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Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:57pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
This is just taking things too far What happened to etiquette? Biglittlelois: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:00pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 10:03pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Men that are always walking around in boxers. They want to be the only ones that can do what they like. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:04pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
God bless you. The problem is not with the dressing. As i am, if a woman walks past me naked, does that mean it's okay if i catcall her or even try to grab her body? Definitely not Biglittlelois: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:12pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
I know places where guys wear undies that deliberately reveal their penis - in public. Some just have a preference for briefs or tight underwear - it would be wrong to assume otherwise, but society does not find it showy But a woman with barely visible cleavage is dragged and slut shamed - and is considered as showing too much purples25: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 10:18pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Guys even bathe in public. With no shame. I think society just loves to control women. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:22pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
Yes, many societies form by belittling or restricting women - Nigeria, included. I have seen enough of it on Nairaland alone purples25: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by Komu1048(m): 10:25pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Then keep deceiving yourself, catcalling and rape will continue, while it will take a lot more than advice/enforcement for men sexual habits towards nudity to change it will take less stress and energy to caution unclad girls to change for their own safety. People like you want to eat ur cake and have it, western ways have further blindfolded you, to know u r dealing with Africans. Displaying our sexual organ calling it fashion is not African thing and no matter how hard u try to make it look it’s still not simple. Bros as far as I’m concern men and women needs to adjust to clear harassment, catcalling and rape from our street. But believing it doesn’t matter what ladies wear, means we r not serious yet. Do u know how many men masturbate just by looking at ladies nudities. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 10:27pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Yeah they just love to make women small. So many misogynists here. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:29pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
You obviously know nothing about rape and catcalling Can you explain to me why some fully covered women have been raped in their homes? Or you think every raped woman displayed her body prior? As a gender based violence advocate, i advise women to watch their movements and encourage moderate dressing - don't say what you don't know please Komu1048: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:30pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:Dnt piss me off broh. U've got ur opinion, i've got mine. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:32pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
It depends on upbringing and personal experiences a lot of times, many women-haters grew up with bad advice or had bad ordeals with some women. The problem is that they used their experiences to guide every part of their reasoning purples25: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:33pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
I can't view what isn't right without calling it out. Catcalling from men to women is worse and more on the abusive end. PrinceofAgoAre: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:36pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
purples25:We'd love to see u guys walk around in panties nd bra seriously |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 10:38pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Yeah that is definitely the problem. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:40pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
Apologies if you're pissed off, relax PrinceofAgoAre: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:40pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
That wasn't her point PrinceofAgoAre: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 10:40pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre: Lol you guys are just more wild and sexually aroused. Plus all the violence and judgment of women. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:41pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:So 4rm d females to men is a compliments huh? get d fvck off my mention. I dnt wnt ur simptardness to rub off on me. 2 Likes |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:43pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
You assumed what i never typed. Catcalling is rude regardless of who is giving it, men do it more and get more physical about it. PrinceofAgoAre: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:44pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
This doesn't mean it is right when women do it. nwaezeemmanuel: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by Komu1048(m): 10:44pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: The above is all I’m pointing out, I might not know much as u do but issue of sexual harassment is not a topic on rocket science. Ofcus some were as a result of preying on some they sense as weak but if our women dress well we have won half of the battle then we know ladies have done their part and we know the issue is now about we men. No well dress woman can be catcall, if they are then I haven’t seen or heard of any of my over 30 years of existence 2 Likes |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:44pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:. What was her point? 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:47pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
You've lived longer than me, but i have seen a well dressed woman being catcalled. If you think moderate dressing will solve half of rape problems, think again. If a man rapes a woman, it is his fault and not a blame to be shared by the woman. Please stop believing this dressing myth, it will only encourage and support rapists Komu1048: 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:50pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
The fact that men can present themselves however they want without being shamed like many women are PrinceofAgoAre: 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:56pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
I volunteer with a Sexual Assault Referral Centre and have heard some rape cases come in. Fathers raping their pre-teen daughters. Uncles raping nieces that don't know what sex is about. What curves, or female endownments could this underaged girls possibly have? See why the dressing/arousal mentality is not solving anything? nwaezeemmanuel: 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 11:02pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:i think d shaming even comes more 4rm their fellow women. jxt lyk a particular day while i coming bak 4rm sch. There two females wearing an ultra revealing came down frm bike nd was walking to their destination. A woman hawking somethings i dont remember ryt nw some few other older women started rainning heavy curses on both ladies. D one hawking sometiing was really loud abt it. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 11:07pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
purples25:i hope i aint catcalling if i call u a pretty ass |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by Komu1048(m): 11:07pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
We are going to share it ooo. U can’t dress like jezebek and expect men should look away. It’s like you going to plug ur phone in a public place such as a fuel station and your phone was stole. That doesn’t justify the fact the thief but u urself hasn’t taken safety caution. And that doesn’t mean your phone can’t be stole in ur home but atleast you have put up enough measure to safeguard ur phone. And people that lost phone through the former way is more than those who lost theirs through the later. But u should now be saying stealing is a bad and we should only focus on the thief and that the phone owner can plug its phone anywhere. If u do that, u r right but the victim will continue to lose his phone. Thanks nwaezeemmanuel: |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by purples25(f): 11:11pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre: I have no ass. |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 11:11pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
Y u making catcalling dat much of a big deal. I bet d females love all of dat attention. 1 Like |
Re: Women! Have You Ever Being Catcalled By A Guy On The Street Before? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 11:15pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
purples25:Lmao.. Everyone has an ass. Yours jxt might be small. anyways i wasnt referring to ur actual ass |
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