Sorry my brother, your wife is taken. Someone else is sucketing your private sucket.
Don't be surprised that John is another woman's husband.

U are too much

U enjoyed the cookie n left

MedicH:
What we have today is weak men getting married instead of spending time to build their self esteem. I can't imagine myself in this mess. A wife I married. I will drag her to the gates of hell to find out the truth then if she's cheating I leave her there and go home.

As a weak man you are, you have made a very big mistake in finding the truth. What she will do at this moment is to hide all her track, delete her messages and be pretending because u lost the battle before the war started.

Why do weak men fail to understand that u don't ask women questions in issues about infidelity until u find out the truth. Asking her questions is ur way of getting a confessional (if you like) because already u have a concrete evidence u can share with people in ur hand before asking her. Women are pathological liars and if u don't know the truth, you've lost because u will not find out ever. What you've seen in her phone is a hearsay and when u involve the public, she will gain public sympathy, tag you delusional and insane and she will win.

When I was in college I had this girlfriend in my 5th year who wanted me to pay her allowance of 10k monthly or she will call it quit. I told her there's no way I can afford that as I don't work. Then she started cheating. one of my friends told me where he saw her, and with whom I knew she was cheating. I put a virus in her phone then logged her off her messenger. By the time she logged back in I captured all keystrokes and from there I knew her passwords. I accessed her phone emailed her conversation with one Yahoo guy to myself and equally accessed her messenger. I printed the WhatsApp chats, invited her over and after we had sex, she went to the bathroom and I put the cheating papers in her handbag with a breakup note to never come back. That was it.


I didn't ask her any question. If I asked her based on what my guy said, she will throw a tantrum, tag me and my friend delusional and win. Today she's married to one man from her village and there's no week she doesn't ask me for money for her child dedication and for airtime.

Weak men will never learn.

stanliwise:
hmmm
This one strong o.

Am I just feeling insecure or something?
No you’re not, if something look too good to be true then it is certainly too good to be true. Something has changed about your wife and now you can see it.

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?

Because she don’t wanna tell you, you deserved to know, you are worth knowing and she owes you the explanation. Demand it when appropriate.

Why would she change her passwords?
She don’t want anyone else to get access to her phone,

I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone.
This means including you!! She don’t want you near her phone.


if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.
She is obviously telling you what you want to hear, and certainly she mentions a specific gender, which makes things weird. Maybe you should stop asking the question.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.


We can’t be sure what this means but it is rude to send that message to a married woman. I guess maybe JOHN don’t know about you.
Maybe it could still be a harmless message.
BUT THIS IS WHAT SHE DON’T WANT YOU TO SEE.

WHAT TO DO
Drop those insane question of who are you talking to and asking for her password. Desist from all method of inquiry and fact finding from her. Next time you need to know something she is doing secretly then go find it secretly. Lite note

Now here is it, arranged a table with good food and drink. Then make it clear to her
“I THINK YOU’RE CHEATING ON ME”
“I ALSO DON’T TRUST YOU ANYMORE”
“I THINK YOU ARE HAVING SEX OUTSIDE OUR MARRIAGE”
IF THINGS GO ON LIKE THIS I WILL DO .......(strong threat she would fear e.g discussing it with someone she respect or divorce).

Avoid too much long talk, spend most of the time hear her confess and try to defend herself. As she keep defending her self add more pressure to it. It’s a matter of psychology. She would crack and hand you the phones and password to remove her head from the string.

IF SHE DIDNT RESPOND OR GET DISTURBED, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. Her mind is made up and your marriage is gone.

Thank me later.

Was about to reply. But will the dude understand that the marriage is gone. Safe your life bro...... If she lied straight to your face hmmmmm. By age 32 but 20 in action. Follow what is written. But from observation the marriage is not important anymore. Why marry self if you and have up to 10 baby mama's and have sex with them when you choose. In 2020 who marriage help

iLegendd:
Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

Note: Women don't hide password from real men — they only do it to either weak men or men they don't really love, fallen out of love with (but still pretend to love).

No woman hides password from me. The moment I request for it, they submit instantly. A woman will respond to you and be submissive based on your level of leadership and control without being controlling.

My dear, there is no mature advice on Nairaland. Maturity is when you understand women before you get married and not when you get married and start looking for a way to understand your wife. I hate when men do this. It pisses me off.

I have the solution to your problem, but let me just watch you burn.

