I was having a conversation with a friend and how he feels about about a couple having a sex when a toddler is sleeping on the same bed as the couple?
Is it moral or those it have a bad spiritual omen ,and I don't know if am guilty of of this same act if it's bad.
Because we go to work in the morning and come back late and the only time for intimacy is in the night. Except weekends. Is it even idea in the same room with the baby while sleeping.

this your question get advantage & disadvantage

1 having a baby in the bed could totally destroy your love life, unless yyou are creative, proactive, and patient.
2 when the child hasn’t started crawling yet and still spends most of their time catching zees or sleeping all the time. I suggest you think outside of the bedroom. I personally don’t
like the idea of having sex while the baby
sleeps in the bed with you.

NOTE = poverty is what squeezes families
together at night in many less-developed parts
of the world

wey kids of nowadays be like na computer dey dia head

No. Personally, I have clear memories of being 1yr + down to the room arrangement where I slept with my grandmother, some of my clothing, etc. The children now are even smarter. I would say if you can put a curtain between the cot and the bed, they would not understand what was going on.

Why is it that Nigerians don't like or buy cradle beds?

Emary:
No. Personally, I have clear memories of being 1yr + down to the room arrangement where I slept with my grandmother, some of my clothing, etc. The children now are even smarter. I would say if you can put a curtain between the cot and the bed, they would not understand what was going on.

Lol, that's not true madam. U may think u were 1 then but u were definitely much older. Scientists have proven that clear memory starts as from 3 years. Meaning u can never remember anything that happened to u before that age. It has been proven that words exposed to by age of 3 and never spoken anymore can still be recalled back by the individual. This alone give credibility to the idea of memory beginning from 3 years of age. Pls Google it.
So back to the OP, u can do anything u want to do with ur 1 year old being there. This u can continue doing even at 2 years but pls not beyond that age. I would also suggest doing it under the blanket. Ur little one doesn't need to see ur and ur partner in full glory during the act. It's not a pleasant sight for a child. Also being stark naked Infront of ur children is not advisable. Ofcos u can be in ur briefs with them around atleast till they reach older ages.

It's very bad omen

Le124:
I was having a conversation with a friend and how he feels about about a couple having a sex when a toddler is sleeping on the same bed as the couple?
Is it moral or those it have a bad spiritual omen ,and I don't know if am guilty of of this same act if it's bad.
Because we go to work in the morning and come back late and the only time for intimacy is in the night. Except weekends. Is it even idea in the same room with the baby while sleeping.

The baby is fast asleep and doesn't even have any idea of what you both are doing

You can stop it as the child gets to two years because at that age, they mimic everything they see

If you are living in a room apartment, get a foam and let child sleeps in the floor close to the bed, he won't be able to see anything while lying in the floor at two years

Emary:
I would say if you can put a curtain between the cot and the bed, they would not understand what was going on.

What about the moaning

drnoel:


Lol, that's not true madam. U may think u were 1 then but u were definitely much older. Scientists have proven that clear memory starts as from 3 years. Meaning u can never remember anything that happened to u before that age. It has been proven that words exposed to by age of 3 and never spoken anymore can still be recalled back by the individual. This alone give credibility to the idea of memory beginning from 3 years of age. Pls Google it.

Speak for yourself, please. Such figures are generalizations. There are several child prodigies who can clearly recall words, numbers and shapes even before they are a year old. Given that there are 9 proven distinct types of intelligence, it is only logical that some kids would be ahead in visual and emotional recall. Perhaps you can do more research about it before commenting next time.

https://courses.lumenlearning.com/wmopen-lifespandevelopment/chapter/cognitive-development-in-infants-and-toddlers/

ZINIBANKS:

What about the moaning

They would be extremely unlikely to correlate the moaning with the action at that age.

Yes u can

Emary:


Speak for yourself, please. Such figures are generalizations. There are several child prodigies who can clearly recall words, numbers and shapes even before they are a year old. Given that there are 9 proven distinct types of intelligence, it is only logical that some kids would be ahead in visual and emotional recall. Perhaps you can do more research about it before commenting next time.

https://courses.lumenlearning.com/wmopen-lifespandevelopment/chapter/cognitive-development-in-infants-and-toddlers/

Madam what u posted just confirmed what I wrote. I rest my case. U should read what u posted well so u understand it. If u still don't understand it, I could post more links for u. Cheers!!

drnoel:


Madam what u posted just confirmed what I wrote. I rest my case. U should read what u posted well so u understand it. If u still don't understand it, I could post more links for u. Cheers!!

I doubt you even understood what was posted at all.

@farano,
@Rocktation

its not advisable...a friend of mine said as for him and His wife, when thier new baby is on the bed, the kitchen, toilet or other rooms becomes the new bedroom because they dnt like disturbance when on it..