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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 3:12am On Aug 19, 2020 |
[quote author=raphy post=92976258][/quote] I am not everyone, bro. Do yours and let others do theirs. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by abbey621(m): 3:26am On Aug 19, 2020 |
If the guy you're dating and about to marry believes the words of his ex over yours then YOU'RE IN BIG TROUBLE! All three of you sound childish and in nowhere ready for the married life, my advice is to run while you can because the guy already has an excuse to cheat/leave you when the opportunity arises in the future. Don't be so desperate to marry that you ignore the beautiful warnings God has put in front of you.....STAY WOKE! |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by EgunMogaji2: 3:26am On Aug 19, 2020 |
yomi007k: This astute response is golden, completely. You’re a boss. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by yomi007k(m): 3:31am On Aug 19, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2:Thanks boss. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by linearity: 3:36am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Why are you asking him to suspend the wedding until he has finished his investigations. You should be the one, putting the wedding on suspension. You can’t get marry to him, when he believes and trust his ex over you. You can’t open your eyes and still fall into a wide open ditch. Tell him the wedding is off until he start trusting and respecting you and have completed his unfinished business with his ex. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Fxwarrior: 3:53am On Aug 19, 2020 |
juliabobly65: Are you sure this is the kind of man you want to build your future on? He's not ready for marriage nor is he matured for it. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Fxwarrior: 4:09am On Aug 19, 2020 |
1beat: Unless you are the devil, you have no business reminding people of their past if it's actually past because everyone has a past. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by baby124: 4:13am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Fxwarrior:The most annoying thing is that this ex who is emotionally cheating on her husband has the guts to bring up someone else’s business or past! She has the guts to form stainless! Chai! If I was this OP, that ex will see me and ferege (tear race)! See hypocrisy, wickedness and jealousy at play. Can she confidently discuss with her husband what she’s saying to her ex? She’s probably unhappy in her marriage and wants to destroy her ex’s chance at happiness so she can keep him as side cock. This OP better expose that idiot and dump the foolish boyfriend. Let’s truly see if the ex will leave her husband for a stupid and gullible ex. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by udemzyudex(m): 4:15am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Lol.. What kind of a man is that |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by here: 4:24am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Don’t just suspend the marriage walk away from him as in stop the relationship till he comes back from his senses and assure you too that he has cut ties with his ex’s and other women of no value. This guy asked you out my dear stop making him feel he own you or only eligible man in the world. He even proposed to you and it was only when you accepted it worked so why am I sensing he feels king already? What’s this thing about past if he feels he can’t live with your past and acting all childish why don’t he go be with the ex. Your not trying yourself. Define what you can tolerate now why do you owe him explanation for what someone told him? And pls before you leave take your boyfriend to her house and ask her husband to join let her say before her husband all she has been telling your boyfriend and please she should prove them too |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by wirinet(m): 4:39am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Meekmind: It's not about a boy or man, it's about love. Her fiancee and his ex were and still in love. They could not get married due to other extraneous factors. They are still emotionally connected to each other even if they both marry someone else. Read the story of Prince Charles, Princess Diana and Camelia Parker-Bowles. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by dingbang(m): 4:39am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Seems you and the supposed ex had something .... Hope you ain't s lesbian |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by plessis: 4:40am On Aug 19, 2020 |
sorextee:May God save us from these people. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by cococandy(f): 4:50am On Aug 19, 2020 |
raphy:You too |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by eneye1(m): 4:54am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Hmmmmm... May evil people not give a report about us..I am experiencing almost the same scenario. My fiancée's family went to find out about me in a wrong place and they told them I promised a lady marriage, I promised to train her is school. That she is in a relationship but if I am serious, she said she will leave her current guy for me. That, that is how I move from one girl to the other. I laughed the first day I was told because I knew it was a lie from an evil source. I called the girl they alleged I promised to marry, she said " when did you and me sit to discuss relationship". I have played the call recorded conversation between me and the alleged lady to them they still refused to believe me They so much believe it that they said I should be coming to prove or beg them everyday.. The person they ask does not even know my religion, because I answer Islamic name but I have been a Christian for 23 years, I have worked actively with many pastors.. All I know my sister, the judgment of God will come upon them. I have left their daughter for them to marry. So, make your decision , if he believes his Ex than he believes you. There might not always be evidences 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by bigcasava1(m): 4:57am On Aug 19, 2020 |
