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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jun 08, 2020
Me too I love pussy n boobs

That doesn't make me a gay or lezzzz wat so ever.



N for ur bf he's not suppose to be called a bf damn it.
He can't mk a girl to be wet, omg he can't even use his hands sorry I meant his middle finger n also caress n smooch omg sniff her neck. Not everything is pussy n dick (dangling tinx). U need to teast that thing for 5hrs
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by ferdvict2(m): 11:06pm On Jun 08, 2020
We all have problems.

I will start with yours.

It's something that you have made to be part of you by your conscious involvement to watching porn videos. You are now good with breasts and others.
Get a counselor. Leave porn alone. You have a boyfriend. Try to enjoy that you long to enjoy in your fellow woman with him though it may not be similar. Pray to God. Go for deliverance.

Based on the Academic aspect, this is a part of you, the more you try to deal with it. the more you may fall deep in it.

In a nutshell, the way out is from the mind and heart. The problem of the heart is the heart of the problem.

Now to my own problem.
Covid 19 has made me financially unstable.
Can you help?

Thanks.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by IamDavids: 11:11pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
how many gay people in Nigeria do you know that have children? Are you in this country? They are treated like lepers


Hey, do not limit your horizon. Who says you can't leave Nigeria? Whether you like it or not, you are who you are. You can't change your sexual orientation dear. You are wired in that particular way. I may sound weird but just maintain a low profile if you find a partner. Nigeria is backwards, i know right. LGBT community is stronger in Angola and South Africa and one other African country. 14 years for someone being natural doesn't make sense. But that's tale for another day. Homophobes are everywhere, even in Western countries. LGBT community tend to be stigmatized, so the need to keep a low profile in this God forsaken country.

It is pertinent to add that nothing is wrong with you my dear. If you get a patner, and i hope you do, a mature one at that, you can make plans on how to leave this country. There is S/A, if you can't afford the Western countries.

A lot of responsibilities come with my tips, you have to be up and doing if you want to live a happy and fulfilled life, not one that makes you bend to dogmas and conformists just because you want to please people and on the long run you are the one who suffers.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by IamDavids: 11:22pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
what are the options? My mom would be ashamed of me. I would be an outcast to all the people I love. I would be treated like a freak. Please explain this options


I guess you're sensitive. It's normal if you think of your loved ones. But you can't please others and subject yourself to hurts. You have not accepted your true identity yet and it's making the situation cumbersome. It's so sad that you ended up in a country like ours.

I understand our plight. But until you accept your sexuality, you would be going round circles. You want to please your loved ones, fine! The ball is in your court. I hope you find happiness in whatever decision you make.

The options won't be necessary again dear.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by kelvinrhs(m): 11:46pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me


First of all I am going to start by appreciating you for sharing your deepest concern cause I can feel like you are a Little bit desperate for help.

Been a lesbian is not really a bad thing, I know only a lady knows how to pleasure a lady better, I know how sweet the experience can be but there is absolutely nothing sweeter than a condo (Especially if the condo bearer now knows how to lick)

That been said, The Bible does not support been a lesbian but then the Bible gave us the right of freewill (Not sure if you are a christian)

So here's my advice, you either explore that side of you or you find a guy that can give you the lesbian experience.

Peace...
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by RealEzee(m): 11:54pm On Jun 08, 2020
Lust Lust Lust Root cause:porn Excuse :not experienced true orgasm with a guy

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by TMKsouth: 12:05am On Jun 09, 2020
IamDavids:



Hey, do not limit your horizon. Who says you can't leave Nigeria? Whether you like it or not, you are who you are. You can't change your sexual orientation dear. You are wired in that particular way. I may sound weird but just maintain a low profile if you find a partner. Nigeria is backwards, i know right. LGBT community is stronger in Angola and South Africa and one other African country. 14 years for someone being natural doesn't make sense. But that's tale for another day. Homophobes are everywhere, even in Western countries. LGBT community tend to be stigmatized, so the need to keep a low profile in this God forsaken country.

It is pertinent to add that nothing is wrong with you my dear. If you get a patner, and i hope you do, a mature one at that, you can make plans on how to leave this country. There is S/A, if you can't afford the Western countries.

A lot of responsibilities come with my tips, you have to be up and doing if you want to live a happy and fulfilled life, not one that makes you bend to dogmas and conformists just because you want to please people and on the long run you are the one who suffers.

Sound advice. cool
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by toks1610: 2:15am On Jun 09, 2020
My dear, it is only Jesus that can help you and i will be praying for you. you can reach me on whatsapp if you need couseling 07067484230
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by phemmyfour: 6:27am On Jun 09, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me
try and get pregnant, it ll change everything for you completely
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:51am On Jun 09, 2020
phemmyfour:
try and get pregnant, it ll change everything for you completely
really? How?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:54am On Jun 09, 2020
peterangelo:
Me too I love pussy n boobs

That doesn't make me a gay or lezzzz wat so ever.



