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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by hollas2jnr(m): 6:48pm On Nov 14, 2020
Personally, I'm yet to meet the one that catches my fancy in personality. On a lighter note, the percentage of a GENUINELY happy marriages around me are extremely low nowadays!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Evolutionlove: 7:04pm On Nov 14, 2020
pocohantas:
Everyday on NL, you people are analyzing why people are single and men are not getting married. Yet I saw 3 pre-wedding pictures in just 2 days here. One na even wheelbarrow pusher. I didn’t count the ones in my immediate circle o. Stay here dey mumu.

Mumu You saw Just 20 Weddings out of your millions of Impoverished sheeples and counterparts lol. Sense Is really far from you Nonsense!!!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Evolutionlove: 7:12pm On Nov 14, 2020
harrwix:
Decent people are very opinionated , selective and vision driven.

Getting married most times for them is beyond physical and sexual attraction

With a highly physical and sexual world we find ourselves today, most often at times they find themselves left behind the phase of things

Finding another decent person that fit their choice is another challenge

I feel decent singles should just create a hangout where they can meet like minds and connect

Lol the Broloshos and Oloshos will definitely find a way to sneak In to the Party, Awon Werey Oloko ati Olobo Public Toilet. Wayward and Non-Contended people are plague and deadly......

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Evolutionlove: 7:19pm On Nov 14, 2020
Liposure:
as in eee! These days at least two in ten girls is a slut or a onetime hoe one way or the other

Two wetin?? If I give you Hot Slap lol. Eight out of Ten are Public and Coded Olosho. The remaining two sef are Potential Oloshos. Something that Is happening under my watch everyday with their Useless Idiots low-lives Stupid SIMPS lost souls......

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Raalsalghul: 7:24pm On Nov 14, 2020
yahmohy27:
Just waisting their time .
Time will come when some of them will be searching badly for who will be their husband/wife or urging to have at least a Child
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Raalsalghul: 7:26pm On Nov 14, 2020
Brandonx:
undecided
I'm not ready to get married because no lady has been able to prove to me beyond reasonable doubt the benefits of marriage.
I think men should only think about marriage when they are above 50 years you know close to retirement so you don't feel lonely later.

Honestly, not a bad idea.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Evolutionlove: 7:37pm On Nov 14, 2020
bluskyee:
...Well people must marry! people here are saying that a lot of ladies today are "olosho" that isn't untrue. The truth is some guys aren't smart enough to know their ladies are oloshos while some chose to lgnore ( I know someone who knew my guys and I have slept with a lady and still went ahead to wed same lady). When I worked with an Fmcg back then, The head corporate affairs was quite fond of me. We will go to Ikeja country club together with his bevy of beautiful ladies... His friends who were also in senior management positions in other industries will sit and chat about their escapades some of those ladies got married and some even work in the same coy. I am presently in banking and nothing has changed. You may not understand the rot and level of decadence. By the way I will be retiring from bachelorhood in a couple of weeks. My lady may have had a silly past for someone to call her "olosho". Is the person incorrect?

It's very nice of you being sincere. Now It's time for you to have the dose of your medicine. Congrats In Advance.......

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Raalsalghul: 7:42pm On Nov 14, 2020
Oceanfield:
Getting married now will spoil my travel plans. So I choose to be single as it is easier to jet out alone. No worries.

You are smart!

Marriage has a way of tying someone down.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 7:43pm On Nov 14, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Two wetin?? If I give you Hot Slap lol. Eight out of Ten are Public and Coded Olosho. The remaining two sef are Potential Oloshos. Something that Is happening under my watch everyday with their Useless Idiots low-lives Stupid SIMPS lost souls......


Lol wo fi ebu se e ni cheesy
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

I hope you won't send Nairaland ladies to go and commit suicide.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by pato1(m): 8:33pm On Nov 14, 2020
Marry for companionship and leave the rest biko...
I don't like what I hate
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Oceanfield: 9:05pm On Nov 14, 2020
Raalsalghul:


You are smart!

Marriage has a way of tying someone down.

Bienvenue mon frère
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Starz825(m): 9:40pm On Nov 14, 2020
ILoveDemMANNA:
Decent people are not that good at manipulation .
They live in their world of old , full of ideals.
The field of approaching the opposite sex and pursuing through a fresh relationship is too much for them .
So they lag behind others in this race and obviously stay single .
They readily accept the offers they get in the hope of settling down with someone as and when it happens- they do not have the skills to push through their choices - because they never feel that skill is important in the first place.
This is because they believe in sustainable and enduring relationships , not based on physical attraction or manipulation , but based on genuine affection and understanding.



your first statement is super.... you are 100% right

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by womenareapes: 10:01pm On Nov 14, 2020
poweredcom:


