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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Strech(m): 4:54pm On Aug 29
fake ass nigga, forming Romeo..You better return that money and all the money she has been sending to you while abroad and you refuse to mention here..
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by rafoid(m): 4:58pm On Aug 29
If you can't help them, at least return the money their daughter gave to you. Is your new girl friend the only girl on earth that she is forming God over your life and making your thinking faculty to malfunction

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Kemimarch16(f): 5:00pm On Aug 29
i have already choose a sane part on nairaland ,if not i would have answered you rudely or abusively......
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Kemimarch16(f): 5:01pm On Aug 29
emmyN:


Yen yen yen. Is it not small kemimarch again? Take advice now before somebody vex shook you inside pocket angry.
Have said my own to u
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Kemimarch16(f): 5:02pm On Aug 29
Positiveme2020:
I go ban you ohhh shocked
grin
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Tiwalade01: 5:05pm On Aug 29
Not sorry to say that your new girlfriend is a devil..she no be better person and please help your ex girlfriend family since they need it ASAP
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Shugargal(f): 5:05pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults
Your life does not depend on those girlfriends, do what is good bros and forget about gals shit. women plenty pass men in this life which you can always get one. from your statements, your current gal friend is not a good person, let her go jor. ordinarily won't you even help the poor. do good and your business will continue to grow. in case you need new gal friend, I can offer you better one sef. be a man and leave gal friend matter.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by JasperVII(m): 5:08pm On Aug 29
Op I need to lay my hands on you

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by NiCurious: 5:13pm On Aug 29
ExBanker:


Why is it difficult for girls to returnall the money their ex spent on them after breakup?

Back to op, the girl gave you money which you tagged "a bit huge" to support your business. You don't need anyone to tell you the right thing to do. Oga help her family. If i may ask, what has this your new girl friend contributed to your life that she will tell you not to help someone who contributed to your life?


Gbam. Telling him not to help those who helped him, she shows questionable character, lack of generosity, inability to "do unto others...". She could have remained silent or said "I'm not part of this, it's your decision to make". Instead it looks like she's dating his money and success.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Manbryto(m): 5:16pm On Aug 29
Stupid boy... someone helped you out when you needed assistance (exgirlfriend aside) and you are having double mind helping the person..Chai...you wicked bro. May I never have a friend like you
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by elliotmarshall(m): 5:18pm On Aug 29
I hate guys who behaves this way
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Jdbrasco2: 5:19pm On Aug 29
Guy you are a disgrace to manhood. Are you suppose to seek for adivise on this. Go help the girl's family b4 car go jam you. Why good girls dey always jam bad dudes they surprise me. Better be careful with that thing u called current GF.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by igwedubai2(m): 5:25pm On Aug 29
U must know what to do, yes. Must u tell ur new girl that u want to help ur Ex family, ni. What about d money she gave u b4 travo? Be a man come on. Help, help ooooooooo. Help oo jare[sub][/sub]
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by mich2012: 5:25pm On Aug 29
You don't need to ask such question. The lady was nice to you and even put her money into your business when the going was tough. The least you can do now is to help her family. If you can, place her parents on a monthly stipend. Your new gf doesn't need to know and even if she knows, that shouldn't be your problem.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Pharaohny: 5:34pm On Aug 29
HarunaWest:
So jux cos you want to help your ex family, you had to open your big mouth to spill to your girlfriend..Who made some men this stupid for god sake? .... Something you should have given her family without thinking about it, you had the temerity to announce it on NL.... I pity your type dude, your disloyalty won't make you go far.



The guy is really stupid aswear
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Pharaohny: 5:36pm On Aug 29
You are stupid fellow
I don't care if you loose your current girl friend
My own help your ex family
Else thunder from Jigawa will strike you.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Pharaohny: 5:37pm On Aug 29
rafoid:
If you can't help them, at least return the money their daughter gave to you. Is your new girl friend the only girl on earth that she is forming God over your life and making your thinking faculty to malfunction


Don't mind him mumu person like him will say you don't know what is love
Love my foot
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Lawsaite: 5:43pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

How does a girlfriend dictate your spending?
And what's with the threat to leave the relationship?
Op from what I've seen and heard, any relationship that is begged for, or always used as threat in demand of something, does not last. Its just a sham.
If your gf had the guts to threaten to leave because of an action of yours( very uncalled for) then let her go. Never beg to be loved. Its SCAM.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by bukolabeauty09(f): 5:44pm On Aug 29
You are indebted to your ex so help her. That your new girl friend is not somebody you should marry she will stand against you in future if you want to help even your own family. Help your ex, tell her and watch her leave on her own. You will locate our own good woman to crown as your queen very soon and if you think your ex will make a better wife you can go back to her. She will be supportive but she will have some ego that you will have to manage in future.


You can also pray about it, if you are a believer.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by egbej: 5:46pm On Aug 29
Why did you not mention the huge amount?Guy you need to take certain decisions without consulting anybody.Your current girlfriend will do the same to your family member when you eventually marry her.This girl will stop you from helping your mother in future.Please immediately help your ex family as much as you can

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Zakiushenry: 5:49pm On Aug 29
Na guys like dis mumu pass, who is girlfriend not even wife, ladies will control you when you marry, and your family will not enjoy your money if you have, Bleep boy, dis guy na pussy
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by oyetunjibaba: 5:50pm On Aug 29
GboyegaD:
What I don't understand is why you needed the new lady's permission.

Exactly!! To me,it seems while the so called boyfriend was discussing the issue at ground to his new girlfriend,he was stylishly mocking her(old girlfriend) because he insisted that the old girlfriend shouldn't travel but yet she did,to make matter worst, he doesnt even know the nature of job she is there for(maybe olosho). So na just kind of distrust me just sense for there matter. I wouldnt blame his new girlfriend for not trying to be supportive i blame this OP,this guy is a weak nigga and i dont think he is man enough. I dont want to be clumsy in my thought na just wetin i sense.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by 5ircreepy(m): 5:52pm On Aug 29
Why didn't anyone tell me that there are only two women in the world Chai!!!
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by PeachtreeReside(f): 5:59pm On Aug 29
YES!
GIVE BACK THAT MONEY .

HELP HER FAMILY.

YOUR PRESENT GF THOUGH...
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Chirowman(m): 6:00pm On Aug 29
help them out and stop been woman wrapper
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Phemact1: 6:04pm On Aug 29
I advice you to do the right thing at the right time...
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by kzmoney1: 6:10pm On Aug 29
I read ur story, I was just laughing ���
You as a man and u aven't marry to her.. how can a girlfriend's should b dictates for you. That's ridiculous! Why you people's so wicked like dis, it's not so easy for a woman to give a man money if she didn't love you. I will advice you come to aid of ur ex girlfriend family's cos that lady has impacted in ur life. If that yeye girlfriend's want to leave just let's her go. Many we come
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by tomdon(m): 6:26pm On Aug 29
Is she a charity organization or you're just a very stupid man??
You're claiming to still love someone yet you don't want to refund her money let alone help her with more money. Mean while she helped lift you to where you currently are. You're an ingrate. It's something you should know if you are not an idiot
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by sorepco(m): 6:32pm On Aug 29
That ex girl is ur wife. Bring her back n marry her.


Truthlord12:
thank you’ll. I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by kizyalex10(m): 6:38pm On Aug 29
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
this kind of posts gets me angry,how the hell can u stand nd watch d family of a girl that gave u a huge amount before she travelled to suffer because one stupid girlfriend nt even a wife said u shouldn't because she is ur ex,and why did u even discuss it with her in the first place.abeg man up nd don't annoy me

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