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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Obasijoe: 6:40pm On Aug 29
Some guys are crazy don't allow God to visit you in a bad way. Must ask before you help someone and must you discuss very thing with a girl friend. Women this days don't have sense. You have to help the girl family she gave money right and ur new girl you with how much did she give since all this while. Nobody knows tomorrow. Be a man in decision making always help on the way down
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by West2019(m): 6:41pm On Aug 29
you said she help you befjr leaving the Buhari country, now that things are not yet working fine with her why did you help her family, bro help.the family life is turned by turned
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by halogate: 6:45pm On Aug 29
undecided undecided... firstly I don't understand why ur current/new girlfriend threatening to leave u if u help ur ex and her family?
.. Who dash am that right??..what has she contributed to the business??

..ogbeni grow a pair of balls and handle ur biz like a man. U never marry her and she's threatening fire and brimstone. mehn I pity u.

..help if it's in ur heart to help... nothing more.

..I just don't understand why some men make things too difficult themselves.

.. walahi I dey try not to vex for u OP
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Okd1: 6:49pm On Aug 29
Don't be a dumb ass and pay good with evil, your ex Gf should be your most concern don't think because she's down now she will not recover. And for the new Gf are you not a man can't you send money and keep it in your heart?
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by egopersonified(f): 6:58pm On Aug 29
This is living in bondage not a relationship. Check well, she has also driven some of your friends and family away from you.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by izubext007: 6:59pm On Aug 29
well life is scratch my back I scratch ur back...ignore ur presents lover . infact let her leave for helping some one that once help you.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by dnawah(m): 7:02pm On Aug 29
Hathor5:
Deep down you already know what you should do.
Amen!!
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by SawD007: 7:04pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

I understand your gf telling you not to help your ex, she is just protecting herself ( you know the way women think)... Just do your own for your ex because a woman that support your business while traveling out at the same time got the good heart. There is no issue here, there are things we should put away from the knowing of our gf. Do what you can.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by SawD007: 7:09pm On Aug 29
RonaldoVido:


Did you consult your new gf when the old one gave you millions ?

She sacrificed for you, she did this, yern yern yern, yet you can't give back to her family from what she gave you ?

This your thread is sounding very stupid.

Tell the new gf to Bleep off.

I was owing someone too and i was packaging the money to return it to the owner, one lady said I should not pay the person, I should use the money and marry her.

What did I do ? I dumped the stupid girl immediately.

You have a very stupid girl beside you and you are calling her gf.

Don't say that bro, the girl might not know about the sacrifice. That brother shouldn't have involve his girlfriend knowing that he was helping an ex. Women no love themselves.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Aregis: 7:12pm On Aug 29
What a world!!!!!, Your ex assisted you unconditionally without seeking public opinion ,but here you are asking us what do when you know absolutely what to do,you simply here because of your conscience, about your current girlfriend , she's gonna be the sword of vengeance (payback) if you fail to do what is right .
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Aug 29
Hathor5:
Deep down you already know what you should do.
please I quoted you because you’re the first to comment on this thread I’ve done the needful help me to copy the message below and edit your first post to tell others I’ve done the needful I’m tired of many insults on my mentions thank you. I can’t edit my original post I would’ve done so myself


“”” I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice. “””

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 29
Kemimarch16:
You better give that lady her money if u don't want thunder to fire u there.why is that it usually difficult for some men to return any money give to them dere ex
please I quoted you because your comment is on the first page of this thread I’ve done the needful help me to copy the message below and edit your first post to tell others I’ve done the needful I’m tired of many insults on my mentions thank you. I can’t edit my original post I would’ve done so myself


“”” I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice. “””

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by bethyz(m): 7:24pm On Aug 29
Is she your account manager abi you take permission from her to take your money to eat? What stupid question is this one asking.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Grateful02(m): 7:30pm On Aug 29
I'll leave you with 3 words.. JUST DO IT
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by themanderon: 7:42pm On Aug 29
One good turn deserves another. She helped you when you were down why not do same for her family not minding what the new one said? And also you need to be careful about the new girl, any girl that can't sacrifice for you like the former one did should be tossed out the window without blinking an eye.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Estanie: 7:44pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults
pls talk to ur ex first abt it, ur current girlfrnd doesn't luv u at all.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by okhaiii(m): 7:47pm On Aug 29
When she dey assist your business to grow ur current girl dey there ? That s what you should have asked her first! Babami help that girl family if you can there us a blessings that comes with it cuz such girl can still be off help to you tomorrow one way or the other.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Shancca: 7:52pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Red flag for your new girlfriend. You better watch her closely before you go further. Save your ex girlfriend’s family from this suffering. It is a golden rule to do so. God bless you as you give.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Kemimarch16(f): 8:00pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
please I quoted you because your comment is on the first page of this thread I’ve done the needful help me to copy the message below and edit your first post to tell others I’ve done the needful I’m tired of many insults on my mentions thank you. I can’t edit my original post I would’ve done so myself


“”” I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice. “””
I'm really happy to hear this
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by kiddkash(m): 8:03pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
I good turn deserves another eh!
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Classyuniquebae(f): 8:04pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults


I understand your plight and that reminds me of a quote I came across sometime ago and I quote " There is a big difference between being a human being and being human"

Let me make you understand with just a simple question. Are you saying that even if this lady wasn't an ex, that you can not simply help a family in need if you do have enough to give ?
You are simply a human being but you have no iota of humanity in you .