Word! exactly how I would av replied him.


Many men rushing marriage without understanding what they're going into.


smh...

stanliwise:
hmmm
This one strong o.

Am I just feeling insecure or something?
No you’re not, if something look too good to be true then it is certainly too good to be true. Something has changed about your wife and now you can see it.

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?

Because she don’t wanna tell you, you deserved to know, you are worth knowing and she owes you the explanation. Demand it when appropriate.

Why would she change her passwords?
She don’t want anyone else to get access to her phone,

I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone.
This means including you!! She don’t want you near her phone.


if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.
She is obviously telling you what you want to hear, and certainly she mentions a specific gender, which makes things weird. Maybe you should stop asking the question.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.


We can’t be sure what this means but it is rude to send that message to a married woman. I guess maybe JOHN don’t know about you.
Maybe it could still be a harmless message.
BUT THIS IS WHAT SHE DON’T WANT YOU TO SEE.

WHAT TO DO
Drop those insane question of who are you talking to and asking for her password. Desist from all method of inquiry and fact finding from her. Next time you need to know something she is doing secretly then go find it secretly. Lite note

Now here is it, arranged a table with good food and drink. Then make it clear to her
“I THINK YOU’RE CHEATING ON ME”
“I ALSO DON’T TRUST YOU ANYMORE”
“I THINK YOU ARE HAVING SEX OUTSIDE OUR MARRIAGE”
IF THINGS GO ON LIKE THIS I WILL DO .......(strong threat she would fear e.g discussing it with someone she respect or divorce).

Avoid too much long talk, spend most of the time hear her confess and try to defend herself. As she keep defending her self add more pressure to it. It’s a matter of psychology. She would crack and hand you the phones and password to remove her head from the string.

IF SHE DIDNT RESPOND OR GET DISTURBED, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. Her mind is made up and your marriage is gone.

Thank me later.

You be legend oo

So much maturity in one post

Mandelus:


Was about to reply. But will the dude understand that the marriage is gone. Safe your life bro...... If she lied straight to your face hmmmmm. By age 32 but 20 in action. Follow what is written. But from observation the marriage is not important anymore. Why marry self if you and have up to 10 baby mama's and have sex with them when you choose. In 2020 who marriage help

Yea right it seem the light in the marriage is now dim. But on a lite note it is far less worrisome to get married to a single woman for the sake of your children and less life complication. Life gets complicated in the future as you starts having kids everywhere. This marriage is just an example of when ones partner becomes unfaithful.

Yaradi:
My kind advice to you is that you should man up and take both the phone and password from her since your want to see the facts for yourself but the true be told your wife is cheating a lot of women are wired to start misbehaving once they have financial freedom and freedom of movement with there jobs and business you don't need God to be an up right woman all you need is self discipline and respect of your marriage to keep yourself for just your husband. The hand writing is bold your wife is cheating a cheating wife is a dangerous woman.

See you.

Take which phone?, Is she a criminal?.

She don cross border, And must have tasted the fishes as well.

Mouth that has started eating, is already committed..

OP has been relegated to bench warming... Wife that you can't even handle her phone, or maybe u left ur phone inside, and it's urgent to make a call, and u jam password, is that one your wife again?.

Password are for strangers.
OP is now a stranger in his marital home, with time he will start to hear words like "foolish man", I don't blame you" because I stoop low to marry you... smh for akpa-amu men.

MedicH:
What we have today is weak men getting married instead of spending time to build their self esteem. I can't imagine myself in this mess. A wife I married. I will drag her to the gates of hell to find out the truth then if she's cheating I leave her there and go home.

As a weak man you are, you have made a very big mistake in finding the truth. What she will do at this moment is to hide all her track, delete her messages and be pretending because u lost the battle before the war started.

Why do weak men fail to understand that u don't ask women questions in issues about infidelity until u find out the truth. Asking her questions is ur way of getting a confessional (if you like) because already u have a concrete evidence u can share with people in ur hand before asking her. Women are pathological liars and if u don't know the truth, you've lost because u will not find out ever. What you've seen in her phone is a hearsay and when u involve the public, she will gain public sympathy, tag you delusional and insane and she will win.

