OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

Nice

Please, Every guy here must already know this......

emmaodet:


All I see are women with too many options.

Women have options and it makes them take stupid decisions.
It is only a man that blue chip companies like chevron and Mobil are chasing regularly that will be making shakara with jobs but a man that has treaked , suffered, prayed etc just to get a single job will so so so value and hold it tight.
Mother Nature has really spoilt ladies with constant attention, gifts and money from men so they always get carried away.

I like reading ladies diary on that section and I am always surprise how ladies quickly move on after breakup.

There is always men in the corner on stby to jump into relationship with her.
Read on of recent - she claimed to be the average good Nigerian girl, beautiful (only God knows if that is true), tall and earning fine yet men have been chopping and cleaning mouth with her.
She is frustrated, depressed and always having mood swings but in all, what got my attention is the way and rate she swaps relationships.
Just within a month or 2 of breaking up with her boo, she had attended only God know how many weekend dates, tried her hands or couples of failed relationships etc.

There is always one Ugo who has always been her bestie she confides in or James that slides in her dm a long time ago and now she wants to give him a listening ear and chance or Tobi the guy staying the next street who has been a long admirer or Sola at her place of work or or or just too too too many.

For God sake, can’t you ladies just take a 3-6 months break from anything relationship after breaking up and use that moment for a self-appraisal?
From my observation, it seems relationship is the lifeline and blood of women.
They can’t just do or survive without it.
Many will live a miserable life without a man’s impact in their lives just for a year.

You gerrit.

Women can't function alone, that always want to belong.

That's one of the reasons why they're usually amazed about how a man can enjoy his company alone, without feeling lonely.

So, they try to copy men, but in the long run, they end up being frustrated.

Karlifate:


You gerrit.

Women can't function alone, that always want to belong.

That's one of the reasons why they're usually amazed about how a man can enjoy his company alone, without feeling lonely.

So, they try to copy men, but in the long run, they end up being frustrated.

Any man that tells you he’s happy alone is lying to you. Many poor/ugly/short men have no choice but to be alone as women no dey look their side. They will pretend to be happy but deep down they are crying for help, battling loneliness and depression and contemplating suicide.

Human beings are social animals and NOBODY enjoys being alone. Know this and know peace before yamayama fire that your large forehead there

Labadi69:


Any man that tells you he’s happy alone is lying to you. Many poor/ugly/short men have no choice but to be alone as women no dey look their side. They will pretend to be happy but deep down they are crying for help, battling loneliness and depression and contemplating suicide.

Human beings are social animals and NOBODY enjoys being alone. Know this and know peace before yamayama fire that your large forehead there

Do you believe in God?

Labadi69:
Any man that tells you he’s happy alone is lying to you. Many poor/ugly/short men have no choice but to be alone as women no dey look their side. They will pretend to be happy but deep down they are crying for help, battling loneliness and depression and contemplating suicide.
Human beings are social animals and NOBODY enjoys being alone.

My position concerning this is YES and NO.
From my knowledge about we humans over time NOBODY enjoys being alone long term. Emphasis on the word long term. In this I'd say you're right. However there is something called ME-TIME. This I will define as time when one desires to be alone just to unwind and recharge. Time to reflect and reassess. Time when one releases oneself to the creative muses. Time of self evaluation and rejuvenation that results in enhanced creativity and productivity. Men in general, require and desire this time more than women. I believe Karlifate was talking more in this context.
Women are naturally more clingy and dependent than men. There will always be a few exceptions of course.

Loneliness kills but don't rush into people's life because you are lonely.

You can enjoy the solemness of your solitude if you master the act of creating your me-time.

Tonnyray:
In this I'd say you're right. However there is something called ME-TIME. This I will define as time when one desires to be alone just to unwind and recharge. Time to reflect and reassess. Time when one releases oneself to the creative muses. Time of self evaluation and rejuvenation that results in enhanced creativity and productivity. In my experience, in general, men require and desire this time more than women. I believe Karlifate was talking more in this context.
Women are naturally more clingy and dependent than men. There will always be a few exceptions of course.

Yeah, right.

A man that doesn't have time to think, will stink.

Lotsa women don't care about thinking, so far they're feeling good. They think that's all there is to life.

Meedon:
You all should have boundaries when dealing with married women. A nigga just got stripped naked and paraded on the street like a common criminal because he had sexual intercourse with a married woman. The woman went her way without much embarasment. No be every pussy dem the Bleep.

