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Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by bettermike: 6:30pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Just like buhari died at 50 but is still Nigeria's president. Right? I know men who personally ask their wives to stay home and cater. The men are still alive and better |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by sylve11: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
paulolee: very sensible and plausible comment. 5000 likes. 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by AFONAMARO: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Toks2008: You are certainly a bias writer, hence, your use of suggestive words. I saw your highlighted assertions suggesting that men who fail to provide certain home appliances lacked common sense, without considering their pockets and financial capabilities. I doubt a married man would use seedy words to describe his fellow men while feigning ignorance about his choice of words 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by chiol: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Compare the children raised by single mothers and ones raised by both parents and see the difference. Also, ask the single mothers what they pass through raising a family without a man. Money is not everything, a man's presence means a lot for the children upbringing and even the mothers 3 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Owisab: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Na only God fit give person good wife jare |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Abdogood(m): 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
tunjilana: You made a sensible argument here. Only those who are marriage will understand better. Pikin wey dey primary school no go sabi Uni paro. The gap large. 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by ceeceeuwa: 6:32pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
hashtagged:Women these days are equally bread winners. They provide for their homes in one way or the other, either by engaging in trade or they are professionals in various fields. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by bettermike: 6:32pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
futurerex: Obviously very unstable mentally. 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
ademijuwonlo:Exactly! If they do, the world would crucify them for emasculating their husbands. "Why should a woman brag that she's assisting her partner financially?" 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Dew04:'Your money is our money' 'My money is mine alone' Breadwinner?? Haha nice joke!! Rare cases!! |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by captain247: 6:34pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Toks2008: 100%. 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
chiol:While I do not support negligence or lack of responsibility on men's part, believe me it is very okay for women to stand in gap if things go south for the Man, that is why they are Husband and Wife. A woman should be ready to support, so your outburst filled with sentiments and emotions do not hold water here. Women react when they are pushed to limit same as men. When a woman who is the breadwinner is still expected to do all chores, and be active in bed,then be aware that you are only pushing her over her limit same way a man will react if after being a loving and supportive husband is rejected sexually. That wife is pushing it too far. Rich Men's wives hardly work or have to spend their earnings, they tend to have house helps , so where's the comparison? 4 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Oracleforce: 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
I don't want a slave wife material but I want a responsible wife...and not some slay queens that filled with a sense of entitlement... 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by tayooluwole: 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
hashtagged:You're slowpoke,,,what about those ladies that leave their comfort zone to hustle to bring comfort to her home... OP is right,,, you must have been a perpetual slave bf you are called a good wife in Nigeria...i feel for Nigeria women sha 3 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
LordIsaac:He has being psyched by his new wife.. May he the wife can't cook but compensate for his deficiencies in the other room!! I don't know why he is writing Epistles in order to weaken many Men's standard!! A wife material is a God-given right of every Man!! |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Rilwayne001: Protection from what exactly? |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by investigator007: 6:37pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Everyone has his or her definition of "wife material", if this is what you see as wife material fine, others define it differently |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Slynation(m): 6:37pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Dew04:Why are you people looking for talks where there is non, This kinda situation warrant both parties to sit and discuss, whatever they decide is non of our business, Life is much more easier than before, but it obvious some people still prefer doing things the local way (Some women prefers pounding their yams even if Machine ia available, some still prefer cooking for their husbands even if they've got a chef, some will even tell you using machines do decrease the texture of clothes)...with the way things are going, very soon, women will suggest Men should start going for Omugo...!! It's there lives, so sitting here and analyzing how other people decides to live their lifes in their respective homes won't change anything....This kinda post will only put ideas into many people's homes that may certainly result to disaster 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
bettermike:What about women who also work? |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by showafrica(m): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: See quesion.. A woman should make her home work, if she is engaged with work and make enough money, she should automate her home. Machines can do a lot these days plus nani and steward. Leave the man to develop his own talents and make his own money too. Women are better home managers not the man. |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by mariemummy(f): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: Thank you nne. Beautiful response. |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by humilitypays(m): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
In Nigeria, 99% of a woman's income or money or wealth is as useless to her man as 'p' is useless to the word "psychology". So any Nigerian man hoping on a woman's money or wealth to make it in life will die wretched If Nigerian women are cheerful and giving with their income like Nigerian men, believe me, we won't have to many broke and struggling families in Nigeria today. This is why Nigerian men only expect their wife to: Born kids Cook Keep the home clean Care for the kids 5 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by pocohantas(f): 6:39pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
You know sometimes this thing is about perspective. Personally I may not notice I am slaving till you ask me to do one specific house chore- WASHING. Please don’t tell me to wash heap of clothes, let alone a man’s shirts that needs starch and vigorous ironing. I also do not believe it has anything to him being a breadwinner. That is why it is good to marry a man that has sense and conscience. I am not sure they are up to 31 remaining in Nigeria now. Two people are in a home/marriage. It is ideal that they both put hands to keep it running- domestically, financially, sexually...etc. Anything less and one person is just being wicked. We have a lot of wicked partners in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
chiol:God forbid that the role is swapped!! Women can't handle that kind of Leadership!! "Dear what did you cook?" "No I don't want that, you are just staying at home while myself as a woman working very hard to balance the home. Make sure my food is ready before I come around and get back to me". How would you feel?? It is your God-given right to be the Leader/breadwinner while she does the wifely duties.. 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:41pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
chiol: Those kids grew up wonderfully without the presence of a man. That you don't see it as such doesn't negate the fact that their mothers became their protectors as well as nurturers. Same thing can be said of a single dad and widowers 1 Like |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by hupo: 6:41pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007: Don't let today's modernization blur you. My mum earned far more than my dad and heaven did not fall. Neither of them does house chores. My mum had a maid who stayed with us until my eldest sister go to primary six and she left. What Dad did was to tutor us on how to be independent. Dad was a very good cook but he does that once in a year precisely every 1st Jan. So he had roles shared among five of us and my dad and mum supervised. ( none of us attended boarding school) At age 6, I could wash my casual clothes and fold them neatly. my eldest sister did the cooking. Every year my Dad announces new roles appropriate for your age. So before we got to JSS 3, we were all gurus in house keeping. We never had any maid again till we all left the house. The initial stage may not be easy but pays off in the end. Children are part of the family and should be allowed to hold responsibility suitable for their age. 5 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:A tissue of lies 3 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
eni4real:Eni4real take am easy nah... You gave me over 5 mentions, Biko how I wan start to dey respond? |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by bettermike: 6:43pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Toks2008: You have the guts to call yourself a man. Child. You know nothing. Just continue your ass licking. |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by payloader(m): 6:44pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Many ladies are very lazy, naturally, and will read so many negative meanings into this piece of advice for men. No good man will want his wife to go through all these, but a point must be made about many wives who just love to be very active at home, and therefore, are misconstrued as enslavement by many feminists and gender equality proponents. We all know, especially married men, that many women indirectly control their husbands. I am, therefore, surprised that this topic is coming to social media. 2 Likes |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:44pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Palema007:Lolz |
Re: When you want a Slave In The Name Of Wife Material. by Nobody: 6:44pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
hupo:You Dad is a Liberal and understanding person, that's not the same for some Men. Your mum wasn't pushed beyond her capacity and was allowed to have a maid, that's not the same for some women. 3 Likes |
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