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Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Flairoqy(m): 10:57pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by A1kennedy(m): 10:57pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Femsyn(m): 10:59pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Xynerise, you should never be shocked when an opinion is not accepted by all. Its normal. I understand your view perfectly, and I agree with it 100%. I believe there's a reason, there should normally be two different genders in a marriage. Nature has made it so, for a reason. Now, the reasons pointed out by Xynerise could be the cause of the deficiencies we see in some young men nowadays, especially in marriages. There's a role a father plays in the life of a child, that he or she can never get from a woman, and vice versa. The genders are supposed to compliment one another. A father must have times he communicates with his child, beyond payment of school fees and Christmas gifts. A father should connect with a child, in ways, the mother cannot. Its okay to disagree with contrary opinions, but there's absolutely no point calling each other names, and at no point did the OP suggest his opinion is applicable in ALL families. 7 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by 1Sharon(f): 10:59pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Spot on OP. My own father didn't notice I gained over 10 pounds after seeing me after a while. Small things like that, fathers don't know their children but think they do. 5 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by ImaIma1(f): 10:59pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:00pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Chucks234: I totally agree! |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by babadem2much(m): 11:00pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
If your dad lose relevance mine is a hero despite all odds my dad was not opportune to live longer but he tried his very best and we are still proud of him 7 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by mariahAngel(f): 11:00pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ImaIma1: You had to play the side-chic card... Not all married men keep side-chics. Argue fairly. |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:01pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
1Sharon: Eating the food he toils to provide It took the prodigal son to leave the house to realise what he truly had... 4 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:02pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
A shaking table 1 Like |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by DexterousOne(m): 11:02pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
I think the long and short story is that every dad should be the best dad he can be to his kids. Providing of basics Provision of guidance and discipline And being a responsible man and an example to your kids In my personal view These are the three MOST important roles of a dad Other subsidiary roles which also have some importance then follow On the three counts I listed above Many fathers in Nigeria are failing woefully I see it everyday on the streets And that's why we have so many delinquents boys our there (this is one of the many factors that contribute to delinquency sha) Be the best dad you can be Chikena Life is not easy as a man And being a father is a thankless role (or will I call it job) Yet We still have to do our best 9 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
1Sharon:You eat the food that the man suffered to provide and you still disrespect him for not noticing you getting fat. What manner of fuckery is this? 10 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by damiloladuke: 11:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:08pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Do you have a friend that is a side chic How do you know they bond Them say na wetin pikin no get for house e dey go thief for outside o |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by addexx: 11:08pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
swiz123: You took the words from my intestine. Granted its part of his role as a father raise up the kids but do not term them as irrelevant because the world economy has really changed. One may not understand the untold sacrifice some fathers go through to keep the family standing. So cut them some slacks if they are unable to fill in some other fatherly duties. They are still heroes . 2 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by ImaIma1(f): 11:08pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
mariahAngel: My point is... All these excuses about not having time are just excuses. It is not about having time, it is about making time. If it matters, we will make the time for it. People saying that they work and don't have time; some of them still have the time to spend with side chicks, sit and hang out with friends, spend hours pressing phone But when asked to spend time with the children, plenty excuses will spring up. It might have made more sense it it was another excuse, but definitely not time. 10 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Chykes4micheal: 11:09pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
It depends on the kind of fathers. I have friends whose fathers are their gist partners while their mum is the over serious ones. What we should learn from what you have said is that money is not everything. Men should always find time to have fun with their children and not always be the 'strict' boss in the house 2 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by oglalasioux(m): 11:09pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Very infantile thinking. You are using the mindset of wicked women whose only mission is to sow the seed of hatred between fathers and their children. Grow up! 4 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by afroxyz: 11:10pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
xynerise: It is your father who brought someone as ungrateful as you to this world I blame. How can you?/someone goes out each day to hustke for his family, denies himself things to give you a better life and because your mother was always around you that makes your father automatically irrelevant? Firgetting that the tomea now are diffrent. Fathers die earlier than mothers because of the burden they bear and you are here running your mouth. May your children say the same about you. Anuofia! 5 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by ImaIma1(f): 11:11pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Dalby: Does having a side chick require that the man spends time with her? If it does, that is the precious time being spent. So time is not the issue when it comes to spending it with the kids. If it matters to us, we create the time 4 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by ReeLoaDead(m): 11:11pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
@ Xynerise OP, I think you had a good message though you could’ve probably expressed it better - which is why some folks lashed out at you. Bottom line I think your point is valid and fathers should be involved in the emotional upbringing of their children and not just the financial aspect alone. 3 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by krushdripper(m): 11:15pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Fathers are the best thing to happen to most people in this world but mothers would rather get that praise cos of the love men allow women that there's no longer any need for. |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by 1Sharon(f): 11:15pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: Moroп! I don’t live with him, he hadn't seen me in months. I've been skinny my whole life and finally gained some weight. He didn't notice shit. Dads really don't know their kids but think they do. 7 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:16pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ReeLoaDead: It isn't fair to generalize. Say what happens in your own home, because that is the most you know and are sure of... |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by 1Sharon(f): 11:17pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Dalby: Do I live with him? And how do you know he isn't deadbeat? You Nigerians are so close-minded I swear 3 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by afroxyz: 11:17pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
bukatyne:a woman advising a man how to be a man. |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:18pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
1Sharon: You answered your own question. You don't live with him... You are sounding really bitter though... 2 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Itannooluwa(f): 11:19pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
donstan18: dz s quite irrational...... 3 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by kingreign(m): 11:19pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
eni4real:Make an 'on point' na |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by afroxyz: 11:19pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
1Sharon: You better grow up. You want your father to notice your weight gain. Is he your boyfriend? When he was providing for you, did you notice his pain? 8 Likes |
Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Dalby(m): 11:20pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
bukatyne: Tell us the experience of single dad's 1 Like |
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