When I was in college I had this girlfriend in my 5th year who wanted me to pay her allowance of 10k monthly or she will call it quit. I told her there's no way I can afford that as I don't work. Then she started cheating. one of my friends told me where he saw her, and with whom I knew she was cheating. I put a virus in her phone then logged her off her messenger. By the time she logged back in I captured all keystrokes and from there I knew her passwords. I accessed her phone emailed her conversation with one Yahoo guy to myself and equally accessed her messenger. I printed the WhatsApp chats, invited her over and after we had sex, she went to the bathroom and I put the cheating papers in her handbag with a breakup note to never come back. That was it.


I didn't ask her any question. If I asked her based on what my guy said, she will throw a tantrum, tag me and my friend delusional and win. Today she's married to one man from her village and there's no week she doesn't ask me for money for her child dedication and for airtime.

Weak men will never learn.

And she ended up in the hands of one weak man who will be drooling I av found the love of my life.....

[quote author=iLegendd post=90903592]Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

The op requested for our candid advice to restore his home, not blabbing how super hero you are.

Sign of a weak man , your wife is senior advocate of coded Olosho .

My advice take heart and move on Nd be a better father and train ur 2 girls so they won’t b like there mom .

Poshriel:
Brother she is cheating.. The Truth is it may not even be with John only.

Once a lady starts hiding phones and Chatting up late then someone somewhere is beating a drum she likes so much.

Your wife wants you to know that she is cheating on you and she is expecting you to react .. She believes you will want to end the marriage and that is exactly what she wants..

Again this her attitude may be as a result of your own Promiscuities which you ain't aware she knows too..

Solution
Take her out to a place she has always loved to be .. Let her know of all the changes that she has been exhibiting let her know that you are aware..

Then plead for for her to change let her know his much you love her and the marriage.
Then ask her for her password let her know that she is free to delete whatever message she doesn't want you to see before giving you the password.

My brother pls pls and pls spice up your romance game.. Take your sex game up and things will balance

We pray he will see this.

Rather he will take it to village people, and then break the code of never allow third party in u marriage issues.

Then, real kasala go burst.

boom! he will enter nairaland as usual.

she is as good as gone bro. whatever happens, do not fret. you did what a man should do, you got her a good job to be independent and sufficient, but in the end, she met men along the way and started frolicking, passwording her phone and texting late into the night. that woman don dey chop another preeq

Babaibejii:


Guy she is CHEATING.....they all do. Dont let her manipulate you with blackmail abeg. I keep saying it, get a freshyo 18yr pussie. You will never be bothered again who sucking your wifes flat tits and drilling the borehole again. Infact you will feel.pity for the dude.

Of all the comments I've read here, I don't know why I find this one particularly hilarious. Bros, this your comment cracked me up.

Go rage! Na mad man dey husband a woman!

But be cautious!

Why would either a husband or wife password their personal belongings if not to keep secrets?
She is daring you. Note: women know their husbands thus they throw at them the kind of bones they think their husbands are worth!
Password her phone! You asked for a password she didn't give you! She must be your boss and feeding you.

It is either we stay happy together or we part ways.

Note: she doesn't care ooo. You will just die for nothing.

You are here worrying perhaps having heart beats and palpitations while your wife is living calmly and happily like nothing happens!

Not marital issues is solved with jor jor. Sometimes it is war war.

Na so my neighbour. Go drink Germalin because den dey strap his wife. Na joke oga think am until he peme.

Men that have died over women matter are countless.

Be a man Mr.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Sorry my brother, your wife is taken. Someone else is sucketing your private sucket.
Don't be surprised that John is another woman's husband.

Truth is wicked

Call for family meeting when she least expect and compel them to ensure she gives you the password on the spot and you check her phone there and there or she packs her bag and leave your house if she refuses.

Sorry to bust your bubble bro. Your wife is cheating on you.

I don't know about you, but for me I can never take a cheat back. You have legal grounds for divorce once you show those messages anywhere.

I might sound harsh but this is just the plain truth. It is very easy for us men to sleep around and cheat without using our brains because our dicks do the thinking for us, no emotions involved - once we release that's it, it's done. We might not even remember the name of the lady we slept with, but it's not the same for women. Emotions come into play for a woman to open her legs for you to smash.

Your wife is gone. Wake up and smell the coffee. I'm out

Munzy14:

And she ended up in the hands of one weak man who will be drooling I av found the love of my life.....