It pays to have self-control at times.

This should be an unwritten rule for every guy/man that values peace of mind, and also want to succeed in life.

If you're too savage, she gets upset and forgives you

If you're too civilised, you get dumped

Lesson in there

I've been a victim of this. You're damn right. And I promise myself never to repeat the same mistake with another woman

Karlifate:


This should be an unwritten rule for every guy/man that values peace of mind, and also want to succeed in life.

and I'm over here thinking about the craziest experience I ever had with a married woman. Lmfao. Karma better not mess with me I'm not ready lol.

Women with entitlement mentality sha

ubunja:
and I'm over here thinking about the craziest experience I ever had with a married woman. Lmfao. Karma better not mess with me I'm not ready lol.

Well, not everyone can live life, constantly looking over their shoulders.

Karma aside.

Some SIMPu husbands are very dangerous, and will get back at whoever dare touches their wives, especially if he's a male.
They can go as far as hiring assassins to terminate the life of their wife's side cock(s).


Peace of mind is non-negotiable.

Karlifate:
Well, not everyone can live life, constantly looking over their shoulders.
Karma aside.
Some SIMPu husbands are very dangerous, and will get back at whoever dare touches their wives, especially if he's a male.
They can go as far as hiring assassins to terminate the life of their wife's side cock(s).
Peace of mind is non-negotiable.

You are wise.

heartofcity12:


Exactly. Check Rilimillz page and see his female followers’ pics he’s been posting and see the thirsty comments under. These hoes have serious urge to go completely naked.

Rilimillz is it on Instagram or TikTok?

Gerrard59:

One thing I have noticed in sexual relationships or affairs is that the men who complain a lot about how women are so "sexually free" are never financially buoyant. They are always poor! I am yet to meet a man who bemoans sexual freedom for women that is well-to-do.

"Well-to-do men don't "bemoans" because they are the exact SIMPS we are talking about.

The onus is for you to tell us if he should bemoan:

1. when he is being pillaged by the divorce/family court.

2. When he is being friend-zoned.

3. When he sacrificed his life for the woman and got dumped.

4. When he becomes a victim of paternity fraud.

5. When he has sponsored the girl through a tertiary institution and ends up dumping him.

Quick note: a foolish man will first judge truth from a place of wealth and abundance. The wise man will decipher the message on the ground from the messenger. The same foolish men fall for the authority bias - something is true if it is spoken by those that have high status.

What will you say concerning the woman below?

Have a nice day.

Karlifate:


Well, not everyone can live life, constantly looking over their shoulders.

Karma aside.

Some SIMPu husbands are very dangerous, and will get back at whoever dare touches their wives, especially if he's a male.
They can go as far as hiring assassins to terminate the life of their wife's side cock(s).


Peace of mind is non-negotiable.

you can say that again man. Peace of mind is non negotiable. But these married women will always be a problem

CaveAdullam:


"Well-to-do men don't "bemoans" because they are the exact SIMPS we are talking about.

The onus is for you to tell us if he should bemoan:

1. when he is being pillaged by the divorce/family court.

2. When he is being friend-zoned.

3. When he sacrificed his life for the woman and got dumped.

4. When he becomes a victim of paternity fraud.

5. When he has sponsored the girl through a tertiary institution and ends up dumping him.

Quick note: you are still a foolish man when you first judge truth from a place of wealth and abundance. The wise man will decipher the message on the ground from the messenger. The same foolish men fall for the authority bias - something is true if it is spoken by those that have high status.

Have a nice day.

Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

CaveAdullam:


"Well-to-do men don't "bemoans" because they are the exact SIMPS we are talking about.

The onus is for you to tell us if he should bemoan:

1. when he is being pillaged by the divorce/family court.

2. When he is being friend-zoned.

3. When he sacrificed his life for the woman and got dumped.

4. When he becomes a victim of paternity fraud.

5. When he has sponsored the girl through a tertiary institution and ends up dumping him.

Quick note: you are still a foolish man when you first judge truth from a place of wealth and abundance. The wise man will decipher the message on the ground from the messenger. The same foolish men fall for the authority bias - something is true if it is spoken by those that have high status.

Have a nice day.

You wey dey talk, I can bet anything say when small coins touch your hand you will spend on women. E too sure. Person wey never see money before will never understand why rich men spend on women until them see small money and do worse so I don’t blame a poor short man like you.

