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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by VickyRotex(f): 3:40pm On Aug 14, 2020
TheSociopath:


Been good smiley, and you?

Nice! cool Been good too. Thanks.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by meobizy(f): 4:10pm On Aug 14, 2020
makydebbie:


Men with their fish brain.
I know what you want and I will give it to you.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by nnekytravels: 4:12pm On Aug 14, 2020
OutsideTheBox:
That doesn't matter. Irrelevant.


That tells you online scam did not begin with us neither is it practiced by one race alone. This is an individual thing, anybody anywhere, offline or online can choose to involve in fraud irrespective of country or race.

You need to think outside the box like your name.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Akharmony: 4:14pm On Aug 14, 2020
I advice you decern first, weather the love scam is not in conjuction Vodoo/Jazz. You might find you self to b blame if the oyibo man is under spell.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Akharmony: 4:14pm On Aug 14, 2020
I advice you decern first, weather the romance scam is not in conjuction Vodoo/Jazz. You might find you self to b blame if the oyibo man is under spell.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by goldmatrix(m): 4:38pm On Aug 14, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
undecided undecided fake Tori.U can only deceive the dumb pipu with diz Ur Arabian tales..Show us Ur chat/convo.

Do you actually understand anything English? Do you know what he meant by chitchat? Even if the story is fake he should show you the verbal conversation they had together?

Your mumu is a next level type..continue.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by LannisterIMP: 5:16pm On Aug 14, 2020
ALEX182:


I said, matured responses. This happened this afternoon at work bruh. It is really troubling me and that's why I asked for advice. I don't have time for fake tales. Ok.



I think you should
Follow/Tow the line and Ethics of your profession.

If it’s not crossing boundaries and talk to your Boss or someone in a higher hierarchy in your Office so you don’t fall into A pit with this Picture you have painted!

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by LannisterIMP: 5:19pm On Aug 14, 2020
MrBen619:
Fake news everywhere, is the lady using charm?

May we not fall into Temptation! Amen.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 5:31pm On Aug 14, 2020
goldmatrix:


Do you actually understand anything English? Do you know what he meant by chitchat? Even if the story is fake he should show you the verbal conversation they had together?

My father mumu is a is legendary..continue.
.Even with Ur FAT head.u are empty upstairs..U dat understand English,how do u knw dat the story is true? Go to YouTube,u'll see similar stuff..They can use Ur head play draught.. Pig
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by OgbeniSamm(m): 5:40pm On Aug 14, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
U are stupid and defective upstairs.imbe sad

Mumu. Bye

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 5:46pm On Aug 14, 2020
OgbeniSamm:


Mumu. Bye
MISFORTUNE boy

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by onoja12: 6:21pm On Aug 14, 2020
Shouldnt to you






DexterousOne:


What you typed up here makes no sense
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by onoja12: 6:25pm On Aug 14, 2020
Keep speaking your rubbish brain washed talk,he was robbed ,so in the country you are second class citizen isnt there robbies every day.like i said slave mindedness is a state of mind where you search for ways to glorify your master.Nigeria in a state of bokoharm as it is,is safer than most western nations.if you want to argue state the country you are in let us compair the statistics.as for your make up story,go let american police deal with your black ass just for been black then you know which is better.you never see anything



quote author=abbey621 post=92811405]

That's your cup of tea and yours alone, I'm sure you wouldn't say this shit to a friend of mine who left 9ja for over 20 years only to return and on his way from the airpot he got robbed, his sister was shot, at the hospital they refused to treat her because of no police report, they spent 3 hours going from hospital to hospital and the one that accepted to treat her demanded 500k deposit. My guy had all his dollars stolen so no money, he had to call friends in the middle of the night to come to his aide, by the time the money came, the sister was dead.

