Haywhymido:
Men are scarce, by the time a lady secure hers through marriage then the music changes(complain starts flying up and down).

That's it. Then you begin to wonder why the thing she seemed to like, she no longer shows interest. And that's were the wahala always starts cos the man is now confused.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
This is as a result of polygamy being obsolete in the society.

It's the only responsible alternative and would surely correct all these nonsense.

I agree with a wise man when he said "polygamy is better than homosexuality"

You know, it was the "Whites" that traded their culture to us by bastardizing ours with their notion that it's uncivilized.
Now that we have followed them and their culture to this point where they (the Whites) have entered "bush" with homosexuality; Africa may wish to return to what used to be the antidote to unhealthy sexual lifestyle which is "variety" (especially for those whose need is not satisfied by a woman in their marriage).

If you ask me, I will tell you that Africa should not enter "bush"/homosexuality

Saltzman00:
which Nigerian woman would agree to the fact that she loves sex ...just asking tho

No body is saying they dont like it but too much of everything is what I'm against. There should be temperance in all we do. Even in eating. Period!

0rion:


But sometimes women do use sex as weapon to fight the husband

While men use money to oppress their wives too.

Funkyswagzz:


There must be a problem somewhere and that is what u have to find out. If shes not cooperative enuf just get a second wife. Trust me she will get tired of her film tricks

Exactly, after all they Bible only exempts church leaders from polygamy

lefulefu:
99 percent of women who deprive their husbands of sex are actually having active sex with other men.its because of the guilty concience they refuse having sex with their husbands

Your head correct well well. You won't see women on this thread

4ckz:


You think it's right that sex is a weapon and bargaining cheap in marriage?

My own is, I will never beg my wife for sex, impossible!
Once she starts it, I would let her be, but what comes after it, I will never feel guilty of.

What Emmanualcann is saying is that you can't blame the women all the time because sex is an emotional thing. If you had a heated argument with your wife and you both have not resolved it then how will the sex be okay? How many times have you dumped a gf because of a serious argument because you realize you can't have anything to do with someone that has that position on the issue, so how do you expect your wife to feel about sex after such has occurred? Men should learn to control their useless urge and this should not even be about only men but about both because women need sex too but because of the overly stupid menfolk in this part of the world the women have learnt to pretend and make it look like the men are the only ones in need of it. Women also need sex as much or even more than the men

spiralwedge:


True talk.

Religious people ruined it, especially Pentecostalism and Catholicism. Our grandfathers were very pious and yet managed their homes and careers successfully with many wives

I am Pentecostal but I think Catholics has the best doctrine. We need to start challenging these church leaders about this because they know the truth.

awumen:
there was 100% compatibility during courtship intact in most cases she will initiate it, so the question is what went wrong now that marriage is here, no more initiating it, u initiate,palava.its hurting honestly and I understand it's over 70% of the married women. So what happened, where did that drive vanish to? Even when you are doing well,not cheating, no lack of any kind, you are caring, you listen, you ate at home, yearly vacation(imagiming being deny sex during vacation,just imagine), the same vacation she planned and dreamt of o, everywhere stew but yet this thing still happens. So I ask, what do omen really want,is it just having their kids, is that all?what happen to the man after the kids have arrive?

Perhaps you guys have grown so close that she now sees you as her friend. Maybe you should do things to shock her once in a while.

pocohantas:


Lol. To think the sidechick might be one of their gfs. When they find out, they won’t pat her on the back for helping a fellow brother out o.

They will come online to open thread and disturb us. Confused creatures...

Chai, HE doesn't know yet,does he?

cococandy:

And instead of them praising the wife like they are all doing on this thread to the husband, they’ll start tearing their pants and shedding sweet tears. Sweet sweet tears

Na wah for u. A wife who is mostly dependent on her husband for a good life,whose wedding was bankrolled by him,who rides a car that was bought by him and lives in a house he has worked for, how can u expect her to be praised when she cheats on him?

Na to burn dat kind wife at the stake for gross ingratitude,dats the best option dear.

Romangalactic:

Chai, HE doesn't know yet,does he?

How can you say HE doesn’t know?
No be him create thread after another polygamous man impregnate im babe?

https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

Toor!!!

pocohantas:


How can you say HE doesn’t know?
No be him create thread after another polygamous man impregnate im babe?

https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

Toor!!!

Thank God for not shaming us. But just wondering how HE hasn't put 2&2 together, I mean it's usually easy to tell wen a girl lives a lifestyle dat is funded by married sugar daddy, don't u think so babe?

pocohantas:


Lol. To think the sidechick might be one of their gfs. When they find out, they won’t pat her on the back for helping a fellow brother out o.

They will come online to open thread and disturb us. Confused creatures...

The tears are sweet

Hypnotise:

What if she's the 2 can play the game type of woman. She brings her home boyfriend too.

maraige Don end be that na

femmoy:


i suggest u check my sigi next time before quotting me. Better focus more on ur education & pray for understanding cos i see u are too daft to comprehend my write up.

and this is actually coming from " the fool of the century "

pocohantas:


-Did you put 2&2 together?
-Did you know your fiancee was fcking all around Lagos?
-Did you know she got impregnated by another man?
-Does she know you are sterile?