N for ur bf he's not suppose to be called a bf damn it.
He can't mk a girl to be wet, omg he can't even use his hands sorry I meant his middle finger n also caress n smooch omg sniff her neck. Not everything is pussy n dick (dangling tinx). U need to teast that thing for 5hrs
from your bio u are a guy. Of course loving p*ssy and b**bs does not mean you gay. It makes you straight!
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Dominion202: 6:57am On Jun 09, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
between 25 and 28. I stay in Lagos, is there a counselor you recommend?



So you can't even give us ur real age?
Despite claiming u created fake acct.
Continue Lai Mohammed is watching you
grin
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by phemmyfour: 7:04am On Jun 09, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
really? How?
Pregnancy causes hormones to go crazy which could be affecting who you're attracted to. For example, it's not unusual that women are more attracted to feminine looking guys when they're not ovulating, and more masculine men when they are! Sexual orientation also changes for some women over time, but if it's a little "girl crush" then I don't think it's anything to worry about!
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by delkuf(m): 7:10am On Jun 09, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

Everything about gay and lesbianism is spiritually incline. Op, start going to church. be a worker in church and as funny as is it, give your heart to Jesus. only him can save you.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by fem12: 7:23am On Jun 09, 2020
Please kindly inbox my email : femmy_s@yahoo.com
I will discuss somethings privately with u .
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 7:32am On Jun 09, 2020
fem12:
Please kindly inbox my email : femmy_s@yahoo.com
I will discuss somethings privately with u .
please give me a hint. What kind of discussion? Are you a girl or guy? Are you a doctor or pastor? Have you had a similar experience?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nopanties: 8:15am On Jun 09, 2020
Bullet! Many igbo girls are lesbians, many hausa guys are gay. Na we wey remain rulers of the world, God give us brain to do the right thing. Oluwa lo se fun wa
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Dfynboi: 8:30am On Jun 09, 2020
u neva taste beta dick,once u do it will change ur life for gud
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 10:34am On Jun 09, 2020
Dfynboi:
u neva taste beta dick,once u do it will change ur life for gud
Really? Let me guess the said better di**k is yours?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Dfynboi: 6:23pm On Jun 09, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
Really? Let me guess the said better di**k is yours?
lol,jst stating d fact tho
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by myles16(m): 10:27pm On Jun 09, 2020
you're not a lesbian, i think you just feel like satisfying your curiosity ....the problem is that your ex abi your bf didn't watch the les porn with you and he didn't explore before doing the do or it's either you're bi-sexual
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by clevybrown(m): 11:42pm On Jun 09, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me
Do u know how and wen it all started, I mean the period in ur life wen u started having this strange feelings of attraction for ladies? The event or dominant habit u were involved with during this period that could have triggered it. Just take ur mind back, let's start from there, let's address it from the root, that's ur first gateway to retracing ur steps back to normalcy.
U sure will be fine, trust me smiley
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by sacajawea: 10:36am On Jun 11, 2020
mekuso89:
after all every female is a lesbian at heart.
Really!
Females is This true?

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 10:39am On Jun 11, 2020
I had an ex once that was a lesbian. Best sex I ever had and my first T*H*R*eesome with her lesbian buddie. Good Times cool
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by sacajawea: 10:43am On Jun 11, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


Has this always been a part of you or when did you notice this change? Is it when you started watching porn?
Good Question
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by gees101(m): 10:53am On Jun 11, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
how do I stop been one. I am very pretty. Jail would not fit me.
come oh
who jail fit ?
u be rich man pikin abi
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 2:12pm On Jun 11, 2020
If I bang you once that feelings will wipe off from your mind
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Markbrowny: 1:01pm On Jan 26
girlxxhiddenxx:
what are the options? My mom would be ashamed of me. I would be an outcast to all the people I love. I would be treated like a freak. Please explain this options

Be honest, your problem is masturbation with lesbian porn.

If you can stop this, and have a boyfriend you will thank me later.

But if you are not ready to give up on that, you will eventually graduate to a lesbian

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 12:51pm On Feb 20
Markbrowny:


Be honest, your problem is masturbation with lesbian porn.

If you can stop this, and have a boyfriend you will thank me later.

But if you are not ready to give up on that, you will eventually graduate to a lesbian
don't mind the foolish girl. She knows her problem, and knows what to do, but she doesn't want to take that bold step. The lust and the deeds have taken her far...but She can still change, but she doesn't seem to want to from all these comments of hers I've read. You'll answer to God in the end , so what's my own self...byee. And start going to church, since u said you don't. You know all your problems already. You want to be spoon-fed advice. For what na
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by BareFacedLies(m): 2:42pm On Feb 20
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me

You need a hard fùck from a strong guy to reset your brain.

I hereby volunteer myself for the job grin
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by MufasaLion(m): 8:59pm On Feb 20
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me

I can recommend a therapist for you.

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