pocohantas:




If she leaves him, that is up to her. There were better ways to handle issues. Maybe he overreacted, but I very much understand his concerns (and hers too).

In my view, the girl is overreaching; obviously desperate or overwhelmed with lovey-dovey fantasies. Or she is definitely trying to prove a point to her girlfriends (or competitors if you like).

The guy is more worried about his reputation than the mood the girl is in right now.

There is only one way this ends, one has to apologize or the relationship deteriorates into utter chaos.

All that awkwardness could have been avoided if he just locked his phone. ALWAYS.

They will have to grow up. The both of them!

MOnkeyBabe:
why can't we all just do the old fashion no sex until marriage

That one na scam, no longer applicable in our time.....

Olabode971:



Hahahhaba... have been laffing over and over again...


Walahi; people that are NORMAL in this country are just 774... (1person per local government area)

Lmfao

Spiff20:
Hope you won't invite people for your wedding or if you do you won't post the pictures since you want private life.

That's my cup of tea which you are not qualified to question, if you like shift the goal post to suite your narrative.

merieam16:
abi o, sumtin wey u suppose dey laff about u con dey furious. Make i ask u dis question @ Op wen last did u upload her pics on ur status. jéwo

But really, must a pic be uploaded? I feel certain things should be private.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

She's mental mate.

It is love, abeg. That one no be issue. She loves and wants people to know. Unless, you don't feel much for her.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

op u not wrong oooo,u one of the few guys in nairaland that have common sense oooooo����

uboma:



The fact that he got angry does not mean that he's a player.

He's got the right to be angry though.

Sir I believe if you truly love someone you will be happy to show her off always. Yes what she did was wrong, but he shouldn't have gotten angry to the point of asking if he should forgive her.

DXNNigeria:

She is well over 18 bro. In her 20s

I blame you for wasting my time, nonsense so I should waste my time advising you both when you re still a baby

Cos another of his sweetcunt might see it.

Goldp5988:




Exactly my point.

Cos another of his sweetcunt might see it.

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

How are people in relationship with someone who is not proud of them

Ariza:
Well at least she knows her place in the guy's life now.... Lol . I won't say it's a complete loss.

Seems someones nonsense finally made sense issa miracle working God

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Ur wrong and your a cheater nonsense if you have nothing to hide why delete it

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude. U
Really? Am I wrong?

you are not just wrong contrally you are stupid, and if you don't love her open up to her that's how I troll my life. Or, perhaps you are not up to age open up to age her.

Queenzzy:
may God help you. hmmm

lol... Amen oo. I'm a changed person now

why you come de tell us? when u give her doggy style u tell us?

just negedu u don't Bleep her so tay u don't want to upload it so she heLP u upload.
just take hers upload yours na 1-1 be that.

You could've just changed the privacy of the status immediately you noticed it so that only her would get to see it, then caution her afterwards.

That could've saved you some spat

nelklyn:
Lol...your own na play “GF”. A FWB did that to me sometime last year while I was asleep...She did not stop with WhatsApp status she also shared it on my fb story with all the whole my love captions.

Back then I was using an old android phone which I refused to change cos I’m of the opinion that the phone I use shouldn’t define me. Well the phone didn’t have a fingerprint sensor and I didn’t like the idea of having to type in a password or pin every time I needed to use my phone so I left it unlocked.

It was a friend of mine that sent me a message on WhatsApp “Na she?”...When I opened the message I was confused It wasn’t funny back then... I felt like slapping the girl up from sleep but then I was like “No Wahala”. I deleted the WhatsApp status and went back to sleep. In the morning I started getting fb notifications...omg! the notifications were from her pics on my fb story, I was like wtf!...you kidding right?

I immediately took down her pictures and had to put up a post on my timeline to serve as a disclaimer, stating that the pictures weren’t uploaded by me. Some of my friends on fb made jokes out of that incident.

No one advised me to get a new phone the next week...hence forth I locked my WhatsApp with fingerprint. She didn’t like that...

Note: I didn’t bother confronting her

Using a PIN is still the best though....as they can either slip your thumb out while sleeping and open the phone.

Or...wait till that time you gave them the phone innocently to answer a call, play a game or do something else, and they can easily add an extra thumbprint to the phone.

If them say make una stay away from sex for proper reasoning and foresight,una no go gree.

My brother I enjoyed that your Really, so Really you are not wrong for

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

I really feel like insulting the OP but the good guy in me is holding me back.

@OP, stop deceiving that lady and tell her You don't love her and let her go.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Your problem is CHILDISHNESS and STUPIDITY.

In-between her legs was her personal space but she opened it for You yet you're here telling us your phone is your personal space. Idiot.

If you don't love that lady say it to her face and let her go and stop deceiving her.

If you really love someone You should be proud to show them off.

Tajbol4splend:
How are people in relationship with someone who is not proud of them

Leave this OP abeg, na idiot him be.

Dididrumz:




I really feel like insulting the OP but the good guy in me is holding me back.

@OP, stop deceiving that lady and tell her You don't love her and let her go.

Happy you see things from my point of view.

My girl love space so she would make a picture of sters at profile ar get something from space news latest

Ladies and WhatsApp status.
So unnecessary
Smh

Friedturkey:
I'm very sure your "girlfriend" is not up to 18years.. you better dont do anything sexual with her, dont be a rapist

He probably isnt up to 18 years

As far as I can tell u, she did not evil except u are having another girlfriend n u don't want her to know

Baba u 4 just change the option of those that can view the pix to only her dat will be damage control and it will be a win win 4 both of u then leta u talk 2 her abt privacy and invading into ur private space and tell her wen u r ready and sure u guys will and can go public but u r taking it slowly.

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

I don't really think it's about genuine love at all...Maybe he never reach to get girlfriend!