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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by jobstart: 7:39pm On Aug 17, 2020
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by 21cents: 12:09pm On Nov 03, 2020
Jeboy:
I am proud to be one of such men. I rather have a woman who will give me peace of mind, support my being financial stable, emotional stability, has respect and empathy than a blue film specialist. Is everything about marriage sex?

nothing but the truth. I'm starting to get bored of sex and nowadays I discovered I need more than a puxsy and bre@st.

the sex will diminish and lose spark the first 5 years of marriage, so what happens after then when she's outlived her usefulness of mere sex?

fact is: my dad has advised me to settle with a pious woman who also works and hustles. telling me it's only the raging testosterone hormones of young men in their early to mid twenties forcing them to make great and naive mistakes with women and relationship. that when the hormones starts declining towards the 30's, we'd want more than pussy and sex. now I'm heading towards my late 20's and I'm starting to see things the way he advised me 7yrs ago.

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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by jobstart: 8:15pm On Nov 27, 2020
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by poik(m): 3:45pm On Nov 29, 2020
21cents:
nothing but the truth. I'm starting to get bored of sex and nowadays I discovered I need more than a puxsy and bre@st.

the sex will diminish and lose spark the first 5 years of marriage, so what happens after then when she's outlived her usefulness of mere sex?

fact is: my dad has advised me to settle with a pious woman who also works and hustles. telling me it's only the raging testosterone hormones of young men in their early to mid twenties forcing them to make great and naive mistakes with women and relationship. that when the hormones starts declining towards the 30's, we'd want more than pussy and sex. now I'm heading towards my late 20's and I'm starting to see things the way he advised me 7yrs ago.


Sir, while i am not trying to make it look like it is all about sex, but there are important things in a marriage that is hinged on having a woman with as low body count as possible. A woman with high mileage will not be able to bond with you emotionally as her husband, and trust me, you need it, and when that bonding is absent it will show. There is a certain level of assertivenes you need to exercise as a man that can only br possible with a woman whose soul you own, and i do not mean it in any abusive way. A woman who is not bonded well with you will most likely cheat on you at the slightest spark; all it takes is a level of contact with an of her exes-it will happen. A woman who is not well bonded with you is the one who will opt for divorce at the first semblance of provocation whether warranted or not.

Marriage is team work. In a team, they train together, take instructions from the same coach, study together. In marriage something spiritual must bind them togther for proper functioning. When its not appropriate it will show.

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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Excellent7(m): 7:20pm On Jan 17, 2021
davien:
Nobody is describing the situation of the op right. Even the op.

You see those young women who aren't serious?

They are the ones who turn into the serious ones after age, family pressure and losing their friends to marriage.

Women know they will always be catered for, they've been given this idea since birth and society mostly supports them.

Since women can now control their own pregnancy which is new to the past 3 generations, we are seeing more and more women opening their legs to more and more men.

Sex is something women don't put much emphasis on because they can have it anytime they want, and now that they don't usually get pregnant following sex, they now start to choose, exchange, double date, party, one night stand anybody they want who fits and can push their emotional buttons.

Now mother nature gave women enticing assets at young ages so she can attract the closest mate possible and bond with him forever(or at least till he died) through the estrogen they release after sex(google female pair bonding).

But because women today monkey-branch from one relationship to the other looking for the perfect 6 feet, handsome, bearded, tall, charming, rich, charismatic, athletic, doesn't watch football and is loyal they sleep with more and more men thinking they can hook the top men eventually with Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, michat lewd pics in a known process called hypergamy(a female trait).

And since social media has created a broader world of men for them who senselessly love and like all their pictures and sponsor any of their stupid, childish or rude request those women have become extremely entitled and now rate themselves higher than they normally would without social media(this is why back in the day a gorgeous woman was also smart and had virtue while being with a hardworking not so goodlooking man as they had little awareness of men outside their vicinity).

Combine with the low quality of life in Nigeria and women who know and have all these suck many men dry and keep multiple men around them(even if it's not for sex), just so they can keep the sense that they are high value and all men must want them.

This constant chasing for higher men crashes at age 26 above when they stop getting as much attention from all of these men and/or realise that these men just want to have sex with them only, the pair bonding ability in them that was supposed to make them follow the only guy having sex with them is also out the window as multiple sex partners makes it hard for females to stick to one partner and hypergamy(the feeling females have to explore) at this stage keeps pushing them to find the best man.

Finally after they've seen "life" and aren't a "small girl" anymore they go to the closest church, give their life to Christ and "change" into a "mature woman" looking for a "God fearing man" that will house them, raise their kids and take care of them. They settle for such men who are yesmen since they couldn't get the "best man"(which is almost impossible by the way statistically speaking, all women can't marry dangote).

Being "serious" with any woman is a risk you're better off not taking as they don't take themselves serious till they're all used up then start pressuring you into being a loyal husband/father with sex, compliments, and before they get married. After that, they gain weight, become entitled yet again as they've known you're stuck with them and then start comparing you with other men.

Not all women are guilty of this, but the traits are universal to those who know them.. I don't know any girl that doesn't want a guy that's equal or more than them in anything. Women date up and will throway your feelings once she feels you aren't up to her.

So now you can marry a used 30 year old who doesn't know how to pair bond anymore and is overly entitled by telling you to be a "man" or you can enjoy a woman who knows herself enough to let you train her into a woman you'd have kids with(with high chance she'll want to "explore"wink )

All in all, life is short and a womans satisfaction shouldn't be in your mind unless she's earned it.

Your analysis is brilliant and "on the mark"!

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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 17, 2021
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by loswhite(m): 12:00am On Jan 18, 2021
Auladimeji:
Never marry if you are not earning well!!!
lol....foolish men everywhere. So if you stop earning well you will divorce abi?
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Nobody: 8:57am On Mar 04, 2021
kazyhm:
There is an exception to this school of thought


There are girls that school/career make them marry late........imagine you marrying a practicing doctor, lawyer, pharmacist, engineer at 25 ?

You don't have to wait for them to complete their education (and simultaneously get totally corrupt). Marry them young then put them through school. I know it works because I did it.
Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Zanos: 8:24pm On Feb 16, 2022
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by Zanos: 8:27pm On Feb 16, 2022
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Re: Advive To Males Trying To Settle Down by mediainc: 8:30pm On Feb 16, 2022
Of course if you have money you go marry fresh girl. Na poverty make guys dey marry ugly old woman. Abi all the fine sensible girls na ghost dey marry dem?

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