My guy frustrated and all, now had a dead body, the police detained him asking silly questions and no passport or identification to even think about getting back to the USA. For this person, would you spew the same bullshit? Would you tell him there's no place like 9ja and that he should be happy and patrotic? This is just one experience, if I showed you people with more experiences at the zoo called 9ja you would cry like a baby....Just maintain your lane and know that your opinion is? JUST YOUR OPINION![/quote]
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by abbey621(m): 6:49pm On Aug 14, 2020
onoja12:
Keep speaking your rubbish brain washed talk,he was robbed ,so in the country you are second class citizen isnt there robbies every day.like i said slave mindedness is a state of mind where you search for ways to glorify your master.Nigeria in a state of bokoharm as it is,is safer than most western nations.if you want to argue state the country you are in let us compair the statistics.as for your make up story,go let american police deal with your black ass just for been black then you know which is better.you never see anything



quote author=abbey621 post=92811405]

That's your cup of tea and yours alone, I'm sure you wouldn't say this shit to a friend of mine who left 9ja for over 20 years only to return and on his way from the airpot he got robbed, his sister was shot, at the hospital they refused to treat her because of no police report, they spent 3 hours going from hospital to hospital and the one that accepted to treat her demanded 500k deposit. My guy had all his dollars stolen so no money, he had to call friends in the middle of the night to come to his aide, by the time the money came, the sister was dead.

My guy frustrated and all, now had a dead body, the police detained him asking silly questions and no passport or identification to even think about getting back to the USA. For this person, would you spew the same bullshit? Would you tell him there's no place like 9ja and that he should be happy and patrotic? This is just one experience, if I showed you people with more experiences at the zoo called 9ja you would cry like a baby....Just maintain your lane and know that your opinion is? JUST YOUR OPINION!

Damn....Did you even bother to read what I wrote? From robbery to hospitals refusing treatment due to police report and deposit to his sister dying, nigga did you read or are you just plain ignorant! This can never happen in the USA, this can never happen in any sane country and the fact that you keep defending your zoo is the reason you and your kind will continue to suffer like the animals your leaders see you as!

Nigeria safer than the USA....Nigga go to bed, it is obvious you are sleep deprrived and suffering froma psychotic breakdown......Don't mention me again, this fuckery ends here and now!
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Aug 14, 2020
Sleekfingers:


hypocrite....always claiming to be holy....but what they do behind close doors is unspeakable......
u lack basic comprehension. ....


Evil human being.

Always openly doing unspeakable evil

U lack everything.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by PatryG: 7:43pm On Aug 14, 2020
FanOfMyself:
The truth is that if there's truly a Nigerian lady ( i.e not a yahoo guy) then you need to see things from the perspective of this lady. Yes she might have lied (we ain't 100% sure that all she have told him are lies), but she might also be willing and ready to meet up with this your patient and even marry him at the end. Nigeria is really messed up economically and people here are struggling.
Let me just tell you this.
I'm in a similar situation also and the only difference is that I am a guy. I met this African American lady online sometime in February and we got acquainted pretty fast. Fast forward to today, she's really been helpful to me in financially and by extension, people close to me. In fact, I have been able to pay for tech skill and got certified all because of her. Yes I do lie to her sometimes ( infact most times) in order to get some dollars, but I really appreciate and I have feelings for her and I hope to meet her in person one day. So please consider the lady.

I have a question... Are you a lady or a man? Just curious oo
Aye e. Poverty is this one god ke. Go get a life man.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by khia: 7:51pm On Aug 14, 2020
embarassed
fabienjoe:


You are certainly proving your knowledge of the US to me. Good Luck. No one ropes you into anything...except perhaps there's something you're hiding. Reporting a crime cannot create a problem for you, except you're running away from the law and don't wanna be busted..because once the police is involved, they would like to know your identity, including your status in the US..

I am American and once again I say " You don't know anything about America". You said no one ropes you into anything unless there's something you are hiding which is absolutely bullcrap. You see, in the US there is an action/crime called RAILROADING when the law does exactly what you said, rope innocent people into something that they didn't do or knew anything about, this has been going on for centuries and continues to happen everyday.

