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Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by virginprincess(f): 10:13pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Sawzer:Tried sharing the link to you but it but it didn't work. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Sawzer(m): 10:14pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
One thing I learnt from the days when marriage flourished is that "A woman's money is hers and a Man's money is for the family. That was then when Men were MEN and Women were WOMEN. Now, everyone wants to be playing each other's role and be demanding equality instead of equity. We've fuc.ked of the system and it obviously can't be reversed and we'll keep repeating this kind of stories till eternity.The blame goes to both party. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Sawzer(m): 10:15pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Alright |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Sawzer(m): 10:17pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:She can spend on her husband Eg. Gifts, but it shouldn't be her responsibility. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Sawzer:Why would you buy a man gift? who does that? that means she's promoting roles switching |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by SILENTandSMART2: 10:20pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor: Girl stop saying dis I'm getting angry, We don't say that here, Marriage is an avenue to help each other, There's many situation where the wife is going to be wealthy than the man , so you are saying dat she shouldn't help, Please i don't like getting angry at all, Women should spend on her husband even if he get money, because it strengthen the love Stop carrying fake principle for head like pure warrer , 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Nicoswit(m): 10:24pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:This mentality is very wrong...buying ur husband a gift is not roles switching...it depicts love 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:25pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:....Like seriously? |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Sawzer(m): 10:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:It's fine. That means feminism doesn't make sense because feminism supports it (equality). Lool at the good ol' days when things were perfect, there wasn't feminism. There wasn't the issue of men splitting bills with their wives either and other related "un-manly stuff". If I start mentioning the roles that men and women play then it would look like I'm berating women now because of this feminism ish. Those days, they lived happy. Now we are just mixing responsibility anyhow because we are feeling cheated. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Shortcut2life: 10:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor: What is good about the post ... it reeks of nonchalant attitude are you trying to tell me your American counterpart that buys house and pays rent as woman are stupid for doing so ? Nah poor upbringing mentality dey worry una poverty don tear your eyes finish ... be dependent on men shogbo no go start to dey make money your future hubby will be proud of you it doesn’t make him less of a man if you do this things .. 2 Likes
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Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Shortcut2life: 10:28pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
This girls are chronic maniacs that buttress their points in an uncanny way... they enjoy being a nuisance on Nairaland ... 1 Like
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Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Sawzer(m): 10:28pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:Just to promote love, not taking his responsibility. It can be like a birthday present. She doesn't have to go overboard and a good husband would appreciate it |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Justbehave(m): 10:29pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:You are such a big disgrace to women.Shame on you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by IamFINESSE: 10:32pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: You have also exposed how intelligent you're, average in spellings |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by virginprincess(f): 10:38pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Shortcut2life:Oga we are not talking about America, this is African, besides why did God make man the head of the family if he want woman to pay school fees and house rent? why didn't he just make woman the head of the family. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by MrTAnonymous(m): 10:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor: You need reorientation if you think that buying a gift for the man you love is bad. You really don't know what love is all about. Incase you don't know na me talk |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Shortcut2life:my future hubby will be a masculine man and not some man who will wait to share bills with me |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by virginprincess(f): 10:41pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
IamFINESSE:Really, maybe you should teach me how to spell, mr know all. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Justbehave(m): 10:43pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Shameless girl you are. So the God that created those Americans is different from the God that created Africans?Why are this dumb?Most of you littles girls need reorientation.Smh for your parents for doing a bad job on you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by SILENTandSMART2: 10:43pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Aswear not about abusing or something many girls need to learn many things about life , Even some simple things that doesn't need you to discuss at all, But they prefer using 10 hours to take pictures, It's good to learn, Not all topics need explanation, 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:43pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
IamFINESSE:Op is a perfect definition of good girl gone bad. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Justbehave(m): 10:44pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor:No man will marry a fool like you. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by tunize(m): 10:46pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Opinions are meant to be respected, but this one is trash! 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Shortcut2life: 10:46pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor: What do you call bills ?? Give me an explanation of what it means .... bills should be headed by a single entity called male folks isn’t that an hypocrisy... You live and thrive on the same bills that the man is being responsible to and your joy is to never partake in such ... I Laugh in Chinese ..
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Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by virginprincess(f): 10:48pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre:I am not bad, i still remain the good girl i am, you guys just misunderstood me. |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Shortcut2life:Sharing of bills isn't a feminine trait,so I don't believe in it |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by IamFINESSE: 10:49pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Enjoy your new found game Mrs attention seeker |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by IamFINESSE: 10:50pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre: Honestly, and I warned her earlier about this |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Shortcut2life: 10:51pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Oh now you believe in African system but you don’t want to adopt the development of the white ones .. Are we moving forward or backwards because it seems your sense has not woken up to the reality of how family should he handled ... you’re not married so I don’t expect anything from you experience is the best teacher .. Once you go through it dem no born you well to even dispute am for your marital home .. Make things works you are called his other half to support him and compromise in any God given or life circumstances you find yourself in .. 1 Like
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Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by Shortcut2life: 10:53pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Zzor: Where are this types of women sprouting from huh ? Nairaland do you have some special breed of women or are they possessed that they don’t know when they are being hypocritical.. imagine this one saying bills is not a feminine traits yayy mogbe ... 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by virginprincess(f): 10:54pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Justbehave:Such a big fool you are, don't worry continue looking for a woman that would share bills with you, don't go and hustle then take up your responsibilities as a man, shameless man. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders Should Learn To Read And Understand. by edward1106(m): 10:55pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:@ OP, you didn't fall from heaven, you come from a family and all the answers you seek are staring at you in the face. There is a reason your mom is called your dad's wife. Let's just say all what you mentioned was your dad's responsibilities. If he didn't have at the time, and your mum had, would she not save both of them the SHAME, DISGRACE accompanying his inability to pay, let's say your school fees, house rent given she had? Would your dad in his right mind refuse to do all those things if he had the money, even with his Ego at stake? Haba! (We have some exceptions though ) Pls, don't make me believe your way of reasoning is a painted picture of what went on in your home cos ladies, most especially don't know they indirectly TELL OUT what goes on in their life without really knowing. I heard of a woman who got sick and died. The sad story was that she had money to treat herself but remained adamant, insisting her husband must be the one to pay the bill bcus the last bill she paid, her husband was yet to return it. She released the money but it was already late. @OP, nobody is arguing with you, people insulting you may just want you to intelligently know situations that may demand you play the part of your husband. Do you know that in a pride of lion, it's the lionesses (females) that hunt for food? If so, find out yourself why at some points do the lions(males) ASSIST the females in hunting? Do you also know that in some settlement not just in Africa alone, women were the ones who fend for food? Find out why the table later turned. @ OP, Please, i meant no disrespect putting your parents in the pix, I just wanted to paint you a direct picture so it plays before mind's eyes. Sleep well! 1 Like |
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