".

That is why I said I did not blame you.

It's the girl I blame if she allows herself to be messed up again.
No be today, men dey get sweet mouth.


Women that marry without aborting even once don't have two heads.

DO NOT FEED THE TROOL!!!

as long as you can wait.

RTSC:

That is why I said I did not blame you.

It's the girl I blame if she allows herself to be messed up again.
No be today, men dey get sweet mouth.
women dnt have swt mouth?
You where there doubt things the person that hurted you said, and you forgot to live life and not be entitled and sentiment, you would have being a happy person.

Women that marry without aborting even once don't have two heads.

They don't have two heads. yes, but as it has happened how do we put it back zero?

Macnnoli4:
Protected sex is the safest for everyone.

I know that, wasnt asking about what we should.

My question is "when is geuinie to touch her again, due to the pains she has had"?
Do they think i love seeing her sad or in pains?
I was asking for an advice and they want to derail it.

SweetCunt97:
Pls just shut up! If she loses her womb now, will u marry her? Selfish mofo

na d girl no get sense joor, how a guy go dey fvck u raw without paying ur bride price. Weytin do condoms. If he wants sex and u want it too, protect urself. And if e burst use flushers immediately in 24hrs. That's the disadvantage of dating teenage & early 20s guys and especially broke guys. They put u in family way, put through risk to terminate it.

fati2001:
as long as you can wait.

Thank you dear, this is well accepted and will work on it.

Some posts I read here make me believe this section should be turned to Literature section because they are shockingly inane.

itzdeejay:


Men!! Honestly para dey oh!
Not that we cant protect or prevent it, but what if there is another stubborn sperm that refuses to comply with our intentions and goes in to mate....again!

I cant see her pass through the pains again.

Use condom! Or place her on contraceptives!! Is that too hard?

You can start when she says she's ready

itzdeejay:
So my GF just had an abortion which drained her, it made her afraid of sex because she now fears the consequences which was painful to her and to me too, because i watched and nortured her while she was in pains.
So please when can she get pass the fear and scare it caused?

Secondly when is the appropriate time to re-start coupulation? my semens are turning to matured tadpoles due to the wait and i also don't want to hurry or hurt/scare her.
Have you had this experince? Share and advice me.

Guy, did you ejaculate full into her? Or were you using pull out method?

Ishilove:

Use condom! Or place her on contraceptives!! Is that too hard?

The question is not how to prevent pregnancy, the question is 'the time she has to take, to completely heal and maybe to start enjoying sex again (any kind of sex, that is if she want to)'.
I feel the pains will affect her reaction to sex too soon.

Scientists:


Guy, did you ejaculate full into her? Or were you using pull out method?

Why not watch porn? If you wanted a full sex escapede.
I can help you with a link in case.