A story as old as time.

stanliwise:
Yea right it seem the light in the marriage is now dim. But on a lite note it is far less worrisome to get married to a single woman for the sake of your children and less life complication. Life gets complicated in the future as you starts having kids everywhere. This marriage is just an example of when ones partner becomes unfaithful.

Marriage is not even an option. Babe mamas is the only way to get a Nigerian woman on track it makes her aways trying to please the babe father in order to keep her family together but marriage makes this feminist activity feel secured and hurt for what their emotional stupidity needs. Rational thinkers of this age I wonder what you will see in a woman that you make you take an emotional entity to an altar when you know she will never keep to a vow or condition when issues arise.

Woman talk one thing do another
What all men do is to manipulate women emotionally to get what the wants (sweet talk, financial provision, time, understanding which can be faked.) u can't fake a rational thinker and he will not have the feeling of it been fake (leading a felt it to be fake in later things).
Men cheat
Women cheat.
But the degree of the effects of the cheat is much on the man why..... A man fathering a child that is not his (bro side chick is far better, just hang around but never suggest marriage take the bills for your kid, get her working or any available business.... Keep your space woo other ladies have fun you will never regret this because you have different moms to call when you need and you have different son's coming to gain your fatherly blessing.

Since she said you should trust her, no need to worry.

Mandelus:


Marriage is not even an option. Babe mamas is the only way to get a Nigerian woman on track it makes her aways trying to please the babe father in order to keep her family together but marriage makes this feminist activity feel secured and hurt for what their emotional stupidity needs. Rational thinkers of this age I wonder what you will see in a woman that you make you take an emotional entity to an altar when you know she will never keep to a vow or condition when issues arise.

Woman talk one thing do another
What all men do is to manipulate women emotionally to get what the wants (sweet talk, financial provision, time, understanding which can be faked.) u can't fake a rational thinker and he will not have the feeling of it been fake (leading a felt it to be fake in later things).
Men cheat
Women cheat.
But the degree of the effects of the cheat is much on the man why..... A man fathering a child that is not his (bro side chick is far better, just hang around but never suggest marriage take the bills for your kid, get her working or any available business.... Keep your space woo other ladies have fun you will never regret this because you have different moms to call when you need and you have different son's coming to gain your fatherly blessing.

Take time out and seek answer from people who have child with multiple women. Many celebs we know have confessed of how worrisome it becomes when you get older as responsibility become the order of the day. The real danger of children with different father is the way it affects the children. They almost never have a complete attention of their father. Baby mamas are into the business of tailoring their child’s mind against their siblings from another parent. You as a man may not know but consider posterity and you will understand and baby mama here an there is not a solution for man in this 21st century. In the past it was possible but not now.

stanliwise:
Take time out and seek answer from people who have child with multiple women. Many celebs we know have confessed of how worrisome it becomes when you get older as responsibility become the order of the day. The real danger of children with different father is the way it affects the children. They almost never have a complete attention of their father. Baby mamas are into the business of tailoring their child’s mind against their siblings from another parent. You as a man may not know but consider posterity and you will understand and baby mama here an there is not a solution for man in this 21st century. In the past it was possible but not now.

Noted. The obvious is not arguable

iLegendd:
Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

Note: Women don't hide password from real men — they only do it to either weak men or men they don't really love, fallen out of love with (but still pretend to love).

No woman hides password from me. The moment I request for it, they submit instantly. A woman will respond to you and be submissive based on your level of leadership and control without being controlling.

My dear, there is no mature advice on Nairaland. Maturity is when you understand women before you get married and not when you get married and start looking for a way to understand your wife. I hate when men do this. It pisses me off.

I have the solution to your problem, but let me just watch you burn.

You are truly a legend like your username suggests.



All single guys should read your post, print it out and paste in their bed side for everyday meditation, it will save them from landing in a messy marriage.


Well done, you are doing fine bra

Poshriel:
Brother she is cheating.. The Truth is it may not even be with John only.

Once a lady starts hiding phones and Chatting up late then someone somewhere is beating a drum she likes so much.

Your wife wants you to know that she is cheating on you and she is expecting you to react .. She believes you will want to end the marriage and that is exactly what she wants..

Again this her attitude may be as a result of your own Promiscuities which you ain't aware she knows too..

Solution
Take her out to a place she has always loved to be .. Let her know of all the changes that she has been exhibiting let her know that you are aware..

Then plead for for her to change let her know his much you love her and the marriage.
Then ask her for her password let her know that she is free to delete whatever message she doesn't want you to see before giving you the password.