Everyone serving time in prisons are not guilty and are there because of RAILROADING. If you like I can give you some cases of RAILROADING. The US justice system was designed and created to justly serve Caucasians and criminalize others. The protesting that is going on today is because people are sick and tired of the injustice. A lot of people believe the system is broken and needs to be fixed but in reality the system isn't broken it is working just the way it was designed to do.

The system (The US Constitution) needs to be rewritten, starting with the 13th amendment which still supports slavery under certain conditions which explains the mass incarceration of black people. The amendment clause that proclaims black people (meaning YOU) as only 3/5th human (that's why whites won't have a problem with blowing your head off because they don't see you as full human) needs to be abolished as well.

Sorry about my mini thesis but this was a teaching moment. smiley

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by OgbeniSamm(m): 7:55pm On Aug 14, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
MISFORTUNE boy

Unfortunate human being
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by onoja12: 8:45pm On Aug 14, 2020
Slave mind,do not worry today you are about to be woken up,sha na USA you talk see the statistic
1) number of death in 2017.take it

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/282929#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20Centers%20for,0.4%25%20over%202016's%20death%20rate.

2) number of death from murder. Take it

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/homicide.htm

3) number of death by police. Take it

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Police_use_of_deadly_force_in_the_United_States%23:~:text%3DUpdated%2520estimates%2520from%2520the%2520Bureau,same%2520rate%2520as%2520reporting%2520agencies.&ved=2ahUKEwixkqfouZvrAhVC1VkKHSDcC0wQFjABegQICxAF&usg=AOvVaw3Zx26YUIhs35cQy-1yqEEj

Just for addition number of robbies.take it
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.statista.com/statistics/251914/number-of-robberies-in-the-us-by-weapon/&ved=2ahUKEwil1saUupvrAhVIu1kKHSIjD0wQFjAAegQIBBAC&usg=AOvVaw0fc5Nvp8kdVgLOWQUl1Ixa&cshid=1597434239952

We know say una never travel,slave mind anywhere is better than Nigeria na so them dey take sell una .


quote author=abbey621 post=92819502]

Damn....Did you even bother to read what I wrote? From robbery to hospitals refusing treatment due to police report and deposit to his sister dying, nigga did you read or are you just plain ignorant! This can never happen in the USA, this can never happen in any sane country and the fact that you keep defending your zoo is the reason you and your kind will continue to suffer like the animals your leaders see you as!

Nigeria safer than the USA....Nigga go to bed, it is obvious you are sleep deprrived and suffering froma psychotic breakdown......Don't mention me again, this fuckery ends here and now![/quote]
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by TheSociopath(m): 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2020
VickyRotex:


Nice! cool Been good too. Thanks.



grin angry grin
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Amarisco(f): 9:22pm On Aug 14, 2020
Exactly.

Your profession comes before sentiment. So if you can do a referral or escalate it to the appropriate person, do so.

Please do not carry his matter for your head and then chop disciplinary action for misconduct for speaking beyond the purpose of your appointment.

Not sure what your management or patient is like, but in my opinion, don’t be sentimental in your office.

LannisterIMP:


I think you should
Follow/Tow the line and Ethics of your profession.

If it’s not crossing boundaries and talk to your Boss or someone in a higher hierarchy in your Office so you don’t fall into A pit with this Picture you have painted!

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by goldmatrix(m): 9:58pm On Aug 14, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
.Even with Ur FAT head.u are empty upstairs..U dat understand English,how do u knw dat the story is true? Go to YouTube,u'll see similar stuff..They can use Ur head play draught.. Pig
..you actually reasons like a bat my brother. You know bat? Their head face down permanently. The story don't need to be true for you to understand what chitchat mean. That's the point, not the story but your downward reasoning. Learn English first before you react..otherwise use vernacular...BAT
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Slimsly100(f): 10:23pm On Aug 14, 2020
VickyRotex:


Chitchat doesn't mean phone chat conversation.

