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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sorepco(m): 8:56am On Aug 11, 2020 |
I understand u. But on the flip side if the man had said they should stay in his family house n build their own house so as to save on rent.... I for gree. But he wants to be attached to his mum...which is a no-no. Even If he builds the mum go still move in! REDBUNNY: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by EncourageMe: 8:56am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Your sister is very right,, look at what the scripture says about it.... at least non be me talk am, nan waiting God talk be this...Matthew 19:5 and said, ' 'FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE. OluwaLina1: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Ferrous(m): 8:58am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Is it the mother that built the house? Before I would know what to say |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:01am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Zzor:Nothing right in it and for someone like me,its a red flag,and I won't marry som1 like that. The intended bride already has a mindset of trouble even when there's none.The living together is going to be for a while not forever. People like you will display your worst bitchy behaviour if brother's wife displays similar rejection attitude to your mother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ostarlink: 9:03am On Aug 11, 2020 |
For me o she is doing the right thing. Although we have different characters of women but I have seen husband's mum destroy a marriage out of unnecessary squabbles including that of my own sister. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by daprofo: 9:05am On Aug 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:07am On Aug 11, 2020 |
dominique:But it was clearly stated that d living together was going to be for a while and not forever. If your prospective DIL rejects d idea of staying with you even for one day,hope you'll be ok with that and it will never change your perception of her. And for the girl to wave the threat of canceling the wedding, she doesn't love that guy one bit. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:10am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:This is not a case of rejection,this is how you men lay the foundation of troubles for your wives in marriage,a smart woman who wants to avoid any form of trouble in her marriage will definitely know she needs her space,let your mother stay in her husband's house with her children and she's very free to pay visits anytime she wants to but definitely not living together.When this trouble begins,this men begin to act as simp and not know what to do.If a man gives me that condition for marriage,i will reject his proposal with so much joy and never look back. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by freemi(m): 9:12am On Aug 11, 2020 |
J111333:very fo.lish write up. Did she say the man isnt a good man? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Wigetsolar: 9:12am On Aug 11, 2020 |
oshaosha2014: E get why it is a "Guide". |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Monday60655(m): 9:16am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Understanding is the key here. Both your sister and her husband to be should sit together if the love is there. Has she let the man understand her reasons in a well respectful manner, or did she just take the decision to cancel the wedding. There are many unalloyed question you ought to make known in your write up. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:16am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Zzor:There is no man,even boys that doesn't dream of having his own nice crib,modern,furnished to his taste etc.Men even abandone their older houses to build and move into newer ones.Its an ego thing for every man. The girl has outrightly rejected to stay with her mother in law EVEN FOR ONE DAY,which is a no no for me. I will never marry such a girl and if your prospective SIL displays such attitude to your mum,you will make d greatest noise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by deathmen12: 9:19am On Aug 11, 2020 |
don't Mind that idiot OluwaLina1: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by deathmen12: 9:23am On Aug 11, 2020 |
why are you insulting her? as if you have personal issue with her, stop acting like irresponsible adult. Timbers: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:my prospective SIL can't come and permanently live with my mom,dont she have husband?there are certain things you have to avoid by all means if you want a peaceful marriage,most men pay less attention to the problems wives face from their own family,this problems lingers for long,so it's better to avoid them from the onset. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:26am On Aug 11, 2020 |
E good as e get why e be guide. I am not disputing that fact. However, current circumstances that we all uniquely pass through in life, sometimes, we just have to be flexible. Wigetsolar: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by stephenponti(m): 9:27am On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi: oil dey your head. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by turbotech11: 9:28am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Laugh wan kill me for this thread...Even people wey don old & still dey live under their parents house go just dey type nonsense. Just pray to not be in such a situation but if you find yourself in one,try and reason with your partner to reach a logical decision.........All these comments go just dey stoke the fire more..... |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by gbogboija: 9:28am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Your sister decision is a perfect one, she should not be pressurize to go ahead with the wedding plan. What is the essence of a marriage whereby you won't have peace? A lady shared her her story her sometimes around last year, how she got married, and was taken to her mother in-law's house. Very pathetic story. To stay single is better than to be married and be sad in the marriage. If the guy is ready to marry, let him show he is responsible by getting his own apartment. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MaziIgwe007: 9:32am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Nairaland has proven the increase of Jezebel and witches in our society. Hoes Will come from nowhere and start giving rules on how things are to be, when they never knew how that family started to survive from day1. well, whether it's you or your sister, you guys should wait till eternity to get a right thinking man that will agree to ur useless interest.. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:35am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Zzor:All of you have been carefully avoiding the fact that d living together is going to be for a while not forever,it's clearly written there in the OP's post. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Rubyventures: 9:39am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: I think your sister is very sensible. She is trying to avoid future problems. She might love her future mum-in-law doesn't mean she has got to live with her. The early stages of marriage is vey important, she needs her privacy and her future husband needs to cut the apron strings, it doesn't mean he is abandoning his mum. he needs his space to grow into a proper man and stop being a mummy's boy. If he has a problem with this, then they are not meant for each other. Marriage is not a do or die affair. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:if it's going to be for a while no problems,but the husband has to be in charge and look out for the women involved(both mom and wife) should the need arise. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MaziIgwe007: 9:41am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Wtf are still talking, this marriage was never made to stand. quarrels from day1 already. Abeg the man should dump ur sister immediately for peace to reign |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Rubyventures: 9:41am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:Has he started building his house? Do you know how long it takes to build house in Nigeria on a salary? How do we know that its not an excuse and then it becomes forever, then she cant do anything about it. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:42am On Aug 11, 2020 |
MaziIgwe007:The bitchy attitude of most nairaland females is scary. That lady giving terms and conditions evidently only came to the relationship with her high mileage vagina and an untested womb and a huge entitlement mentality. I expected the brother to also say his sister was offering to rent a comfortable apartment for them but of course,you will never hear such cos their own na just to siddon born,get fat. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MaziIgwe007: 9:43am On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi: OP will pretend a she didn't see this your comment. At least I'm sure she read it |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:46am On Aug 11, 2020 |
oshaosha2014:As usual, a ton of bullsh.it |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MaziIgwe007: 9:48am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677: And also give orders. They don't joke with it. They love giving orders. They should be ready to give it not in the house I'm paying the rent for |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:50am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Powerfly:chuckles of course he is a simp. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:50am On Aug 11, 2020 |
placeofallure:On the flip side, what if the MIL is hard to please? The type that is very intrusive and sees nothing wrong with it? Don't use the experience you had with a good MIL as a single rule for others. Some MIL want to be in absolute control of their son's lives. And living under the same roof will not make it any better for the new wife. First of all the mother of this man is the FIRST wife, and judging from his words, he certainly has no spine to counter whatever his mom says or do. Do you know who will suffer the most? The new wife. Newly wedded couple need some time to themselves, to get used to each other, away from prying eyes. And I'm sure this lady knew what was coming and was wise to dodge it, although almost too late. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:53am On Aug 11, 2020 |
LadySarah:let him marry his mum, the slowpoke is nt ready for marriage. 1 Like |
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