This is the K.O

@womenareapes come and do some finishing
lol what else can I add when the guy said it all!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:06pm On Nov 14, 2020
bluskyee:
...Well people must marry! people here are saying that a lot of ladies today are "olosho" that isn't untrue. The truth is some guys aren't smart enough to know their ladies are oloshos while some chose to lgnore ( I know someone who knew my guys and I have slept with a lady and still went ahead to wed same lady). When I worked with an Fmcg back then, The head corporate affairs was quite fond of me. We will go to Ikeja country club together with his bevy of beautiful ladies... His friends who were also in senior management positions in other industries will sit and chat about their escapades some of those ladies got married and some even work in the same coy. I am presently in banking and nothing has changed. You may not understand the rot and level of decadence. By the way I will be retiring from bachelorhood in a couple of weeks. My lady may have had a silly past for someone to call her "olosho". Is the person incorrect?
I am touch.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:53am On Nov 15, 2020
luminouz:


Lmaoooo... You too like argument and fight!!! grin

angry angry

Told him something that will be beneficial to him and his insensitive reply was "your father". If he were physically in my front, I would have slapped him for being insolent.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by luminouz(m): 8:32am On Nov 15, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


angry angry

Told him something that will be beneficial to him and his insensitive reply was "your father". If he were physically in my front, I would have slapped him for being insolent.
Lol...be like say u sabi kung fu moves or the dude go beat you black and red o
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by criuze(m): 9:55am On Nov 15, 2020
do you know over expectations

ok.

now do you know over standard
.

they are maniac and narccisist excuses


thank you.



Now the commonest in Nigeria is financial hindrances, most good people knows the right thing to do
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 9:57am On Nov 15, 2020
criuze:
do you know over expectations

ok.

now do you know over standard
.

they are maniac and narccisist excuses


thank you.



Now the commonest in Nigeria is financial hindrances, most good people knows the right thing to do


Work and improve on your tenses and narratives. It'll help you.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by weedfada(m): 12:32pm On Nov 15, 2020
Lucrativress:

Many people didn't get married to the love of their lives due to one issue or the other,not that they were indecent.
Not everybody just want to "get married"
Some would have loved to spend their forever with who they loved not who was available

Had to quote u cos this is my predicament... You're wise.
The minute y'all understand that it's different strokes for different folks, all these bleeped up threads gon stop.
It shouldn't always be a war between the male & female gender mehn... #freebandz! # taylorgang!
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lucrativress(f): 12:37pm On Nov 15, 2020
weedfada:


Had to quote u cos this is my predicament... You're wise.
The minute y'all understand that it's different strokes for different folks, all these bleeped up threads gon stop.
It shouldn't always be a war between the male & female gender mehn... #freebandz! # taylorgang!
I tell you
If wishes were Horses,we would have less bitter people scattered everywhere
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lucrativress(f): 12:38pm On Nov 15, 2020
RedPhoenix:



Work and improve on your tenses and narratives. It'll help you.
Mr Lecturer
Kadan kadan
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lucrativress(f): 12:42pm On Nov 15, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Lol the Broloshos and Oloshos will definitely find a way to sneak In to the Party, Awon Werey Oloko ati Olobo Public Toilet. Wayward and Non-Contended people are plague and deadly......
Kinidede
Be calming down na ahn ahn
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by skales67: 12:53pm On Nov 15, 2020
Liposure:
what about old age

Sell your assets off and travel out of the country just before you hit the peak of old age to countries where there are better life and care for the elderly.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lovalovaphunmz(f): 4:27pm On Nov 15, 2020
SmartPolician:


Ewu

I am even single, but your attack on the ladies is senseless, to say the least

Give these ladies a break

It's not like we guys are perfect

Every second, you lots are on Nairaland using unprintable words on women like some bunches of jobless orangutans!
Thank u o. Wot i read here on nl atimes makes me wonder y i came as a woman. The hate is just too terrible.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lovalovaphunmz(f): 4:31pm On Nov 15, 2020
U guys should pls stop all these hate speech on women. For all i care, u men are terrible more than us. Just because we dont come here to rant just like u guys doesnt me u are saints. I think if someone is looking forward to get married, the person should stay off nairaland cos these pple here will make u question ur decisions.
Oga ooo!!!!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by SHOCK7(m): 5:05pm On Nov 15, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

Wow this is harsh!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by doscar(m): 5:09pm On Nov 15, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins



Bro you got me laughing with your use of words. So funny
Well my little saying is this " if you think because you a good person, you will end up with a good person; then you can as well wait for a whole generation."
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by bluskyee: 6:11pm On Nov 15, 2020
omooba969:


You're shallow.
You are deep.
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by criuze(m): 7:01am On Nov 16, 2020
RedPhoenix:


Work and improve on your tenses and narratives. It'll help you.




. why not offer me a tutorial class I'll pay you handsomely
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 8:20am On Nov 16, 2020
criuze:






.
why not offer me a tutorial class I'll pay you handsomely


Sign up for evening adult classes tongue
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sweetstrawberry(f): 10:20am On Nov 16, 2020
Well, that's because people are more attracted to the "LovePeddler-ish" kind of people

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