Lightway:


Simp spotted... Red Alert!!!

It's okay to cook and clean when she's Dead, Divorced, Puts to bed, ill, traveled out.
But if she's around and healthy and you cook and clean for a "happy wife happy life", then you should start dressing like Bobrisky and James Brown.

Meedon:


And people still deh give birth like flies. Some men are the cause of their own problems sha. Las las na ground all humans go enter.

Benee1000:


A man cooking once in awhile even when his wife is healthy and present doesn't automatically make him a simp.

It's obvious that many guys here do not really know what simping is.

Having witnessed first hand when men cook for their families, I know the kind of happiness, laughter, fun it can bring to a family. It is not just about the food but the experience.

Some men are very cooks, and they enjoy doing it. It doesn't diminish his respect in the home if done once in awhile, but rather increases it, as the wife is made aware that food in her armoury is a useless weapon for manipulating the man.

It is only when a man sees it as his duty to cook for his family that it becomes a problem.

Do not deny yourself and your family an enjoyable experience just because you want to form jagaban or patriarch.

ubunja:
if it's a happy family moment you seek, then taking your family out to dinner is 10 X more joyful for any wife than you actually cooking.

Benee1000:


A man cooking once in awhile even when his wife is healthy and present doesn't automatically make him a simp.

It's obvious that many guys here do not really know what simping is.

Having witnessed first hand when men cook for their families, I know the kind of happiness, laughter, fun it can bring to a family. It is not just about the food but the experience.

Some men are very cooks, and they enjoy doing it. It doesn't diminish his respect in the home if done once in awhile, but rather increases it, as the wife is made aware that food in her armoury is a useless weapon for manipulating the man.

It is only when a man sees it as his duty to cook for his family that it becomes a problem.

Do not deny yourself and your family an enjoyable experience just because you want to form jagaban or patriarch.

Benee1000:


A man cooking once in awhile even when his wife is healthy and present doesn't automatically make him a simp.

It's obvious that many guys here do not really know what simping is.

Having witnessed first hand when men cook for their families, I know the kind of happiness, laughter, fun it can bring to a family. It is not just about the food but the experience.

Some men are very cooks, and they enjoy doing it. It doesn't diminish his respect in the home if done once in awhile, but rather increases it, as the wife is made aware that food in her armoury is a useless weapon for manipulating the man.

It is only when a man sees it as his duty to cook for his family that it becomes a problem.

Do not deny yourself and your family an enjoyable experience just because you want to form jagaban or patriarch.

ubunja:
if it's a happy family moment you seek, then taking your family out to dinner is 10 X more joyful for any wife than you actually cooking.

Elder0001:


True.

Lightway:


Mumu spotted

ichidodo:
Out 100 Nigerians willing to go into tech, 99.9% usually drop out, not because there aren't jobs involved but the fact that they don't have what it takes to persevere should the journey becomes tough...For example coding requires one to take stretches of time, I mean, like 6-7 hours at a go without feeling fatigue, you know how it is playing video games from sun up till sundown or midnight till daybreak ? You must that same vigil for programming...That's why I always advocate for passion... If you are passionate towards coding, I believe, you will learn a whole way of doing things... Spending time looking at a computer screen from 5am till 1pm won't faze you but you have to ask yourself...do you have the balls?

Smartb0y:

He might as well wash the dishes once in a while to show that he's still in control

Benee1000:


Why shift the goal post!
Did my reply mention anything about dish washing? or control?

Don't just make a post because you want to appeal to your ego as a man. Be realistic.

Rules of Life are not written in stone. Every action demands wisdom.

Smartb0y:

Do you have any idea what the female imperative is all about?

Maybe start there before you come on here to comment .
You're what is called a male feminist.

Martinez39s:
Avoid arguing with mischievous blue-pill fellows. They are not worth the time.

Benee1000:


There's really no point debating which is more joyful to any wife as it's different strokes for different folks.

What matters is the experience.

Benee1000:


If you do not want to engage in an argument concerning some topics on this thread, that's fine.
However, don't discourage people who have opposing opinions from engaging on a debate in this thread.
People have learnt a lot through debates in this thread including you.

Benee1000:


If you do not want to engage in an argument concerning some topics on this thread, that's fine.
However, don't discourage people who have opposing opinions from engaging on a debate in this thread.
People have learnt a lot through debates in this thread including you.

DharmieDhrey:




You're not far from the truth at all... Doing such occasionally unites the family the more and creates a strong bond.. That you know the tenets of the redpill doesn't mean you shouldn't be flexible.. Those things they consider insignificant and too feminine means a lot, at that moment you connect with her emotions.. I'm talking of a submissive, feminine woman... It sure turns her on

DharmieDhrey:



Imagine being tagged "a blue pulled simp" for being flexible... I just don't understand some guys here, shaming someone that doesn't share the same ideology with them.. So cooking for the family once in a while is simping? Many dudes here dunno what this word means sef...

There are some guys here I really hold in high esteem but I have seen that they can hardly express their thoughts without bashing others with contrasting views.. Most of 'em are yet to see what life really entails, I mean the bigger picture... Once more, It's different strokes for different folks.

