Some parents are foolish

Why asking him to contribute 120K...

It is a pay back time. Let us learn to think about the future.

They told him to contribute towards the younger brother's wedding

Even na me too I won't pay a dime.

Let the boy too go and hustle like her husband did and pay.

Which type family be dis self?

well it's not good for parents to take bride price very high as if they are selling out their daughter, but I think the man should have just over looked it since he loves his wife, not sending money to his wife parents once in a while is bad and selfish of him if he is well to do financially, but in the aspect of contributing money for another man's bride price, I won't blame him at all, the wife's brother should go hustle and marry his wife, after all he is a man as well.

This are some of the response... From twitter..

I am not against payment of bride price tho.
But, y must they be treating d man like donkey that will always carry their load?

They are all Lazy and greedy in that woman's family. Imagine her telling her husband to be paying her parents monthly cos he's Dangote.

This must not be a true story abeg.

Exactly What you get when you get married in a parasitic home...Now they feel entitled to your money after being greedy...I �% support the man...Let her use her money to give to her brother... unfortunately she is not working...she would have understood that it is not easy to get a kobo...She can't start a business or do something to bring in cash...
Fellows...Don't get married from a poor family, If the family is poor, make sure they are not the poor greedy family....
If a girls family is poor...make sure she is doing something for herself before you marry her... because this will be the result... Always demanding for something

Ewooo. Useless young women everywhere. If I marry this type I'm finished. She has no job but dictates for another man how to spend his money. Her younger bro has no job as well and wants to marry. God no go allow us marry from cursed family.

This is funny, how will he be asked to contribute to brother in-law's traditional marriage list. Do they know how he struggled to get his.
They're trying to make him their ATM and it's not right.
If she was working she would have known what it feels like

Ahmed0336:
Even na me too I won't pay a dime.

Let the boy too go and hustle like her husband did and pay.

Which type family be dis self?

I agree, what kind of nonsense is this.

The wife no try at all

When we tell you guys to avoid brokeass girls you’d say we are hating. Broke girls from broke families don’t consider your own bills and responsibilities when billing you for their own needs.


This idiot of a wife is not bothered about her joblessness. All she cares about is how her family will take and take from her husband. I believe if she someday cheats on the man with a wealthier man, her father would quickly tell her to get a divorce so he can ship her off to the new bidder.


Don’t marry a broke jobless woman.


Marry women who have something tangible (other than their bodies) to contribute to your home.

MedicH:
Ewooo. Useless young women everywhere. If I marry this type I'm finished. She has no job but dictates for another man how to spend his money. Her younger bro has no job as well and wants to marry. God no go allow us marry from cursed family.

very nonsense something.

ettaetta:
well it's not good for parents to take bride price very high as if they are selling out their daughter, but I think the man should have just over looked it since he loves his wife, not sending money to his wife parents once in a while is bad and selfish of him if he is well to do financially, but in the aspect of contributing money for another man's bride price, I won't blame him at all, the wife's brother should go hustle and marry his wife, after all he is a man as well.

Gbam.

Oil dey your head

Did you marry him so that he could become your family's ATM?

MedicH:
Ewooo. Useless young women everywhere. If I marry this type I'm finished. She has no job but dictates for another man how to spend his money. Her younger bro has no job as well and wants to marry. God no go allow us marry from cursed family.

exactly people's point.. they shouldn't have asked him coz that's what they did to him also

Imagine! Just imagine this nonsense I just read. You billed a struggling man 580k just to marry your daughter he will still have to take care of like that isn't enough you want him to pay 120k out of your son's bills. What sort of madness is this nitori olorun

That husband is right, he owes her family nothing! "Won ti jeun omo soyun" . He owes them nothing! That woman had better calm down and apologize to her husband. If no be love a person wey dey collect #70k dey pay #580k singlehandedly for bride price. She shouldn't push it too far Biko.

Ariza:
Imagine! Just imagine this nonsense I just read. You billed a struggling man 580k just to marry your daughter he will still have to take care of like that isn't enough you want him to pay 120k out of your son's bills. What sort of madness is this nitori olorun

That husband is right, he owes her family nothing! "Won ti jeun omo soyun" . He owes them nothing! That woman had better calm down and apologize to her husband. If no be love a person wey dey collect #70k dey pay #580k singlehandedly for bride price. She shouldn't push it to far Biko.

You are too soft on the idiot of a wife. She is an entitled dull jobless brokeass WOMAN.

AfroKnight:



You are too soft on the idiot of a wife. She is an entitled full jobless brokeass WOMAN.

Nah the family I wan attack self but people dey talk say I rude, so I wan change

But the wife no get sense sha.