You are so angry because God didn’t give you looks and height and on top come make you a poor man. How will you now be able to understand what a man with lots of money thinks when he’s spending his money? Wetin concern you if they spend it on girls?

Oga Just go hustle and pray to baba God to pick your call so that you can make tashere money to chop. You broke nobodys need to stop the hating on rich niggas and go hustle before yamayama fall on that your poor short body

SOZINN:


Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

Maybe I misconstrued him for another Gerrard I do come across sometimes.

Thanks man.

How are you?

SOZINN:





Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

You must be a slowpoke if by now you cannot tell how I write. Yamayama fall on that your dull bald head there. Tueh!

ubunja:
and I'm over here thinking about the craziest experience I ever had with a married woman. Lmfao. Karma better not mess with me I'm not ready lol.

Which married woman? In your dreams you mean? Or when you are watching your favorite porn and doing soapy?

I was in SA last week and saw how they treat Zim immigrants. You guys are treated worse than animals. The men insult you guys at will and the women run away from you. So how on earth are you fukkin? Keep dreaming. Heat go soon slap that your bald head to wake you up. Nonsense

Tonnyray:
My position concerning this is YES and NO.
From my knowledge about we humans over time NOBODY enjoys being alone long term. Emphasis on the word long term. In this I'd say you're right. However there is something called ME-TIME. This I will define as time when one desires to be alone just to unwind and recharge. Time to reflect and reassess. Time when one releases oneself to the creative muses. Time of self evaluation and rejuvenation that results in enhanced creativity and productivity. Men in general, require and desire this time more than women. I believe Karlifate was talking more in this context.
Women are naturally more clingy and dependent than men. There will always be a few exceptions of course.

you can only be lonely and depressed as a guy, if u are broke and lack purpose in life.

SOZINN:





Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

Nah, Gerrard59 might be anti-redpill but he's definitely not a troll or even Labadi69.

Sapy442:


Rilimillz is it on Instagram or TikTok?

Instagram

heartofcity12:


Exactly. Check Rilimillz page and see his female followers’ pics he’s been posting and see the thirsty comments under. These hoes have serious urge to go completely naked.

did you see the male versions? Guys are also posting. But they're fully clothed. And the ladies are thirsting too lol.

SOZINN:





Chief this guy you quoted and that Labadi is the same person. He just created another moniker to complement and agree with himself, he couldn't even be creative with it. One is 69 the other is 59

He just created another moniker?

Mr Man, I have been on Nairaland since 2011, got my first job via this site, honed my writing skills here (which has helped me tremendously) and have maintained this account ever since. Raalsalghul shared an interesting post, and I decided to read the comments and saw L69's posts which I found very funny and true.

I just checked your profile page and discovered you don't have sense. Ndito "dEsToRy tHe wOrLd". If that is what you spend your time thinking about, no wonder the unemployment rate in Nigeria is very high. Effects of too much generator fumes in your cerebrum.

Raalsalghul:


Nah, Gerrard.59 might be anti-redpill but he's definitely not a troll or even Labad.i69.

Not like I am very anti-redpill abi red tablet, at least I understood the quoted post Bashiru wrote about. I sympathised with the man and his friends. I even wanted to quote him but realised the post is more than one-year-old. Then someone who spends time thinking about how to dEsToRy the world says I created the account to compliment myself.

Ikot Ekpene Vladimir putin

this Instagram page is crazy.....

captainzee4life:
Loneliness kills

Seriously ?
Can you define the loneliness you are talking about?

ubunja:
did you see the male versions? Guys are also posting. But they're fully clothed. And the ladies are thirsting too lol.

Lol, he said he would post that today, I’ll check lol

Pukkalolo:
A woman interest for you isn’t black or white: it's constantly unstable.

Which is kinda of a good thing because if you simp or mess up--and her interest for you decrease, it easier to fix things and re-attract her.

Same way, if you loose guard or show neediness, you can easily lose her.

yes and what attracts a woman changes as she goes through various stages/phases in life... What a woman considers an Alpha/masculine man changes constantly. A younger woman in her 20s will call that reckless drug dealer throwing around cash an Alpha and masculine man and chase after him for the fun and the chance to spend money. But that same woman in her 30s will vomit at the thought of getting with that same drug dealer throwing around money cause now she wanna settle and start a family and suddenly wants a man who's careful with his finances and is prudent and knows how to properly budget. So suddenly that quiet boy who lived a life of economy and careful spending is what she considers a "real man" now and she starts calling out the drug dealer as childish and immature.