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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:33am On Sep 16
[quote author=lightangel65i post=93976671]
Ok meet a good pharmacist, those big ones and ask for antitestereone, some wont give you without prescription, but if you explain to them they will, or just talk with a doctor so they will give you the right prescription (not public hospital) ask them so they can give you a prescription, and also if you have time you can see a therapist so you don't go back to it.[/quote
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Thanks so much I'm going to do that today , if I can come out of this , I'm going b be greatfu to God forever

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by DaddyRochie1642(f): 9:34am On Sep 16
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro




Oga you're a LEGEND grin grin
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by fati2001(f): 9:34am On Sep 16
draw closer to God.
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throw away all negative things in your life.
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avoid bad companies .
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be active in work or anything valuable.
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be among positive people that's discuss about good things and other plans in life .
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when alone pray .
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OR GO OUT FOR LITTLE EXERCISE

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:36am On Sep 16
Uzomacharles:
Masturbation Na Bleep Up....

Avoid Watching Porn And Avoid Being Alone...

Watch Christian Related Videos Were Pornography isnt displayed
Thanks
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by UDUJ(m): 9:36am On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:

I hope you know you are a man and not a woman?

Do you know what that anti-testosterone drug is for? It's to reduce your testosterone levels. Reducing your testosterone levels is bad for a man, you start having side effects like developing man boobs, your semen production and male fertility is adversely affected etc.

Please don't take any drug not prescribed by a medical professional.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:38am On Sep 16
CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?
I rather have an early retirement grin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Blackurglyboi(m): 9:40am On Sep 16
UDUJ:


I hope you know you are a man and not a woman?

Do you know what that anti-testosterone drug is for? It's to reduce your testosterone levels. Reducing your testosterone levels is bad for a man, you start having side effects like developing man boobs, your semen production and male fertility is adversely affected etc.

Please don't take any drug not prescribed by a medical professional.
Thanks so much I would open everything up to my parents , I'm not the first victim and I wouldn't be the last either .I'm going to visit. a therapist.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 9:41am On Sep 16
CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?

Fvck you

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Uzomacharles: 9:52am On Sep 16
CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by mariahAngel: 9:52am On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.

You're not a teenager. grin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by izuswift(m): 10:16am On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever . I wouldn't like to disclosure my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3 , I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a phonography film pack and it has nudes content .it was lying by the road side , I'd picked it up amd had a lot at it ..my fellow nairalander that was how my journey started .
I started having the urge for sex , I felt so good giving myself self pleasure , I started masturbating once or twice a week , soon I started getting addicted , anytime I feel alone ,the urge cones up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone .fast forward the time to right when finish my second school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I cant talk to a woman , I started loosing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today , masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day , sometimes I feel hurt and guilty , sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman . I feel so embarrassed and ashame of myself , I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it my the highest I could do was a week . I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman , in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler , but even though is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9years and its really tearing my life apart .
Now I keep all to myself ..the only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much , sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin , dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice , a problem shared is a problem solved .
Masturbation is demonic.
This three videos will help you break free. Trust me!
The videos helped me.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gN3yrv-fIII


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ocB-npVNjs

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Legendarytonyy: 10:17am On Sep 16
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
What a demonic advice

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Legendarytonyy: 10:23am On Sep 16
Nigga, join the Masturbation quitting thread on the sexuality section. Today is my day 92 of no Fap, that thread have been of great help to me. People whose cases were worse than yours have gone 350+days without PMO (PORN MAST ORGASM) So join us. My story gan is there PMO almost ruined my life. Thank God I realized early enough. I was just 2 years in it when I decided to quit.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ElasmoBranchii(m): 10:30am On Sep 16

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by prince985(m): 10:32am On Sep 16
They keep talking about ruin life ruin life how did it ruin or destry anybodys life?

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ArticleBeast: 10:38am On Sep 16
Masturbation is a normal thing it is the guilt that destroys most you.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by tnerro1(m): 11:22am On Sep 16
Do you know how much you have saved these 9 years if you had been using oloshos, grin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by jey4all(m): 11:31am On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
. The best and simple way I stopped masturbating was having a girl friend. Get a babe that understands u and watch your Erection and your sex life return to normal

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 11:32am On Sep 16
properties4sale:
Mine is for the past 20 years, itself really a very big problem. It destroys your sex life.. like it kills it; poor erection. You cannot have normal sex with girls. It's bad.
20 pa shocked
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by slimkhalifa: 11:56am On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.
u mad gan oo .. See advice wey u dey give person

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Uncle93(m): 12:01pm On Sep 16
Just 9 years only ? Ure still an upcoming artist.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Vivian16: 12:04pm On Sep 16
quick cure for masturbation is carry Bible and Rosary in your hands any time you feel the urge and you won't find the hand to masturbate, it doesnt matter wether you are a religious person or not.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Humanoid01(m): 12:05pm On Sep 16
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
Why should he accept your take on this matter? Something is obviously wrong with your conscience if you think masturbation isn't a bad thing. You need to do something about your mind bro, you're heading towards utter destruction.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Davoneskay(m): 12:08pm On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided

I wanted to read all comments for fun but decided to reply cos I was touched by ur comments. I masturbated for 15 years. It was quite awful. I prayed for deliverance (I'm a freethinker and could just pray to an higher entity like my oversoul or to Jesus or I'll just say, "I command that to be..."wink. It was one day, I heard a voice in my heart not to masturbate for sometime cos the Creator wants to deliver me. The pressure to masturbate became intense and I fell. The subtle voice came on several occasions but I failed. One day, I decided to heed. I did not masturbate for just four days (cos I do this shiit almost every two days). That night, I dreamt of talking to an unseen force. It told me to look at a mirror. There in, several demons and arch-demons (u needed to c how beautiful n seductive dis entities look like with wings and other adornments) were shown to me. It told me that over hundred thousands were cast out n banished from me. It also told me that two hundred thousand were cast out n banished from a lady (can't figure out whom dat lady was). When I awoke from sleep. The urge left totally. And my spiritual life and relationships with the opposite sex has improved tremendously.
What I'm trying to say is masturbation and most addictions are facilitated by walk-ins (entity possessions) only real deliverance combined with strong determination can help you.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Abalado(f): 12:12pm On Sep 16
May God help us

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by gidado14(m): 12:12pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by TreasureTayo(m): 12:12pm On Sep 16
CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?
600 years for you bro grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by money121(m): 12:12pm On Sep 16
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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by GreenKalada(m): 12:14pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

I have masturbated for over 30 years and so what I have a wife and 2 beautiful kids already...Did anything happen to me?? Mumu Nigerians!!

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chloride6: 12:14pm On Sep 16
Why are you feeling story for yourself?

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