This ex of yours was there for you and you still wish to marry her right ? Which means to your understanding you love your ex right? Then what kind of love would you have for someone and you see this persons family suffering knowing fully well that you have what it takes to help and you still sit back and watch them suffer ? You know that tables can turn so quickly right ? This your current girlfriend is simply mean and wicked and might ultimately destroy your life and destroy good relationships you've built over the years and might still possibly leave you for no reason. Don't burn bridges you crossed cuz you might need them later.
Even if you don't want to help your ex's family , your conscience would have told you to just give them back the money she gave you when she was leaving cuz to me it was an investment . Now you've become somebody with her money and another woman who may probably be dating you cuz of your money which your ex made possible for you is telling you not to help her family .
A reasonable man would even break up with such a lady cuz God just used this situation to open your eyes. You are scared of her leaving right ? Is she the only lady alife ? If you lost her for doing Good to someone's family who was there for you when you had nothing , then consider it a blessing and believe God to give you the woman you deserve.

Do you know that things could turn around for your ex and she might be of great help to you and that your heartless girlfriend tomorrow ?
Help them for the sake of God and humanity and not cuz she was your ex. For Christ sake , can't you even help a stranger in need let alone your ex's family . Karma is a bitch Bro...expect a visit from him soon if you don't do the right thing. If your conscience is haunting you , then it's a high time , you do the right thing .

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by trojan84(m): 8:22pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Then help her and stop bickering already. You know what you have to do but u are looking for an excuse. You already said your gf is not a nice person, so why let such a person dictate things that deals with niceness
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by AristocraticMe: 8:45pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
According to you, you stated she helped you, she has helped and so on and you also wish she could come back and you both can start a family, that is to say she was a good girl to you.

Help her.... I am 100% in support of that... you also said you she gave you some money to support your business.... I wonder why you will still be thinking of helping her family.... what are friends for

Lastly. How will your current girlfriend know when you help her family... unless you tell her... and ask yourself must you tell your girlfriend everything? She is not your wife.... brother wake up
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 8:48pm On Aug 29
Kemimarch16:
You better give that lady her money if u don't want thunder to fire u there.why is that it usually difficult for some men to return any money give to them dere ex
Do all women return monies given them by their ex? Na wa o!
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by charlsecy(m): 8:52pm On Aug 29
Ayofaks:
Why did you even tell your current gf in the first place?
Non-reader spotted.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by abdullahi45: 8:53pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Don't be an ingrate. One good turns deserve another, regardless of your relationship status now. Apologies, but your new girlfriend is covetous
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by alizma: 8:55pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
Follow your heart. Your ex loves you very much. Why do I think so? She gave you money without hope of getting it back neither did you swear to her that you will be waiting for her. She did what she did because she want to see you doing well and happy wherever you are. This is a selfless sacrifice and I am surprised that someone who doesn't know how you started is threatening to leave if you help the family of a lady that helped you before. Anyway na you know how she carry know say those people need your help.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by abdullahi45: 8:58pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Please have a deep thought about your new girlfriend. I think she's evil, she might even turn your back against your own family in future, so be wise.

Let her break up if she wants to. Since you want your ex back, put your ego aside and get her. From your write up, she is an industrious and magnanimous lady, who's ready to do anything to aid her loved ones. In my own opinion, she deserves better...

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by abdullahi45: 8:59pm On Aug 29
alizma:

Follow your heart. Your ex loves you very much. Why do I think so? She gave you money without hope of getting it back neither did you swear to her that you will be waiting for her. She did what she did because she want to see you doing well and happy wherever you are. This is a selfless sacrifice and I am surprised that someone who doesn't know how you started is threatening to leave if you help the family of a lady that helped you before. Anyway na you know how she carry know say those people need your help.

Imagine that gut, some ladies are just too toxicly entitled
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Slynation(m): 9:03pm On Aug 29
NobleSeed:
Confused wailers everywhere.....
Well-done sir..
Op hope you are not day dreaming or something, Someone help you out when she was about to leave the country, the money she ought to have given to her family she sacrifice it for you. Bussiness has started booming now she requested for your help you are there saying trash my girl this my girl that.
Why didn't you tell your girl friend the amount of money she gave you when she was leaving? Since you can't keep your mouth shut and do what ought to be done. My friend will go and help her family.
I swear.... Some guys shaah mumu oO, Something he would have done in confidential like a Man he went and involve a lady....
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ersam(m): 9:05pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.



Don't be offended bruh...I want to ask, are you a simp ? ditch the damn gal and do the right thing ni
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Saidu22(m): 9:32pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Despite she supported u with her money before she left the country and her family need help now u are now asking senseless questions or advice. Go and give the family they money jor. Thunder fire that ur new girlfriend.

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