Smartb0y:

Happy wife, happy life right?

ProphetJeroboam:
I saw a post on Twitter and I couldn’t help but think of how cunning women are. The poster(a girl) tweeted about how she wants a guy to fvck her and give her 100K because she needs it to complete her 250K payment for a house. She ended the tweet with interested guys should send a dm. Now lots of people will slut shame her but I assure you, this lady has no interest in fvcking some random guy for 100K on Twitter. It’s a trap, a simp trap/white knight trap and a bidding war for the incel white knights. White knight goes to her dm; “I saw your post, you’re too beautiful to sell your body like that but I understand that desperate times calls for desperate measures, how much is the money self? Common 100K, send your account number, I don’t want the sex from you, I just want to show you that good men exist who don’t have to sleep with ladies to help them” White knight then proceeds to send her 1 million. Lady is happy, sends him kiss emojis and heart emojis and white knight is contented, asks for her phone number. White knight continues to help her financially whilst hoping she’d fvck him out of consideration one day. Don’t be white knight. The lady above is aware of men’s propensity to rescue damsels in distress and she is banking on it. Be wise.

DharmieDhrey:



Imagine being tagged "a blue pulled simp" for being flexible... I just don't understand some guys here, shaming someone that doesn't share the same ideology with them.. So cooking for the family once in a while is simping? Many dudes here dunno what this word means sef...

There are some guys here I really hold in high esteem but I have seen that they can hardly express their thoughts without bashing others with contrasting views.. Most of 'em are yet to see what life really entails, I mean the bigger picture... Once more, It's different strokes for different folks.

ubunja:
some of these things are a slippery slope. We're discouraging them cause you may start something you may regret when she begins to expect this on the regular.
If you wanna give her a break from the kitchen work, just order in a meal and have her take a break from the cooking. It doesn't have to be YOU giving her a break, but someone else.

As a man outsource the feminine duties, pay someone else to do those things. But when it comes to masculine duties eg plumbing etc, NEVER OUTSOURCE, learn the skill yourself and do the things yourself. That's how you maintain frame.

Telling a man to cook to please his wife is like telling a woman to change the car tire to please her husband. On the surface it seems like a great bonding experience but it's eventually a turn off.

If you want your wife to be really happy, and you've money, then hire a maid to do the heavy lifting in the kitchen and she just supervises her. Simple. This thing of a man laboring on the stove all in the name of experiences don't end well.

Legionx:


Why not clean the house while you're at it. Wash the clothes and bring her breakfast in bed. Stop watching novelas. Boy, you don't even know the bigger picture of life. You've never been to the middle east of the deepest parts of the West and you think you know shit.

I'll never cook when I get married. It will be a taboo. If you like cook for your wife. When she's tired the next day, she will ask you to cook again, and again and before you know it, you will want you to continue cooking. It won't be long before you're washing her undies. Thats what it means to be a simp.. You don't know anything about gender roles, masculinity, maintaining frame.

Ubunja has taught you. If you want to give your wife a break from cooking, take the family out to dinner and bond with them. It can be in a fancy restaurant or somewhere else. Going to somewhere new and relaxing is a great experience a woman will always remember.

Receive sense in Jesus name...;. Amen

Legionx:


Why not clean the house while you're at it. Wash the clothes and bring her breakfast in bed. Stop watching novelas. Boy, you don't even know the bigger picture of life. You've never been to the middle east of the deepest parts of the West and you think you know shit.

I'll never cook when I get married. It will be a taboo. If you like cook for your wife. When she's tired the next day, she will ask you to cook again, and again and before you know it, you will want you to continue cooking. It won't be long before you're washing her undies. Thats what it means to be a simp.. You don't know anything about gender roles, masculinity, maintaining frame.

Ubunja has taught you. If you want to give your wife a break from cooking, take the family out to dinner and bond with them. It can be in a fancy restaurant or somewhere else. Going to somewhere new and relaxing is a great experience a woman will always remember.

Receive sense in Jesus name...;. Amen

Benee1000:


A man cooking once in awhile even when his wife is healthy and present doesn't automatically make him a simp.

It's obvious that many guys here do not really know what simping is.

Having witnessed first hand when men cook for their families, I know the kind of happiness, laughter, fun it can bring to a family. It is not just about the food but the experience.

Some men are very cooks, and they enjoy doing it. It doesn't diminish his respect in the home if done once in awhile, but rather increases it, as the wife is made aware that food in her armoury is a useless weapon for manipulating the man.

It is only when a man sees it as his duty to cook for his family that it becomes a problem.

Do not deny yourself and your family an enjoyable experience just because you want to form jagaban or patriarch.

DharmieDhrey:



Mr Masculine or rather Mr Patriarchy, you are the one who needs to receive sense... When did I imply you doing the cooking regularly? A man's frame is all that matters... I'm talking of giving one's wife a treat especially when she has done something great of which you decided to reward her good behaviour... You don't have to force your opinion down my throat...

Abba114:
they r blinded by hatred and cant even see any good thing from the females side forget about them apart from cooking i will also wash her pants on weekends

ubunja:

You know the redpill is about to be thrown under the bus when statements like these start being said...