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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:28pm On Jun 08, 2020
Aimerosa25:
my dear,I feel u should quit the porn,and get your self together these are signs of being a lesbian, but u will overcome by God's grace
thank you

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by CokeBar(f): 6:31pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
nothing in there body attracts me. The long organ actually annoys me. Pen*etr*ton is just annoying. (God please forgive me) but I fake enjoying it to make my then boyfriend happy. We had been together for soo long and you could see him trying to please me. I would be dry everywhere. I suggested we watch lesbian porn together and he refused. I understand why o.

Okay, I understand.

My second question... are you physically attracted to a lady? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:32pm On Jun 08, 2020
AmazingELixir:


There's absolutely no reason to judge you my dear...neither do I see how you feel as requiring help.

I don't just want to shake your hands....I just wish it could be a warm hug.
are u girl or a guy?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:32pm On Jun 08, 2020
CokeBar:


Okay, I understand.

My second question... are you physically attracted to a lady? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?
(god forgive me) yes
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:33pm On Jun 08, 2020
IamDavids:
You can't change yourself. You have to accept who you are. And being gay doesn't stop you from having kids. There are numerous options. I hope you find true love and be happy with your sexuality.
how many gay people in Nigeria do you know that have children? Are you in this country? They are treated like lepers

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Deltayankeeboi: 6:34pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me

What advice do you seek now?

The processes involved on how to stop being a lesbian or what.

You admit you watch porn which is a problem, then try to stop watching it. Problem solved. Unless you are already addicted to it which is hard to stop. The best place to get the help you seek is to filter your search on Google because Nigerians are not really exposed on same gender relations.

Highest advice you will get here is God will do it for you. Meet your pastor and I can personally tell you that, those advice will not work.

Is it that you are not attracted to guys or you are not attracted to male sexuality. Your post is not specific enough. Know that having a boyfriend does not mean you are attracted to guys. Maybe you are only using that to cover up.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by CokeBar(f): 6:37pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
(god forgive me) yes

There you go...

You have your answer smiley
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:38pm On Jun 08, 2020
Deltayankeeboi:


What advice do you seek now?

The processes involved on how to stop being a lesbian or what.

You admit you watch porn which is a problem, then try to stop watching it. Problem solved. Unless you are already addicted to it which is hard to stop. The best place to get the help you seek is to filter your search on Google because Nigerians are not really exposed on same gender relations.

Highest advice you will get here is God will do it for you. Meet your pastor and I can personally tell you that, those advice will not work.

Is it that you are not attracted to guys or you are not attracted to male sexuality. Your post is not specific enough. Know that having a boyfriend does not mean you are attracted to guys. Maybe you are only using that to cover up.
I don't like them sexually. But I enjoy having the care and attention of a man. I am desperate I had to try nairaland. Maybe someone else has experienced it before
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:38pm On Jun 08, 2020
CokeBar:


There you go...

You have your answer smiley
I the solution. How do i stop it. I want to like men please
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Emmyloyalty: 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
between 25 and 28. I stay in Lagos, is there a counselor you recommend?

None. You can get an online counselor to stay anonymous if you can't find an offline one. First, you have to help yourself by not watching porn or having any sex related talk with anyone.
The golden advise is you have to go for deliverance at any Bible believing church as this may be spiritual.
Do you serve and believe in God?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by RealtorX: 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me
There is no problem about this. At least one in every four women in America is either a gay or a lesbian and this applies to all human beings too. This is a natural feeling. I as a person, watching two females play with each other is a great turn-on for me. I get aroused easily.

Your feeling is natural and I love it!
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:42pm On Jun 08, 2020
RealtorX:

There is no problem about this. At least one in every four women in America is either a gay or a lesbian and this applies to all human beings too. This is a natural feeling. I as a person, watching two females play with each other is a great turn-on for me. I get aroused easily.

Your feeling is natural and I love it!
I am in Nigeria and not America. same sex relationships are a crime here.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:43pm On Jun 08, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


None. You can get an online counselor to stay anonymous if you can't find an offline one. First, you have to help yourself by not watching porn or having any sex related talk with anyone.
The golden advise is you have to go for deliverance at any Bible believing church as this may be spiritual.
Do you serve and believe in God?
I rarely go to church
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by KenBen217: 6:43pm On Jun 08, 2020
honestly when you see the kind of comments nairalanders make on some posts you can't help but ask if people are really mature on this platform as they claim to be...instead of being judgemental offer your advice and go...if not...just keep shut...my dear all I can say is...you should be sure what you want,you're not attracted to your boyfriend's organs is different from being attracted to male organs...your boyfriend is a male but not all males are the same with ur boyfriend...my simple saying is give it sometime,if it's not what you want,by all means get a girlfriend...but remember my dear THIS IS NIGERIA (that's if you're in Nigeria)...be doing your thing with sense o

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:44pm On Jun 08, 2020
CokeBar:


There you go...

