Hardlife:


Hello ma.. Please I would like to speak with yoi

Please I hope you reply me ma

novice22:
sir how is life without betting.

Hardlife:


Hello bro... Everything feels better when you get over any addiction you have.

Since I stopped betting, I have seen many positive changes in my life.
You control your finances much better.
I have stopped getting those mini panic attacks I get when I bet due to the urge and thrill.

I would advice you to try your best and give it up bro

If you ever want to have a future, please now is the best time to stop gambling.

ZedicusZurZoran:
he has com to test your loyalty,ability to sacrifice for your family and whether your love for him is tied to his wealth.
i tell you, that young man is a millionaire in disguise. 8years with nothing to show for it sounds contracdicting to the guy that had a clear path, plan and vision when you guys were still undergraduates.

LibrarianD:


Divanona, see it as a personal responsibility to face your problem and solve it. It's also important for you to separate fantasy from reality. You may consider the following steps in taking responsibility for your son's safety:

1) See him as a partner (more like a colleague) in bringing up your child. This should tell you that your legs should remain closed to him. Forget the aspect of school fees for now, you've spent more than that caring for his son.

2) Get the contact and address of his parents and siblings. Request to speak with them on phone after he has done the necessary introduction, request for a visit (do not visit them alone).

3) Interrogate the last eight years of his life including work life, family, social and religious ( you should get names, places and addresses that you can verify)

4) Find out if he's not running away from law enforcement officers

5) study his phone habits, collect his phone and go through images, sms, emails, whatsap, telegram, IG, check all chats don't assume a name is Male or female. Pay attention to his body language while you're going through his phones

6) While it's good for a child to have is dad around, you have to exercise caution in this case, you may need to combine the roles in the interim till you ascertain that this personality is safe to be around your son.

7) Do away with the hidden desperation for marriage, your safety in this case matters a lot

Do a Google search of his name

9) Forgive yourself, this is the most important step.

All the best in your search

debbydams:
..hmmm ma'am u really need to sit down nd think very well before accepting him o, dont forget he left for good 8years..if everything is going well he wouldn't cum back.. Samething that's happening to me now, I got preggy after school nd d father of child denied nd abandon me, he has bn begging me since last year even the parents called to beg me I told m not angry but the fact is I'd b alone than to be with him because he left when I needed him now he went to different places nd they told him to go beg me because things aint going well but I knw nothing about his probs.. I heard he is doing juju to have me back, believe my heart, mind body nd soul cant forget the hell I went tru I almost lost my life.. My dear don't fall � for him send him back forget what he did for u,, nothing can justify the fact that he left when u needed him.. Stand strong for your child nd be happy. If u can help him pls do but don't accept him o, u might regret it.. Men are very cunning.. U need to wise up nd stop being fool..u can't trust someone that left u for good 8years oo..what if he's planning to use you or your child for money � ritual.. If he loves you he won't leave u for 8years.. Please don't fall for his lies o

Babacele:
hmmm success good ooo, see as "Laycon" don enter English lexicon.