Oyinbo language dey cos kasala grin

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by raphy(m): 10:57pm On Aug 14, 2020
chukwuibuipob:
The guy probably use his girlfriend to video chat with the white guy.Once dat one send money,the girl will follow him to Western union to cash out Stuff like dis full internet to read

na true ma niggah but barca has been humiliated again in Europe lol them never recover from Why my team Liverpool give them last season.

up Bayern.
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Aug 14, 2020
khia:
embarassed

I am American and once again I say " You don't know anything about America". You said no one ropes you into anything unless there's something you are hiding which is absolutely bullcrap. You see, in the US there is an action/crime called RAILROADING when the law does exactly what you said, rope innocent people into something that they didn't do or knew anything about, this has been going on for centuries and continues to happen everyday.

Everyone serving time in prisons are not guilty and are there because of RAILROADING. If you like I can give you some cases of RAILROADING. The US justice system was designed and created to justly serve Caucasians and criminalize others. The protesting that is going on today is because people are sick and tired of the injustice. A lot of people believe the system is broken and needs to be fixed but in reality the system isn't broken it is working just the way it was designed to do.

The system (The US Constitution) needs to be rewritten, starting with the 13th amendment which still supports slavery under certain conditions which explains the mass incarceration of black people. The amendment clause that proclaims black people (meaning YOU) as only 3/5th human (that's why whites won't have a problem with blowing your head off because they don't see you as full human) needs to be abolished as well.

Sorry about my mini thesis but this was a teaching moment. smiley

That's right. That's why I hesitate. I love to mind my own business and live a quiet and peaceful life. I know I'm just another 3/5th of a human being in this country. Everything you do in US should be done with sense. As a person of color, you can be roped into shit you never knew about even though you had noble intentions. And being black often makes people view you as guilty your of the said crime due to discrimination and stereotyping.

Me I'm just trying to quietly get by. I don't need no drama in my life.

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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Kissiemu(m): 11:05pm On Aug 14, 2020
America patient?
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 11:20pm On Aug 14, 2020
goldmatrix:

..you actually reasons like a bat my brother. You know bat? Their head face down permanently. The story don't need to be true for you to understand what chitchat mean. That's the point, not the story but your downward reasoning. Learn English first before you react..otherwise use vernacular...BAT
fat slowpoke Calabar ToAD
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 11:24pm On Aug 14, 2020
goldmatrix:

..you actually reasons like a bat my brother. You know bat? Their head face down permanently. The story don't need to be true for you to understand what chitchat mean. That's the point, not the story but your downward reasoning. Learn English first before you react..otherwise use vernacular...BAT
fat slowpoke Calabar ToAD.D pipu dat chitchat and upload such on YouTube are what? Idiot
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by AfricanWahala(m): 12:23am On Aug 15, 2020
ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers angry


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

My friend you are morally obligated to tell the dude. You shouldn't even think twice about it
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by VickyRotex(f): 12:26am On Aug 15, 2020
TheSociopath:


grin angry grin

lol why you dey vex grin
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Mosco100(m): 12:29am On Aug 15, 2020
Do you need me to tell you before you tell him?
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by AfricanWahala(m): 12:50am On Aug 15, 2020
khia:
embarassed

I am American and once again I say " You don't know anything about America". You said no one ropes you into anything unless there's something you are hiding which is absolutely bullcrap. You see, in the US there is an action/crime called RAILROADING when the law does exactly what you said, rope innocent people into something that they didn't do or knew anything about, this has been going on for centuries and continues to happen everyday.

Everyone serving time in prisons are not guilty and are there because of RAILROADING. If you like I can give you some cases of RAILROADING. The US justice system was designed and created to justly serve Caucasians and criminalize others. The protesting that is going on today is because people are sick and tired of the injustice. A lot of people believe the system is broken and needs to be fixed but in reality the system isn't broken it is working just the way it was designed to do.

The system (The US Constitution) needs to be rewritten, starting with the 13th amendment which still supports slavery under certain conditions which explains the mass incarceration of black people. The amendment clause that proclaims black people (meaning YOU) as only 3/5th human (that's why whites won't have a problem with blowing your head off because they don't see you as full human) needs to be abolished as well.

Sorry about my mini thesis but this was a teaching moment. smiley

What's your point? He should tell him? bS

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