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Re: gegtgv by Tloc(m): 10:16am On Oct 02
Zzor:
but we have female doctors around,personally,i can never allow that,i will never be comfortable with it

Do not be dumb, even world class kings and queens are exposed to checks by physicians of their alternate sex. If the most qualified is of the other sex would you not rather be attended to by him/her. The body we come in is just a casing .

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Re: gegtgv by Liposure(m): 10:24am On Oct 02
I can't stand a male doc inspecting my private property. Its treacherous. I prefer a female do the job

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Re: gegtgv by samuelpeters(m): 10:44am On Oct 02
excellence44:

Ladies need to know that before a male doctor checks your puto there must be a female nurse around. Better still, you can demand for a female doctor.
You have the real picture.
Re: gegtgv by princehaxky(m): 10:48am On Oct 02
Who the funk let a male doctor to check your wife's pussy
If someone does he is dumb
I prefer get a escort take her to the doc and after all his desires he can check your wife Yeah I know its found stupid
But it happen in along 2015 in Escort Berlin
Re: gegtgv by Karleb(m): 10:48am On Oct 02
...turning the table.

I'd prefer a female doctor check my dick cause I'm not comfortable with a male doctor doing it.

How many woman is comfortable with a female doctor checking their husband's dick?
Re: gegtgv by samuelpeters(m): 10:51am On Oct 02
@ OP, its okay not to feel comfortable. you can't trust people nowadays.
You can make arrangements for a female gynecologist.
For those saying "they can never" bla bla bla, i pray you don't get into a situation where the experts around are the opposite sex.
If you are in the medical field or you have someone in the field, you will understand.

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Re: gegtgv by Exmay(m): 11:02am On Oct 02
proclinician:


Is this a time of emergency? Like I said, there's a provision for that in the code of ethics of practice. People that put the provision there are not stupid or do you think they are? It's a different thing in emergency situations when the person is unconscious. Some people are not comfortable having their private parts examined by a personnel of opposite sex while they're conscious. It's exemplified in the ethical principle of autonomy.

There are times when the hospital only have male Drs, thus the provision you are taking about won’t apply.
What can apply is the need for a female Chaperone to be present during the examination.
Alternatively, the woman can decide to go to another Hospital where they have female Drs.
Re: gegtgv by nairalander2020: 11:04am On Oct 02
modsfucker:
No it's not proper, what a terrible Doctor,

Just check and diagnose it yourself, even at the point of birth, don't let them open that pussy, let her born with her pussy tight close, thank you.
bad guy
Re: gegtgv by modsfucker: 11:11am On Oct 02
Zzor:
ewwww,you tried sha.are there no female doctors there.hmm

At that time I didn't care whether there are female Doctors or not... When life is a priority, every other thing remains inconsequential... It would surprise you to know that white people don't really give a hoot about private parts, so long as you're not handling them lustfully or trying to gain access without consent.

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Re: gegtgv by KosiGee: 11:16am On Oct 02
Deathisfree:
My wife is seeing some infection sign so I told her to go to the hospital alone because I am not around.
The doctor insist in checking her Private part and she showed him. Now I am wondering if that is necessary or am I over reacting. Please I need advice so I know what to do
Thanks

You and your wife should’ve requested for a female doctor.

The hospital acted unprofessional as well. They should’ve explained to your wife before the male doctor examined her. She should be given options to have a female gynaecologist. In the absence of a female gynaecologist, hospital should’ve provided a chaperone. If the doctor were in the room alone with your wife, that wasn’t professional. He acted careless by doing that. He should’ve protected himself by asking a female chaperone to be there with him...that way, even if he was the only doctor there, your wife would’ve felt more reassured.

Nigerian medical workers need to re-evaluate and reflect on their practices and management, elsewhere, this doctor would be on a lot of trouble.

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Re: gegtgv by KosiGee: 11:22am On Oct 02
modsfucker:


At that time I didn't care whether there are female Doctors or not... When life is a priority, every other thing remains inconsequential... It would surprise you to know that white people don't really give a hoot about private parts, so long as you're not handling them lustfully or trying to gain access without consent.


