just forget about her and dont bother urself too much about the money u spent on her.afterall its just food and clothes u bought for her since u said she was looking kinder malnorished when u met her.Ex is not trying to come back with her though..the ex just want to chop again since her body is now shining due to d food and clothes u bought for her. But after chopping her a second time he is going to dump her again..normal thing.wen ex dumps her the second time she will start running back to u again.just forget about her and go get another girl

If she really loves you, she won't go back to her ex because a woman can't be in love with two men at the same time.

Shortyy:


It's not the girl.

I still have my exes begging me for forgiveness for being àssholes. That's cuz to them I've upgraded. Talking about they want me back and all that BS.

In my own case it's the girls, they all always come back, thinking I'm head over heels and try to woo me, like they didn't initially leave.
One was cheating , i let her go....she got married, after years, wanted to start blaming me for the decision she made.

Bluezy13:
Me I no dey carry ear hear anything ex.
I don back off immediately.

I no wan story later.

Sure.. She and her ex fit don resume their lashing session self

Shortyy:
Why not talk to her about it?


Exes are demons tbh, when the going is tough, you won't see them, but when you've moved on with your life, they'll crawl out from different holes to disrupt person's life.

I'll go with the guys on this one, but first talk to her, if it persists, please go your way, for the sake of your mental health.

Op don't listen to this advice oo.. There's nothing to talk about kindly move on cos definitely she will get back to her ex and you will be the biggest looser

Kingsnova:
I'll be making my post as short and brief as possible.
I met this lady sometime in August 2019, though there was nothing too alluring about her looks, there was one thing I liked about her - her intelligence. She was in school then and still is and it came to my understanding that it was the stress in school that took a toll on her body. Her love for me was so strong that she can't stay a meter away from me. Fastforward to earlier this year. I spent so much on her that when she visited her parents they couldn't recognise her(this is a fact). I made sure she ate well and dress good too and I mean she is mad hot now. She loves me, no doubts but the issue now is that her ex is now back to apologise to her and that he wants her back. I observed they have been talking for hours on phone . Now anytime i visit her or she visits and i want to talk to her she complains of being tired and bla bla. I'm financialy stable and had wanted to p ropose. Now I'm in a dilemma. How sure am i she's not 'rehooked' to her ex.

Lmao...How you take yarn facts fo d write up dey hilarious...Ubunja don educate una, be like una get Kpomo ear. Where ur treasure is ur heart follows, for a man where his money goes his heart and dick follows. Assuming she was a material piece of treasure how would yuu protect her from thieves who comes to steal and to plunder? Men too dey cast sha!

She is an ungrateful being,,, for she to have the urge to talk to her ex for hours on phone shows that she is still deeply in love with her ex....Give her space for now..

Ezi1993:
She is an ungrateful being,,, for she to have the urge to talk to her ex for hours on phone shows that she is still deeply in love with her ex....Give her space for now..

Another female looking out for her sister. Lol ...make him money waste...Better call that B1tch to caution.

The day I find out my gf is talking to her ex is the day I stop taking her serious. Is either I play along for the sex or tell to her to stop all forms of communication with her ex.

That's one aspect of a relationship don't joke with. Is better to be tagged insecure than to waste your time.

Shortyy:


It's not the girl.

I still have my exes begging me for forgiveness for being àssholes. That's cuz to them I've upgraded. Talking about they want me back and all that BS.

Your exes !!!
Are they that much ?

Tajbol4splend:
a woman can't be in love with two men at the same time.

Kó possible padii mii

Ezi1993:
give her space for now..

Space koor space ship nii
Which stupid space is that did you even read what the op type .? you girls will find one way to support yourselves.
Op leave that fûcking idiotic, motherfucking,crazy,stupid,ungrateful bitch alone
Free bitch her ass move on with your life
Note-->> Don't ever spend heavily on a girl to the extent that you'll later regret it. These bitches ain't worth it.

Niggaliatian 2:17
If she left one nigarrrr cause of you she will leave you for another nigarrrr..
Op move on with your life

Kingsnova:
I'll be making my post as short and brief as possible.
I met this lady sometime in August 2019, though there was nothing too alluring about her looks, there was one thing I liked about her - her intelligence. She was in school then and still is and it came to my understanding that it was the stress in school that took a toll on her body. Her love for me was so strong that she can't stay a meter away from me. Fastforward to earlier this year. I spent so much on her that when she visited her parents they couldn't recognise her(this is a fact). I made sure she ate well and dress good too and I mean she is mad hot now. She loves me, no doubts but the issue now is that her ex is now back to apologise to her and that he wants her back. I observed they have been talking for hours on phone . Now anytime i visit her or she visits and i want to talk to her she complains of being tired and bla bla. I'm financialy stable and had wanted to propose. Now I'm in a dilemma. How sure am i she's not 'rehooked' to her ex.

You said she really loves you na?!
Just talk her about it and see the reactions. From there you can know where you stand.
Whatever you do, don't just waste your time!

Kingsnova:
Now I'm in a dilemma. How sure am i she's not 'rehooked' to her ex.

I would advise you have a rethink oo,,, even marriage plans no dey keep girls nowadays

alaye hack her WhatsApp account or secretly get her Facebook details, you might save yourself the stress with that


I did this for 10years of courtship with my woman and I never see any disloyalty move hence my conclusion to paid her Dowry


save yourself the stress by assessing her move, the result of that assessment and FBI investigation will guide on what to do at the end

Kingsnova:
I'll be making my post as short and brief as possible.
I met this lady sometime in August 2019, though there was nothing too alluring about her looks, there was one thing I liked about her - her intelligence. She was in school then and still is and it came to my understanding that it was the stress in school that took a toll on her body. Her love for me was so strong that she can't stay a meter away from me. Fastforward to earlier this year. I spent so much on her that when she visited her parents they couldn't recognise her(this is a fact). I made sure she ate well and dress good too and I mean she is mad hot now. She loves me, no doubts but the issue now is that her ex is now back to apologise to her and that he wants her back. I observed they have been talking for hours on phone . Now anytime i visit her or she visits and i want to talk to her she complains of being tired and bla bla. I'm financialy stable and had wanted to propose. Now I'm in a dilemma. How sure am i she's not 'rehooked' to her ex.

You're trying to buy her love with money. That's a wrong approach to woo a lady. You better take your time before you take a wrong decision