My brother pls pls and pls spice up your romance game.. Take your sex game up and things will balance

sorry bra, you are an idiat, a full blown idiat probably suffering from Covid-19 second wave pandemic, pls report to any NCDC office near you for isolation, what a sisy, bullshyyt advice

following

MedicH:
What we have today is weak men getting married instead of spending time to build their self esteem. I can't imagine myself in this mess. A wife I married. I will drag her to the gates of hell to find out the truth then if she's cheating I leave her there and go home.

As a weak man you are, you have made a very big mistake in finding the truth. What she will do at this moment is to hide all her track, delete her messages and be pretending because u lost the battle before the war started.

Why do weak men fail to understand that u don't ask women questions in issues about infidelity until u find out the truth. Asking her questions is ur way of getting a confessional (if you like) because already u have a concrete evidence u can share with people in ur hand before asking her. Women are pathological liars and if u don't know the truth, you've lost because u will not find out ever. What you've seen in her phone is a hearsay and when u involve the public, she will gain public sympathy, tag you delusional and insane and she will win.

When I was in college I had this girlfriend in my 5th year who wanted me to pay her allowance of 10k monthly or she will call it quit. I told her there's no way I can afford that as I don't work. Then she started cheating. one of my friends told me where he saw her, and with whom I knew she was cheating. I put a virus in her phone then logged her off her messenger. By the time she logged back in I captured all keystrokes and from there I knew her passwords. I accessed her phone emailed her conversation with one Yahoo guy to myself and equally accessed her messenger. I printed the WhatsApp chats, invited her over and after we had sex, she went to the bathroom and I put the cheating papers in her handbag with a breakup note to never come back. That was it.


I didn't ask her any question. If I asked her based on what my guy said, she will throw a tantrum, tag me and my friend delusional and win. Today she's married to one man from her village and there's no week she doesn't ask me for money for her child dedication and for airtime.

Weak men will never learn.

When you read from men you will know.

Honestly we have so many weak men now in Nigeria.


I am sure the problem is the op depends on the wife's salary or the wife provides most of the family's living expense and he is scared of offending her or confronting her to avoid her seeking for divorce.

Guys before u marry, settle yourself financially, its very important.

Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

starting gettin a life for your self, you have lost her as long as she still keeps her schedule if the office

Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

Are you a man for real?you saw such message on your wife's phone not your girl friend, and you let it slide like that..Any man in that situation would confiscate that phone ,sorry is too late now, she must have deleted all the messages.

iLegendd:
Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

Note: Women don't hide password from real men — they only do it to either weak men or men they don't really love, fallen out of love with (but still pretend to love).

No woman hides password from me. The moment I request for it, they submit instantly. A woman will respond to you and be submissive based on your level of leadership and control without being controlling.

My dear, there is no mature advice on Nairaland. Maturity is when you understand women before you get married and not when you get married and start looking for a way to understand your wife. I hate when men do this. It pisses me off.

I have the solution to your problem, but let me just watch you burn.

brightfab

Ephemeralbeing:
Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.

Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.

Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.

I got married at 26.

Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.

6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.

But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)

Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.

Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.

I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.

Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.

Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?

Why would she change her passwords?

Why can't i know who she's texting up late?
Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?

Am I just feeling insecure or something?

Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.

Who deceive you to rush enter marriage in the first place? Dm me for spiritual advise

Reason you need to marry a wife that is someworth scared of you!
She's obviously cheating on you
Let it slide and take your time to investigate her secretly
Pretend not to care ,and also pretend to be keeping side chicks.
If she doesn't get bothered, and go on her knees to beg you, then it's time to get a real side chick and turn her into a wife..

Hold your mind bro, Na man you be!

Just imagine such nonesense cos u helped get he good job and this is what u get in return?smh bro leave that yeye talk of so u dnt trust me?thats what they use to play u..ur wife is cheating on u as much as u wish and pray its not true bro u can clearly see the writing on the wall but choose to deny it..the earlier u face ur fears headon the better for u..get that phone or get her to open it,and u need to be smart about it or she will careless about u and the kids since she thinks she has her own money now she could decided to walk out of the marriage so i suggest u get her a biz to do and find a way to stop her from that devlish job if u dnt want to loose her..goodluck bro..i have been cheated on so i know exacatly how u feel..like someone said get a side chick ASAP..