Everyone is different, each one of these points will look differently depending on the individuals. These are what I draw from my experiences. Comments are encouraged below. Negative ones won’t be deleted either. Smiles.

So, here are some psychological facts about love, crushes and friendship you should know.

1. Giving a woman independence is a love enigma. The more independence you give her, the more she feels drawn to you.

2. You can easily know if a woman loves you by looking at her body language when another woman is looking at you while smiling.

3. Surprising a woman with intimate gifts like a bathrobe, new undies, etc triggers the same feelings of love like just before the first romantic encounter.

4. You can revive a numb relationship by frequently spending time together on a trip, going to a picnic, etc.

5. Women can easily make their men remain faithful by buying them surprise gifts like a watch, a shirt, a pair of shoes, underwear or a new shirt.

6. Women experience psychological pleasure first before they experience it physically. While men experience physical pleasure first before they experience it psychologically.

7. One of the ways of making a woman feel loved is by stimulating her mind and making her feel the love experience by words of affirmation like “I love you” and other love languages as peculiar to her.

8. Making a woman feel loved, beautiful, and appreciated means a great deal to her.

9. Looking into your partner’s eyes and holding eye contact during sex and pre-intimacy can make them feel far more turned on and excited than if your eyes were closed.

10. When two people cuddle or hug each other for a while, the brain releases oxytocin hormones that help relieve migraine and calms the nerves for up to four hours.

11. “The Lady In Red” - Men are psychologically turned on by women on red dresses. The color red is strongly linked to desire and attraction in men.

12. The first impression and eye contact are some of the most effective ways of attracting someone. Most people fall in love through eye contact during the first 30 seconds.

For instance, it is reported that women wear red clothes more often during the fertile phases of their menstrual cycle. Could that be why men are psychologically turned on?

13. You gradually fall in love with someone you spend a lot of time with.

This phenomenon is known as the exposure effect. Exposure Effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to be attracted to each other the more time they spend together.

14. People are more likely to be attracted to those who are just as attractive as they are. This is known as the Matching Hypothesis.

Studies show that if you are attractive, you might want to be with the most beautiful/handsome person in the neighborhood, at work, etc.

15. Changing the curtains of the room where you frequently make love has the same psychological effect as making love in a different room.

16. Taking someone on a first date that gets their heart pumping like a roller coaster ride, fast car, motorcycle ride or a movie thriller spikes their adrenaline, tricking them into believing they enjoyed spending time with you more than with any other person.

17. The one who cries with you in your pain will hardly workout on you.

18. Testosterone is a powerful male hormone that attracts women by the odour it produces. Wearing a cologne that simulates that same odour can make your woman strongly fall in love with you over again.

19. The link between humor and intelligence has for a long time fascinated psychologists.

Women are emotionally, psychologically drawn to funny and humorous men. Women love to be happy, therefore, a man who makes them laugh draws them like a magnet.

21. With reference to #12, looking in strangers’ eyes frequently can lead them and eventually fall in love with you. A study involving 72 undergrad students showed that staring into a stranger's eyes can make you form an attachment, despite never even talking to them.

22. Holding hands with your significant other reduces mental and physical pain.

23. With reference to #22, looking at the picture of your significant other deeply, provides some sought of relief to the mind.

24. Out spoken females and quiet males tend to make the best couples. Though they might need to compromise at some issues just as it is peculiar to every relationship. “Understanding is key”.

24. A person who has been cheated on once is less likely to fall in love with someone else.

25. Relationship with those of opposite nature/behavior tend to last longer than those with similar ones. “The balance is key here”.

26. Men tend to love faster than women, though they might not express their feelings immediately.

27. Seeing your love can automatically raise your heart beat.

28. Love can decrease your vision, making you to understand only things that you can interpret or imagine.

29. It’s a great feeling being loved back by the person you love.

30. Love makes the fastest bond between individuals.

31. Most often boys make the first move. But, if she does, then, no one can love you more than her.

32. Most people can't make eye contact with their crush.

33. A relationship should last more than four months to be a true love story.

34. Love can be addictive.

35. Tears caused by loved ones has the most painful feeling.

36. Someone who has never been in love before 16 is too judgmental and picky when it comes to finding love.

37. Not speaking with the one you love for more than 48 hours can make you feel homesick or terribly lonely.

38. Unexpected and unplanned stories of love last for a longer time.

39. According to experts, a birthday wish from loved ones produces a vibe in our body which can increase almost 10 days of our lives.

40. You always relate to a person you love with your best songs.

41. True love can wait for several years to get in a relationship with the one they love.

42. The reason behind successful teenagers love, heartbreak movies and songs are the true life heartbreak stories of humans.