You have your answer smiley
how do I stop been one. I am very pretty. Jail would not fit me.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:45pm On Jun 08, 2020
KenBen217:
honestly when you see the kind of comments nairalanders make on some posts you can't help but ask if people are really mature on this platform as they claim to be...instead of being judgemental offer your advice and go...if not...just keep shut...my dear all I can say is...you should be sure what you want,you're not attracted to your boyfriend's organs is different from being attracted to male organs...your boyfriend is a male but not all males are the same with ur boyfriend...my simple saying is give it sometime,if it's not what you want,by all means get a girlfriend...but remember my dear THIS IS NIGERIA (that's if you're in Nigeria)...be doing your thing with sense o
ok. Noted. Thank you
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by RealtorX: 6:47pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
I am in Nigeria and not America. same sex relationships are a crime here.
I'm talking about your feelings. I am not encouraging you having same sex relationship.
Nothing is wrong with your feelings.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:48pm On Jun 08, 2020
RealtorX:

I'm talking about your feelings. I am not encouraging you having same sex relationship.
Nothing is wrong with your feelings.
ok
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Osuman(m): 6:48pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me
.

Pm me let's talk.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by RenaissanceGuy: 6:49pm On Jun 08, 2020
Hello young lady,
My Jesus will deliver you and destroy those strange feelings from off you. I'm not promising it'd be instant, but you'll be delivered sooner than you expected.


Reading through your replies, i see that you're really passionate to be freeā€”that's the most important step. Others who had similar or more complicated experiences have been freed by God, so yours will not be an exemption.

What do you think?

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Paxie55: 6:49pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me
Some females enjoy watching lesbian porn but they are never lesbian.
You enjoy seeing boobs etc doesn't mean you are one. Stop such irritating thought.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Emmyloyalty: 6:51pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
I rarely go to church

You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:55pm On Jun 08, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

it is not particularly like a spirit comes into me. I just don't like having with a guy.i always imagine the guy is a lady and that is the only way I get aroused. My parents would be ashamed of me
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:55pm On Jun 08, 2020
Paxie55:

Some females enjoy watching lesbian open but they are never lesbian.
You enjoy seeing boobs etc doesn't mean you are one. Stop such irritating thought.
so I may not be?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Deltayankeeboi: 6:57pm On Jun 08, 2020
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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Emmyloyalty: 6:57pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
it is not particularly like a spirit comes into me. I just don't like having with a guy.i always imagine the guy is a lady and that is the only way I get aroused. My parents would be ashamed of me

Has this always been a part of you or when did you notice this change? Is it when you started watching porn?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Rgade: 7:00pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
I grew up religious but o disagree with a lot of things been preached in churches. But I am open to anything right now. This is how people's lifes gets ruined I already see myself in prison uniform serving 14years
Well there are no grey areas in religion, you're either in it or not. By disagreeing with a lot of things preached in churches,then you might as well be described as an unbeliever.
Why that part at the bolded? grin
Are you afraid of getting arrested and imprisoned for being a les? grin
Don't worry, the Nigerian law is lenient towards lesbians, you have only your friends and family to worry about.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 7:00pm On Jun 08, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


Has this always been a part of you or when did you notice this change? Is it when you started watching porn?
always
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by harry2sexy(m): 7:02pm On Jun 08, 2020
There are alot of bi-sexual couples, not a biggy, you'll eventually grow out of it
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Emmyloyalty: 7:02pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
always

There's certainly a time you noticed it. At what age?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by AmazingELixir: 7:04pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
are u girl or a guy?

I'm Adamic dear
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Deltayankeeboi: 7:04pm On Jun 08, 2020
Emmyloyalty:


You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

See what I'm talking about. Nigerians love religion more than common sense. OP don't deceive yourself, no church can help or save you. You will end up wasting your time, money and effort.

Your problem is psychological and emotional. It has nothing to do with religion.

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