[quote author=juliabobly65 post=92948242]Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter. My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married). They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him. Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me. She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it. I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about. Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life. I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem. That motherfucker don't deserve you, he's still a kid. Who doesn't have a past? I married my wife as a virgin while my wife had dated couple of guys with other things I can't mentioned. But I ignored all that cos I love her and she has changed for real to be a responsible wife. So I will advise you to be careful not to work into a sorrowful marriage. Take care and |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by cybriz82(m): 5:19am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Madam go and communicate with her husband also..tell her husband everything he know n doesn't know about his wife(contact that minister working for buhari to teach u how to lie) .. also tell him ur fiance n iz wife are doing boju boju..after all life no balance . |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Bibi2222(f): 5:26am On Aug 19, 2020 |
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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by uboma(m): 5:48am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Gordieshegz: Are you her boyfriend? Or do you know him? Please inform him to create his own thread to tell us exactly what his experiences has been about her. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by psalmylee(m): 5:49am On Aug 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel:no.mind am..they go dey claim champion for keyboard.. Na their type man dey use spal..rubbish |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by shilz(f): 5:51am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Fuckingmallam45:sorry to say this but I think when one TRULY moves on what ever feeling one had, 1st love 2nd love what ever,it dies,it fades away completely. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by pek(m): 5:51am On Aug 19, 2020 |
1beat: |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by shilz(f): 5:58am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Is it your man feeding you this stories about his ex or you have evidence of her messages to him? |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by maxiuc(m): 6:00am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Your fiance dey tie wrapper infact he dey squat to urinate That your bobo na woman he's so weak I know you girls do have terrible past but him listening to his ex who's married and enjoying her marriage and watching her ridicule the woman he wants to marry I can confirm to you that you were all alone for all the years you guys dated Na ur bobo na mumu and he dey wait when dem go tell am sey he be mumu |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by vickydevoka(m): 6:01am On Aug 19, 2020 |
De ex knows u. She might be saying de Truth, buh added more sugar to it |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 6:06am On Aug 19, 2020 |
If I were you, I'd find a way to contact her the lady's husband. He needs to know that his wife hasn't gotten over her ex. Do this and watch the tables turn. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Kelvinpower(m): 6:11am On Aug 19, 2020 |
juliabobly65: Nawooo for people ooo. Is your boyfriend sure he has no cockroaches in his past he hasn't told you, because everyone have a past he or she will never let out even at dying point. That kind guy don't deserve good woman, as for that woman hmmm, babe track her husband down and put a stop to all this distractions and get yourself ready for motherhood club |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 6:12am On Aug 19, 2020 |
juliabobly65: Very simple something. Screenshot all the conversation the bitch is having with your fiancee and send it to her husband. Don't warn her off first o. Just send it to his phone or email or FB. That's all. Watch her run mad. Then dump your fiancee because you can be sure that he's fvcking his ex and he will continue to fvck his ex long after you're married. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Fuckingmallam45(m): 6:16am On Aug 19, 2020 |
shilz:Absolutely, with time it fades away. |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Openbusiness: 6:26am On Aug 19, 2020 |
omocalabar:Kikikiki, the OP never ready to confess wetin really dey happen. Obviously hiding some critical secrets from the guy, but the guy's ex is a real niggar |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 6:29am On Aug 19, 2020 |
juliabobly65:And you still want to marry this type of man? good luck to you |
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Jabioro: 6:29am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Your matter dey smell like rotten fish..You have a man without his heart,his heart still somewhere else..if you can avoid this disaster of a man, who will not intentional build his family but to pokenose into an ex..I can bet with my two cents the marriage will not last..Tell him to his face once he couldn't believe you ,he should go for his ex...and leave you alone.. ....You stay with whoever you believe..be bold . |
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