oruma19:
God does not choose a wife for man. It is like saying one should wait for God to feed him in the mouth after providing the money to buy it. U go wait tire.

Biglittlelois:
The dream can mean anything, e.g she might be pretending right now to be in your good book in order to get married, and later on, when the going is good and things becomes bad all of a sudden, the mask will fall off, and after so many evils, she will up and leave,

And for your first gf, you both may not see eye to eye because you are currently not on same page, that doesnt mean she still doesnt love you and want to be with you, she just can't hide who she is, and this may be heavens way of telling you to be patient and not get married in a hurry to the 2nd, just wait patiently and pray, who knows, fate may bring you and your first together.

P.S this is solely my candid opinion, nothing more.

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

masterP042:

Men, nigga I've been observing your post for a very long time.. Do u ever reason outside the bible or religion? Do u sometimes engage in reasonable discussions about life, business, sports or politics without involving or referencing the bible? For me it's very tormenting, I just pity those around you or those u engage daily on discussions. Dem dey try.

novakk:
Dont base all on dreams, try other means..

I agree, which is why I decided to pray about it and move with my decision.
So am I to take the dreams to mean anything?

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

millionboi2:
bcoz u don't have d gift.

emmnprince:


I understood your previous statements because they were clear enough. You made errors in your sentence construction that made me not to understand your message, and I drew your attention to it, then you attributed my lack of understanding to not having a "gift" when it is glaring you made mistake in your sentence!

Stop deluding yourself!

millionboi2:
are we in an English class?
U understood point,thats d real communication and u went ahead to fool urselv.

U need brain reset.

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

masterP042:

Men, nigga I've been observing your post for a very long time.. Do u ever reason outside the bible or religion? Do u sometimes engage in reasonable discussions about life, business, sports or politics without involving or referencing the bible? For me it's very tormenting, I just pity those around you or those u engage daily on discussions. Dem dey try.

novakk:


I hear you, it is not easy. Trying to think if it something we can pray about, or should I tell her so she prays about it too?

emmnprince:


When you ask for clarification of unclear statement, does it mean you "went ahead to fool yourself?"

I can now understand the kind of revelation you do receive from your so called god in your dreams. I hope those dreams you ascribe to God don't mislead you one day.

obataokenwa:
pls point out where I adviced that God will speak to him directly. I adviced him to pray and follow his heart.

The both of us who is the smoker now?

kendrick9:
Nigerians,
Always waiting on a man with suit on an alter to tell them what or not to do.
Can't you make your decision based on your heard and heart without seeking an opinion from a so called 'man of God'?
Is the pastor a seer?
Do you think he sees the future?

millionboi2:
only a mentally derail fool will ask for clarification over somtin he understood.

Is not english or dream that is d problem here,but d fact dat u are mentally unstabl

emmnprince:


Here's what you typed and sent verbatim: it can't be u either can it be d devil as iam not evil.

I don't understand what you meant. I asked you to help me to understand that statement. You resorted to the use of vulgar and harsh words at me. Is that what your god you claim do speak to you in your dreams instruct you to react when someone ask for clarification?

It would be hard for someone to understand that statement.

Here's a simple test for you to do: Send that statement to three or four persons in your WhatsApp and ask if they understand what you meant.

emmnprince:


Here's what you typed and sent verbatim: it can't be u either can it be d devil as iam not evil.

I don't understand what you meant. I asked you to help me to understand that statement. You resorted to the use of vulgar and harsh words at me. Is that what your god you claim do speak to you in your dreams instruct you to react when someone ask for clarification?

It would be hard for someone to understand that statement.

Here's a simple test for you to do: Send that statement to three or four persons in your WhatsApp and ask if they understand what you meant.

Phenomenal16:
........this have happened to me personally
Even though no pastor prophesied..... But I had series of dreams that he was king leaving
Guess what
He left ,,,,,he stopped calling me as usual
My dear,,,,,the spiritual controls the physical
I could remember creating series of threads
Then.......continue praying

sexymoma:
@novakk.. let me tell you a story.. A man dreamt that his cloth was missing in his wardrobe, he kept dreaming of these for some days.. until his child died.. In Yoruba we use to say omolaso means our children is our garment.. why am I telling you this... You dreamt that you guys were together all of a sudden you didn't see her again.. hello it may not mean you divorced her.. it may mean something else.. she may actually be your partner but pray against untimely death for her.

rago:
@ novakk, I highly recommend that you follow this advice! In the strongest terms, I urge you to find ur way back to the first Lady who they revealed you share compatibility. By the way, compatibility is deeply spiritual. Yes, u r still going to have issues, big issues that question your compatibility. But that's only in the physical, mundane realm. Going forward you will begin to see how spiritually connected you both are.

You will accomplish extraordinary things in a short span of time. U will fight huge battles together more effectively than others who have been at war for many many years and see no headway.

Point is you will succeed faster and make limited fatal, self-destructive errors.

The devil will find ways to show that you can't be together. It's the devil. He will show how much a lot of things are wrong with you both being together. Na lie! You ARE FIRE. SHE IS AIR. LET HER FAN YOU TO GREATNESS. YOU ARE GOING TO BE UNSTOPPPBALE. But why should it be that easy at first? Think about it.

EmmaFantastic:

First of all, just forget the 1st lady completely (based on what you described of your relationship with her) - except of course, the former situation with her surprisingly improves. You marrying a girl because 1 human being somewhere that calls himself a Pastor "saw vision" will be an act of monumental stupidity - you may not understand me until the day your eyes see openly/you get to know, very deep/grave atrocities committed by certain satans who call themselves Pastors. See, in life, always do either what the Holy Spirit directly ministered to you/leads you to or do what your heart tells you/desires/leads you to, that's all!

Then for the dream, don't worry much, it is a call to prayer. Here:
- Sometimes dreams are just coincidences, but you pray about them, to be on the safe side.
- Sometimes dreams are evil dreams, evil attacks/spiritual torment from forces of darkness (yes, they do attack people in their dreams!), nightmares, etc. Whenever such happens, when you wake up from the dream, pray against it, cancel and revoke it in the name of Jesus.
- Sometimes dreams are revelations - God is exposing to you what the devil or enemies might have planned for the future. I myself, I see "revelations" (personal) a lot - it's 1 of the biggest ways the Holy Spirit has been showing me personal things and anytime I dream, I follow up with physical investigation. About this your dream, you said you do see her leave, well, that might be referring to short life (untimely death) that workers of iniquity have planned for her life and not what you're thinking that she will abandon you in future.

My counsel to you:
Be praying and making prophetic declarations about the dream, as well as praying and making prophetic declarations on her life and yours (because sometimes dreams actually might be talking of someone else entirely and not really/necessarily the subject in the dream).
Also, maybe you should discuss about it with her, perhaps she might also be seeing "things" too, who knows.

Charisma01:


Fool

cruxgemmata:


I for like share this level with u. Dnt knw if u r game. U hit the nail wella. If not, change d content to water.

generationz:



Do you guys still quarrel?