You are wrong. Yes white people do give a hoot.
Patient communication is a core value in almost all the hospitals. Patient need to know what’s happening to them, how they will be examined, what will happen in the room, WHO will examine them and how. If they are not comfortable with that, they can refuse treatment...same way Jehova witnesses have the right to refuse blood transfusion and other treatment procedures, Muslim women can refuse treatment or be alone in the room with a male doctor or even refuse to be touched by a male medical worker be it...paramedic, nurse, radiographer or doctor. Before you touch a patient, you have to seek consent and you have to explain what you are doing...if they feel uncomfortable with that at any point during the exam...the exam must not continue.

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Re: gegtgv by modsfucker: 11:29am On Oct 02
KosiGee:



You are wrong. Yes white people do give a hoot.
Patient communication is a core value in almost all the hospitals. Patient need to know what’s happening to them, how they will be examined, what will happen in the room, WHO will examine them and how. If they are not comfortable with that, they can refuse treatment...same way Jehova witnesses have the right to refuse blood transfusion and other treatment procedures, Muslim women can refuse treatment or be alone in the room with a male doctor or even refuse to be touched by a male medical worker be it...paramedic, nurse, radiographer or doctor. Before you touch a patient, you have to seek consent and you have to explain what you are doing...if they feel uncomfortable with that at any point during the exam...the exam must not continue.

I didn't even read your comment completely cos you got my message wrong... I was not referring to a medical situation about the white men, but I was talking on general terms...

To simplify it further for you, generally, white men don't give a hoot about privacy of their private parts. A wife can strip naked right in front of everyone in the presence of her husband and vice versa... And one good thing about it is that they don't feel threatened after doing that... That is to say you'd see everybody going about his business unlike if it were in Africa, where everybody will come and be watching.

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Re: gegtgv by KosiGee: 12:05pm On Oct 02
modsfucker:


I didn't even read your comment completely cos you got my message wrong... I was not referring to a medical situation about the white men, but I was talking on general terms...

To simplify it further for you, generally, white men don't give a hoot about privacy of their private parts. A wife can strip naked right in front of everyone in the presence of her husband and vice versa... And one good thing about it is that they don't feel threatened after doing that... That is to say you'd see everybody going about his business unlike if it were in Africa, where everybody will come and be watching.


Medical situation or not, don’t be deceived by the amount of nudity you see or read about online.
People still care much about their decency. White people care about their decency and what you wrote up there is very wrong.

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Re: gegtgv by Omoboricash(m): 12:13pm On Oct 02
Zzor:
we have outstanding female medical practitioners everywhere,will arrange for that,I can't be comfortable with that,never.kai,neverrrrrrrrr
Just pray u don't have emergency that required male doctor , you won't remember this ur preference. A woman in labour for hours will prefer any Doctor to attend to her irrespective of gender

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Re: gegtgv by Obakashdee(m): 12:57pm On Oct 02
Lol one doctor do my girlfriend this thing around last week, but truly it’s better she asks for a chaperone so she will be comfortable, the doctor and the chaperone which should be a lady ofcourse
Re: gegtgv by superlightning: 1:13pm On Oct 02
modsfucker:


At that time I didn't care whether there are female Doctors or not... When life is a priority, every other thing remains inconsequential... It would surprise you to know that white people don't really give a hoot about private parts, so long as you're not handling them lustfully or trying to gain access without consent.

the most sensible comment I have read so far.....don't mind them my brother. A professional doctor is a professional whether male or female....Doctors have ethics that guides them in carrying out their duties....the best are usually the experienced ones.

but if for any reason one doesn't want a doctor of the opposite gender, then it can be arranged.

Women have many "private" parts that are considered erogenous -

Laps, butts, chest, breasts, armpit, hips, stomach, trunk sides....so it's not all about the vulva or vagina....
Re: gegtgv by ikennamadu1(m): 1:26pm On Oct 02
Zzor:
we have outstanding female medical practitioners everywhere,will arrange for that,I can't be comfortable with that,never.kai,neverrrrrrrrr

you dey behave like feminist ... but yet you don't have sense

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Re: gegtgv by modsfucker: 1:28pm On Oct 02
KosiGee:



Medical situation or not, don’t be deceived by the amount of nudity you see or read about online.
People still care much about their decency. White people care about their decency and what you wrote up there is very wrong.

