edo3:
Forget ds epistle u wrote up there,, i can confidently tell u that dating naval or airforce offrs is no risk at all.. They don't go to war,, what they are good at is writing memo n carrying files in d office.. Come n see dem in abj or anywhere.. They have a lot of time for their spouses cos they dont do anything.. The only people I have respect for is the army chaps fighting in the NE cos those guys face fire everyday n fear of d unknown.. Those ones that are not fighting have a lot of time to drink n womanize.. I know what am saying..

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

OscarJaden:
When it comes to women,i have touched in every spheres and categories got me puting my hands up in the air for you...

your the real mvp

J111333:
Haa, nothing wey I no go read for here aswear.
Oga, you have just confidently said what you have no idea of and I wonder where you get that kind confidence. It's really funny how civilians on nairaland know more about the military than some personnel in the forum.

edo3:
Forget ds epistle u wrote up there,, i can confidently tell u that dating naval or airforce offrs is no risk at all.. They don't go to war,, what they are good at is writing memo n carrying files in d office.. Come n see dem in abj or anywhere.. They have a lot of time for their spouses cos they dont do anything.. The only people I have respect for is the army chaps fighting in the NE cos those guys face fire everyday n fear of d unknown.. Those ones that are not fighting have a lot of time to drink n womanize.. I know what am saying..

Rawhumper:
Maybe, but most had their husbands around.

I must Say God was there for me, Things i did in life with women i never experienced attack or diseases upon my multiple partners and reckless behaviour (though i never and still dont sleep with every Girl that drops her pants, i have my specs).

Bad odour from a Girl, is a turn off.
Dirtiness too, i think it helped me not to contract STDs(Gods Grace too).

Have in mind, its not loneliness that makes some ladies to Cheat, some do have Nice caring husbands, some dont.
Whether their husbands were near or far doesnt matter.

How about The one i Met in my sisters Wedding i slept with, i later found out The Lady was to get married The next month?

I think hers was been adventurous, her guy was very rich.
It was flights she took and she was almost late because of The romp with me abd she gave me money(whereas anyother man did give her
Money for sex).
I got Special wine from her after her Wedding, she gave it to my sis to give me.

This Lady was one of the sexiest ladies with a killer ass, pointed nose. I lost control whenever i was around her and was shaking which she noticed.I almost tore her underwear when we were alone cos i couldnt wait any longer but las las it was damn fun.

Am not proud of These sexcapedes but at least it has Made me to be versatile and able to contribute to every Thread as a result of my experiences(some of The ladies were doctors, including students, nurses including students, lawyers,teachers, military personnel, runs Girls, politicians, traders etc.)


My contact with women was a two edged sword, at least it Made me to be More responsible and cool,(most ladies dont really like thugs, indecent Guys around them) because i went for The Best.
Till now every Lady i toast tells me, she likes my gentility in my approach and calm voice.










quote author=Jaqenhghar post=93830906]very interesting. Im sure the married ones were lonely hence the need for some sort of companionship and you gave them what they needed at that time.

Rawhumper:
Not happily, i dont Say or do Things for people to clap for me but believe me initially i thought she was Single and i was right she was not with Child cos d marriage was 2years or so.


She introduced me to her sisters, i sensed d were not comfortable with it as i used to come to her House from her Office.

Her husband later met me, after she told her about me. D were in d barracks.
He was a cool, calm man, he didnt attack me till today. Maybe it was an agreement btw them cos even after The husband travelled, i was still visiting The barracks. I never came there alone cos d barracks was for top officers so it was thru her.


We became very Close and o must Say i was d only Guy she was Close to, i never slept there but i was constantly visiting her workplace.

By The way, This was many years ago.










quote author=azammi post=93830755] so you de happily fu*k person wife

LordOfTheGame:
"Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him."


The above quote is why I hate most Nigerian and African girls. They have nothing else to offer in return to a true love and genuine man if not theur overused pussies, sex and more sex with the mindset that they're doing you a favour.

ProudBornoBoy:


If I wanna be made, where else should I go?

I’m a student there.

Tumbulum:
could this be reason why you all are so damn angry and frustrated with civilians? No be we say enter army na.

seguno2:


That is why there should be a mail service for the soldiers and officers.

NaijaTalkTown:

Ahua no vex o. Na which Angwa boi you be? Ankpa own?

ABANGWABOI:


#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

it seems you are a social misfit that lacks cognitive reasoning ..
Not surprised if you are docile and indolent..
Do get busy Kid.

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

MJBOLT:

tales by moonlight

egopersonified:



Do you guys ever feel the need to leave the job for any reason? Do some of your colleagues regret joining the force? Is it possible to just resign your position? If some have left, are they happy they left or they regret leaving? I would understand if you can't answer these questions, thanks.

Awefemik:

Your signature is really touching
I wanna be a proud Nigerian army after I graduate

Bro pls can u share me your contact

molbic:
Are you really from abia state and that your friend is he from Ebonyi state

Rawhumper:
Maybe, but most had their husbands around.

I must Say God was there for me, Things i did in life with women i never experienced attack or diseases upon my multiple partners and reckless behaviour (though i never and still dont sleep with every Girl that drops her pants, i have my specs).

Bad odour from a Girl, is a turn off.
Dirtiness too, i think it helped me not to contract STDs(Gods Grace too).

Have in mind, its not loneliness that makes some ladies to Cheat, some do have Nice caring husbands, some dont.
Whether their husbands were near or far doesnt matter.

How about The one i Met in my sisters Wedding i slept with, i later found out The Lady was to get married The next month?

I think hers was been adventurous, her guy was very rich.
It was flights she took and she was almost late because of The romp with me abd she gave me money(whereas anyother man did give her
Money for sex).
I got Special wine from her after her Wedding, she gave it to my sis to give me.

This Lady was one of the sexiest ladies with a killer ass, pointed nose. I lost control whenever i was around her and was shaking which she noticed.I almost tore her underwear when we were alone cos i couldnt wait any longer but las las it was damn fun.

Am not proud of These sexcapedes but at least it has Made me to be versatile and able to contribute to every Thread as a result of my experiences(some of The ladies were doctors, including students, nurses including students, lawyers,teachers, military personnel, runs Girls, politicians, traders etc.)


My contact with women was a two edged sword, at least it Made me to be More responsible and cool,(most ladies dont really like thugs, indecent Guys around them) because i went for The Best.
Till now every Lady i toast tells me, she likes my gentility in my approach and calm voice.










quote author=Jaqenhghar post=93830906]very interesting. Im sure the married ones were lonely hence the need for some sort of companionship and you gave them what they needed at that time.

tasceige:
Thank you for your service boss.
God bless, be and keep you safe at all time.

Clean2016:



Am proud of you, respect for the Armed forces Everytime.

Tumbulum:
advice those murderfuckers with guns to have some respect for civilians.we ain't the cause of your frustration and besides drop the gun and see what a normal civilian will do to you murderfuckers.If you must flex muscle, go and do that with armed terrorists.
I hate you all.you are only strong with unarmed people. You should resign from that useless army and get a proper and reasonable job to do.

DonroxyII:
Ashawo ! Only Ndokwa full ya head

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

ABANGWABOI:




#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

From your ranting you are still a kid that needs alotta growing up to do..
Like i said.. Do get busy kid.

GreatResearcher:
True. Ask her what she did for the guy in return.