The Man Is A Milk Industry

Her bride price was ok oh...compare to what I was planning to pay on my ex's head....


And if he singlehandedly pay for her bride price, the younger brother must do same...

And the wife isn't smart.... telling that young man to place her own family on monthly wages from their stipend is annoying...

70k with yearly house rent, feeding, clothing, electricity bills, water bills, transportation to places, hospital bills, and pocket money, where the wife is a housewife special?


God....

Lemme laugh first

This is why we ask men to marry women that have something running or get them something to do. After coughing up 8months salary which she is fully aware of, spending on marriage, paying house bills, she and the family are asking him to cough another 2 months salary out. This is not only selfish , unreasonable, but also wicked. The wife's family is not his priority, his priorities are his immediate family and his wife are.

The family treated their own bleep up by asking extravagantly despite having knowledge of the husband's wallet. The wife now double bleeped up by saying double trash. The husband did well jare, the wife should just apologize and shut up since she's not offering anything to the family.

Nobody should date or marry knowing that he or she is and/or will be the sole provider and keep saying God will do it. Mouth won't pay bills, money will. Guys don't be the well where your partner fetches water from, tell them to dig their own well, two wells are not too much in a relationship.

yanabasee1:
Her bride price was ok oh...compare to what I was planning to pay on my ex's head....


And if he singlehandedly pay for her bride price, the younger brother must do same...

And the wife isn't smart.... telling that young man to place her own family on monthly wages from their stipend is annoying...

70k with yearly house rent, feeding, clothing, electricity bills, water bills, transportation to places, hospital bills, and pocket money, where the wife is a housewife special?


God....

like seriously, who does that

Ariza:
Nah the family I wan attack self but people dey talk say I rude, so I wan change

But the wife no get sense sha.

What a family!

I for yab the husband join. Salary is 70k but he paid bride price of 580k. That’s his salary for 8 months!

Now the wife’s family is asking for another 2 months salary. Kílódé?

Anyway, it appears he has woken up from his slumber. If he loves himself, he must find a job for his broke wife. Let her dash her father all her salary if she wants.

People dey sha.

Na em be say we go dey nack him wife together.lol

AfroKnight:


What a family!

I for yab the husband join. Salary is 70k but he paid bride price of 580k. That’s his salary for 8 months!

Now the wife’s family is asking for another 2 months salary. Kílódé?

Anyway, it appears he has woken up from his slumber. If he loves himself, he must find a job for his broke wife. Let her dash her father all her salary if she wants.

People dey sha.

Honestly that man is the cause of his misfortune. How someone can put chain round his neck and hand it over to another beats my imagination. Why marry a jobless lady? Why marry from an inconsiderate and greedy family? . I can't advise guys to marry a jobless lady, no matter what you do they can't appreciate it or value it because they don't know what it worth. If the lady knows what it is to "earn" or "work" she would have stopped those nonsense thoughts within her family before it even gets to her husband.
And I even feel sorry for the Man that his wife doesn't love him enough to protect him from extortion. I don't know about other tribes o, but in my tribe, in-laws hardly call the wife or husband for financial request if there would be any.They contact whoever belongs to them among the couples so that person determines if their request will be met or not. And they will never request for assistance to pay "bride price" . That's shameful nah

I believe the wife should do better to protect her home.

Ariza:
Honestly that man is the cause of his misfortune. How someone can put chain round his neck and hand it over to another beats my imagination. Why marry a jobless lady? Why marry from an inconsiderate and greedy family? . I can't advise guys to marry a jobless lady, no matter what you do they can't appreciate it or value it because they don't know what it worth. If the lady knows what it is to "earn" or "work" she would have stopped those nonsense thoughts within her family before it even gets to her husband.
And I even feel sorry for the Man that his wife doesn't love him enough to protect him from extortion. I don't know about other tribes o, but in my tribe, in-laws hardly call the wife or husband for financial request if there would be any.They contact whoever belongs to them among the couples so that person determines if their request will be met or not. And they will never request for assistance to pay "bride price" . That's shameful nah

I believe the wife should do better to protect her home.

I couldn’t have said it any better.

The man brought this upon himself, all in the name of love. Many men do crazy things for the women they love. Me, I can’t relate anymore because my own love dey open eye now.

I agree with the man, my brother in-law's marriage is never my responsibility, I can do it but only willingly and only if I can. Some women are very stupid, a lot of them put their father and mother first before their husband which is absolutely wrong

I don't even know how I feel reading this. I just dey vex for my mind.


That's the consequences of marrying a woman without something doing

They will turn you to ATM


After paying the huge bride price, he should still contribute for your younger brother's wedding again



Che e normal bayi?