Okay sir, thank you, good night.

Re: gegtgv by Aimerosa25(f): 1:29pm On Oct 02
excellence44:

Ladies need to know that before a male doctor checks your puto there must be a female nurse around. Better still, you can demand for a female doctor.
all right
Re: gegtgv by Originalsly: 1:43pm On Oct 02
You sent her to see a doctor...... aren't most doctors male? Or is it for problems down there you thought the doctor will inspect her eyes or ears? If not why didn't you tell her to request a female doctor? Just accept that you messed up instead of all this. If she saw the doctor yesterday... and he saw everything down there... do you really he beliege he can today rememher what she looks like down there? Just pray she doesn't feel a bump in her breasts tonight.
Re: gegtgv by queenfav(f): 2:10pm On Oct 02
Zzor:
but we have female doctors around,personally,i can never allow that,i will never be comfortable with it
This was me before pregnancy.When you are having painful contractions that can lead to a premature birth if not stopped,and the only gynae available is a man, trust me.. You will not mind or think about your body.

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Re: gegtgv by queenfav(f): 2:12pm On Oct 02
modsfucker:


When my wife was in labour, I stood and watch Doctor dip his hand inside her veejay to measure some godforsaken dilation, but all I was interested in that time was a safe delivery.
lol..even a muslim woman that was wearing hijab opened everything in the theatre the day i was having my baby.At that time, your unclothedness is the least of your worries or that of your husband!

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Re: gegtgv by DaInferno(m): 2:32pm On Oct 02
Deathisfree:
My wife is seeing some infection sign so I told her to go to the hospital alone because I am not around.
The doctor insist in checking her Private part and she showed him. Now I am wondering if that is necessary or am I over reacting. Please I need advice so I know what to do
Thanks
you be man, ask him man to man.
Re: gegtgv by Kessythegeek(m): 2:34pm On Oct 02
Zzor:
but we have female doctors around,personally,i can never allow that,i will never be comfortable with it

It's just another skin...
Re: gegtgv by durasome(m): 2:38pm On Oct 02
Deathisf:
My wife is seeing some infection sign so I told her to go to the hospital alone because I am not around.
The doctor insist in checking her Private part and she showed him. Now I am wondering if that is necessary or am I over reacting. Please I need advice so I know what to do
Thanks
.better problem never hold you for any part of your body before cause when it does,then you know say na only with clear eye person dy call some parts private, ask women when in labour they will tell.
Re: gegtgv by Truvel(m): 2:49pm On Oct 02
Op, Remove Ur Mind 4rm There & Focus On D Recovery Of Ur Wife. It's Their Job. Likewise, Women Doctor Do Dsame To Men. Or Are U Scared Ur Wife Would Be Screwed?
Re: gegtgv by rowland545(m): 3:18pm On Oct 02
Denique:
No, you aren't overreacting. It's normal undecided

You should take the next JAMB to study medicine, so that you call handle ALL your family medical/health care needs.

You better crawl back into the hole you came out from. Opontu!
brozz no b fight naa
Re: gegtgv by modsfucker: 3:19pm On Oct 02
queenfav:
lol..even a muslim woman that was wearing hijab opened everything in the theatre the day i was having my baby.At that time, your unclothedness is the least of your worries or that of your husband!

No mind them....

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Re: gegtgv by Denique(f): 3:21pm On Oct 02
rowland545:
brozz no b fight naa

I be geh angry
Re: gegtgv by poshestmina(f): 3:26pm On Oct 02
Zzor:
but we have female doctors around,personally,i can never allow that,i will never be comfortable with it


Dear,not all private hospitals have female doctors...just nurses .
If you don't feel comfortable being alone with a male doctor ,you can ask for the presence of a nurse.

cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Guess you are still growing . During labor,you'll not even think twice before spreading it like blueband grin.

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Re: gegtgv by poshestmina(f): 3:28pm On Oct 02
queenfav:
lol..even a muslim woman that was wearing hijab opened everything in the theatre the day i was having my baby.At that time, your unclothedness is the least of your worries or that of your husband!


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Some even try to run out of the Labour room naked cheesy cheesy.

God bless mothers!

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