What were you doing in such a club, yourself, just curious?

One lie begets another, one secret begets another.
You can either keep your mouth shut and keep your peace, or you can give your cousin the facts, and let him make his own decisions.
Maybe your cousin is okay with his fiancee lapdancing. Maybe not. Not a good way to start off a marriage, though, hiding the truth from one another.

Which would you prefer if you were in your cousin's shoe?

What I think is either u are obsessed with Ur cousin's wife or u are simply stalking her.

bomasek:
What were you doing in the club and which club has opened in Abuja

as in I have been cracking my head which club in abuja

NiCurious:
What were you doing in such a club, yourself, just curious?

One lie begets another, one secret begets another.
You can either keep your mouth shut and keep your peace, or you can give your cousin the facts, and let him make his own decisions.
Maybe your cousin is okay with his fiancee lapdancing. Maybe not. Not a good way to start off a marriage, though, hiding the truth from one another.

Which would you prefer if you were in your cousin's shoe?

it happens sometimes!
the op was in the club to do what she does and boom.what she thinks is a secret because it involved a relative is also a secret because she herself has become a person hiding a secret known to a source
very ironic!
she finds herself not been able to judge

well

this is not the first I am seeing this type of scenario!
from pH to agege to Auchi (not to be first)I will not bore you with details.
but one think is certain truth is truth.if you don't want wahala that you both regret.
everybody come out with the truth

bomasek:
Fake story, wonder why you guys are responding

I know of at one case in pH
two in Lagos
one in Auchi
one in abuja

of instances where either wife or husband's friend husband jam in guest house,club house with their escapades.

not funny matter the. following day

but na the part where the op said abuja club open anyway it happens

Wizywiz:
Pls inform your cousin ...dont hide anything...yes its your business...he is your brother so tell him about the hoe he wanted to wife..show him the video also...

who is not a hoe?