43. One of the reasons behind depression is unsuccessful love stories.

44. Appearance and Social Status matter less if you have liked someone due to their good behavior or great personality.

45. Some people can't bear the loss of loved ones and eventually die after a few months or years due to mental or physical illness or deep loneliness.

46. The more you ignore the one you truly love, the more you fall for them.

47. Relationships are ruined as a result of misunderstanding and lack of mutual understanding.

48. Heartbreak after true love is equally painful as physical pain.

49. People say that trust is very important in a relationship. But, it's a false concept. Time is the most important thing. With time grows the trust, friendship, you grow together, immense and inseparable bonds.

50. After learning the name of your crush, does it suddenly appear everywhere? It’s like they’re stalking you.

This phenomenon is called The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon. Also known as frequency illusion.

51. If you love someone, your brain overlooks and ignores the flaws of that person causing them to appear perfect.

52. Shy people tend to be more modest which is considered an attractive trait by many.

53. With reference to #34, passionate love is like an addiction. For better or for worse.

54. Love inspires creativity. It changes how you think. It opens your mind by stimulating creative thought. This new way of thinking shapes the way you analyze and process both emotions and experiences.

55. With reference to #54, our creativity when in love could be expressed in the art of writing, painting, etc.This eventually become one of the ideal medium of expressing your love and those other new and complicated feelings you just can’t express with words.


56. Men tend to lower their voice when they talk to their crushes and they get pretty loud when they’re excited.

57. Absence of your love makes the heart grow warmer and sometimes, a brief absence of your love creates a stronger attraction.

58. Opposite attract is real. Being similar in so many ways is not always the best recipe for true love. Love needs conflict to survive sometimes.

59. With reference to #58, conflict creates passion, interest and curiosity. It breeds compromise and allows you to learn from your partner not only does this strengthen your connection but it also keeps your love on its toes. Though this is largely dependent on your partners wiliness to learn new stuff about your and you doing likewise.

60. The butterflies you get in your stomach when you see the person you’re in love with is actually a stress response. This stress response is caused by adrenaline rush.

61. You get a woman’s attention with your appearance while personality locks her heart-in.

62. Love relieves stress. After a long day, one act of love such as holding your loved one’s hand can transform your mood and melt your stress.


63. If a girl likes you, she’ll play with her hair when talking to you. Though not applicable to every girl.

64. Based on triangular theory of love, perfect love is a combination of passion, commitment and intimacy.

65. Mimicry is a sign of attraction. If you mimic the gesture of your crush, it would make him/her closer to you. Just don't overdo.

66. If you want to create an instant link to your crush, say his/her name at least twice in the conversation.

67. In your mind, you have tried your crush's last name - admit it.

68. 2 in 5 women suffer from anuptaphobia. The fear of never finding love.

69. Pretending or trying not to miss the one you love tricks your mind into missing them more.

70. Beautiful ladies are often less likely to be asked out because most men tend to be intimidated by their beauty.

71. Having a conversation with the one you love will improve your mental strength.

72. Research has shown that men and women tend to fall for each other in dangerous situations than in unexciting surroundings.

73. You’ve probably had an imaginary conversation in your head with your crush. It usually goes better than any real conversation you might have with them.

74. From experts, over 60% of people change their looks after a break up.

75. Cuddling is great and cuddling with your loved one triggers a reaction in the brain similar to taking pain killers.

76. You can love two people at the same time but never at the same level.

77. Love changes you, guides you and sometimes, destroys you in mysterious and powerful ways you can’t phantom.

78. Love is a double-edged sword. Sometimes it keeps us safe and happy. Other times it cuts us up and cuts us down.

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Source: http://www.juilal.com/2020/10/what-are-some-psychological-facts-about.html?m=1

All is fair in love and war

Twelfthman:
All is fair in love and war

Awesome. I love this... Gracias..

In summary..

No Nigerian girl truly loves you





























































without money

Ilal:
Awesome. I love this... Gracias..

Love is a mental sickness that makes you lose your reasoning. Knowledge of this we help you in dealing with the world affairs.

Love is a risky investment with 96% chance of failing and only 2% profit after a long term. Its not what you should invest on.

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collinsuchendu:


In summary..

No Nigerian girl truly loves you





























































without money

Love and money don’t always work hand in hand. The more richer you become the more likely you become confused of who really likes you.

For true love, much more bring more misery. You become too capable and powerful, the more easier it is for you to make mistakes. You meet people you shouldn’t have met, you like people you shouldn’t like.

So in conclusion, when you get more money, get more sense. Else money will be a waste

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