Oga, fix your life first o. Your second child fit be gateman own.

Bless God for not shaming us in front of our enemies o, but does HE really know? I mean, SystemSpecs is not ExxonMobil or Shell and cannot be paying a salary dat can fund dat kind of lifestyle. Highest 130, or is it commissions? No I don't think so

Sweet pea, reason dis matter with me

4ckz:


Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

Abeg Y? And me, I be person wey no Sabi beg for sex at all... In fact, if my babe no initiate sex, I just press my phone and sleep till day break. I hope this don't give us issues in the future.

Romangalactic:

Bless God for not shaming us in front of our enemies o, but does HE really know? I mean, SystemSpecs is not ExxonMobil or Shell and cannot be paying a salary dat can fund dat kind of lifestyle. Highest 130, or is it commissions? No I don't think so

Sweet pea, reason did matter with me

You mean she actually did fck, but your sperm won? Impressive.

So, which lifestyle do you know I am living? Are you not the one that said I am dating my man to dig gold? I am digging him well na. He isn’t my sucre papito for nothing.

We no need to dey fck around like your fiancee. Get one correct man that can hold all ends down. Ensure he isn’t a 35yrs-old-sterile-audio-wine-enthusiast, treat him like a king and watch how things will be happening.

cococandy:


The tears are sweet

Coco,but truth be told, you're right it's painful. But some men still forgive cheating women even after changing their lives. I've seen it happen

Its just dat I don't think a husband who forgives a cheating wife ever really forgets, he's probably going to restrict her from making any male friends & keeping any contacts & communication with her former male friends from her single life. Don't you think so? U should know what I mean

pocohantas:


You mean she actually did fck, but your sperm won? Impressive.

So, which lifestyle do you know I am living? Are you not the one that said I am dating my man to dig gold? I am digging him well na. He isn’t my sucre papito for nothing.

We no need to dey fck around like your fiancee. Get one correct man that can hold all ends down. Ensure he isn’t a 35yrs-old-sterile-audio-wine-enthusiast, treat him like a king and watch how things will be happening.

I'm not talking abt you Poco, I'm talking generally are you sidechic to a married man?

I still bless God for not shaming us, amin

4ckz:


I went to sell airtime

Lol,egungun becareful ooo...

Ningen:
Married men cheat 70% of the time because of sex deprivation. So they don't have a choice but to venture outside for satisfaction.

This is why the sexual compatibility should not be undermine or taken for granted when dating.

no sex before marriage.

Romangalactic:

Coco,but truth be told, you're right it's painful. But some men still forgive cheating women even after changing their lives. I've seen it happen

Its just dat I don't think a husband who forgives a cheating wife ever really forgets, he's probably going to restrict her from making any male friends & keeping any contacts & communication with her former male friends from her single life. Don't you think so? U should know what I mean

Pocohantas what do u think? Can a wife ever be free to mingle with men after her husband forgives her for cheating?

pocohantas:


You don’t need to talk about me, I am telling you about me. Go fix your dick man. Men with dick problems talk too much, since all your testosterone be flowing to your mouth.

If dem ban u again now, u will start lying to everyone dat you were not in the mood to type on nl and dats why you've been missing.

Okiibe:


I agree with a wise man when he said "polygamy is better than homosexuality"

You know, it was the "Whites" that traded their culture to us by bastardizing ours with their notion that it's uncivilized.
Now that we have followed them and their culture to this point where they (the Whites) have entered "bush" with homosexuality; Africa may wish to return to what used to be the antidote to unhealthy sexual lifestyle which is "variety" (especially for those whose need is not satisfied by a woman in their marriage).

If you ask me, I will tell you that Africa should not enter "bush"/homosexuality

Sadly, Africans are willing to enter the bush.

Carlmax:


Abeg Y? And me, I be person wey no Sabi beg for sex at all... In fact, if my babe no initiate sex, I just press my phone and sleep till day break. I hope this don't give us issues in the future.

If you eventually marry her, it might not be much of an issue since she's the one that normally initiates.
Na when you marry other ladies that think it's the man's duty to initiate sex, na that time you go see pepper

Romangalactic:

If dem ban u again now, u will start lying to everyone dat you were not in the mood to type on nl and dats why you've been missing.

If they impregnate your fiancee again now, you will start lying that God did not shame you.

Geminita1:
The guys on this forum are so dumb mehnn.

Guess what? Women don't care about you lots anymore. You are so bigoted, selfish and sexists. Once we have our kids, we are okay, we don't care about you, we don't care.

You are still a low-tier feminist.
What do you need kids for, especially if he turns out to be a boy.
Better choose your career, and self-love and all those other self, self things


Girl power sis!!!!

pocohantas:


If they impregnate your fiancee again now, you will start lying that God did not shame you.

Thank God for not shaming us dear. Did u see dat man celebrating the birth of his child on front page. There was one particular pic dat I love cos it reminds me of the day I proposed to my popori. I'm so grateful dat God did not shame us.

Won't u like to be proposed to like dis Poco?