Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,050 members, 7,956,916 topics. Date: Monday, 23 September 2024 at 10:23 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? (52121 Views)
5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays / Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? / 5 Reasons Why There Are So Many Decent People Who Are Single Nowadays. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by vanvino(m): 11:53am On Nov 14, 2020 |
sirjamesjnr: Why are you Married? Or intends to get Married? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Awhy4u(m): 11:55am On Nov 14, 2020 |
I'm single because of lack of capital to start our relationship, high cost of living, unhealthy competition from other guys, poor infrastructure, attack from other boys, sponsor from sugar daddy, high cost of maintenance. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Farki: 11:59am On Nov 14, 2020 |
I have come to realise that women care more about the financial and social benefits of getting married than their actual partners which is why things get uneasy several years down the line. That's my view for the men anyway. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by BRATISLAVA: 12:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: You've nailed it. They don't want emotional strings or family life (they will tell you how they want to have relationships with their children in their comical fashion). They hate to be told anything contrary to their opinion. How dare a woman try to control any aspect of their lives, how dare she? The thrill of gratituous sex anytime they want it is the secret behind all men who want to stay single. Typical of the lawless ones who think they're driven. They lack control and so many other things when you look microscopically at their cases. They are the male prostitutes at heart. It's best they undergo vasectomies or become gay, because anyone who has children for them, and the children themselves, are doomed. Afterwards they convince themselves it's about money. But even the ones with money have the same issues. Damaged men with unhealthy egos. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by phazotron(m): 12:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Financial problems Taking their sweet time like me Being careful to avoid mistakes that they made in the past Unrealistic expectations Wrong perception of relationships Etc 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sarita01(f): 12:09pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
I think the major problem for people being single these days is compromise,many people don't want to make adjustments in their life to fit in other people,we always want to have our own way while forgetting that as we all look different so is our perspective and reasoning. Getting married isn't the problem but staying married is,that's what makes lots of people don't even consider embarking on a marriage journey they aren't even sure of the outcome. Marriage requires a lot emotional maturity,which many people don't have,marriage is not a fairytale that have a happily ever after ending,it's real life,many people think marriage is scripted,where they'll just go and act out scenes,and recite lines,where all the actions,emotions,and ending is already known but when they get slapped in the face by reality that marriage is a blank space where you write down your history,then it'll be too late and the high of marriage comes crashing down. Marriage is the greatest risk of all,and like all risks the outcome is unknown,we need to be emotionally matured in handling our feelings,we should always be prepared for the worst cos come rain or sunshine there will always be the worst,but how we handle it is what really matters. Finding the right person isn't easy cos your choice might not be the person's choice but I still believe everyone have the one person who is made for them,our problem is thinking life is a fast lane where we want to rush everything forgetting that good things takes time. I just pray we find the one who is made for us on time. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by phazotron(m): 12:21pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
SmartPolician: They have a point, you know. Men ain't perfect But a lot of females in this part of the world are absolute disasters 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by omooba969(m): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Bmaster: You would be surprised ubunja has his own relationship challenges and suffering in silence. Y'all need to realise that relationship is bigger than everyone and it requires patience, genuine affection, forgiveness, skillset, tolerance and a decent level of understanding of each other. Above all, marriage is a beautiful thing when you're with the right person. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by pocohantas(f): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: Well said. It is okay if they don’t want to marry, it is a personal decision I will always respect- but stay your lane, do not bring innocent kids into your drama! You don’t want to marry, but you are looking for women to make babymamas. If you want kids so much, get a surrogate to have them for you. Save us all the babydady/babymama squabbles. A lot of these guys are not richer than Davido, Tuface and Wizkid, yet we all know the drama they had with their babymamas. Tuface is now very calm, I am sure he would have done a lot differently. Wizkid and Davido will soon reach their own ages of realization. These kids do not deserve the drama their parents bring upon them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by omooba969(m): 12:31pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
harrwix: @bolded, Lol . Bad boiz will defo infiltrate, pretend and smash their fragile hearts. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by omooba969(m): 12:35pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
makanma: Simple & golden. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by omooba969(m): 12:45pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Liposure: So what? Are you implying that they don't deserve a decent and blissful marriage? Or are these girls fvckn themselves - why not castigate the men fvckn them too? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Godmademan(m): 12:48pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
blinking001:Have you thought about the ill societal impacts of single parenthood or poor parenting? If the world is to be a better place in future, we must get it right at the family level. This small unit begats all the problems of this world. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:50pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Jonasbadoo: I didn't even quote you when I made that comment, so for you to mention me shows how much my comment hurt you. Truth, they say, is bitter. I said what I said. Men have been known to propose to a lady they just met and marry her under 3 months. Do you think those men concerned about ladies chastity? Men that want a wife in name and child-bearing purposes don't have time to come and be dating ladies for years on end. See eh, when a man is well to do and wants to settle down, nothing will stop him from marrying and I mean nothing. Ladies boku. Families that are looking to become in-laws this Christmas yapa. What else does someone like for example Phyno need to get married this Christmas? Drop money and ndi ogbe will find kpocha kpocha wife for you. No stress. Marriage is/was never a big deal to men from the beginning of time. It is not a priority for them. Go around and ask. Any man that keeps on complaining ladies chastity is why he isn't yet married is not yet ready for marriage. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by NoFucksToGive: 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
RedPhoenix: Your father 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by NoFucksToGive: 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Your father 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Jonasbadoo(m): 12:52pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Ladies are not saints either and married women Bleep a lot So what are you insinuating ?? Men are not your problem dear ,do what works for you and leave others to their decisions simple 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lucrativress(f): 12:53pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Liposure:So what should we do? People can't keep moping over the fact that they're still single It hurts to be single,being decent and being in a good relationship is really sweet but we can't keep getting broken with the thought of being single |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:54pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
vanvino:My fiancee is a known Nairaland. DrFunmisticGlow. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by omooba969(m): 12:55pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: If anyone feels marriage would be an impediment to the kind of life they live and enjoy, I think it's within their rights to refrain and remain single. You have no basis to conclude that it's for the 'freedom to cheat at will and generally be irresponsible'. Kindly respect their 'Freedom of Choice' abeg. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:55pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Lucrativress:Work on your character, be a bit romantic,dress decent and hope for the best. |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:56pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
NoFucksToGive: Say Amen you wayward child. Is something wrong with you? Do I look like your age mate? Say Amen osiso before thunder will start locating you now. |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:57pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
omooba969:You are right. I do not know why we intend to force our opinion on others it sucks. |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:59pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
omooba969: I said what I said. Whoever prefers baby mama to wife is a cheat in bold letters, freedom be damned. Their so called need for freedom is to the detriment of the well-being of that child cause statistics shows that married men are more responsible towards their children than unmarried niggas. |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:59pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Brandonx:That is selfishness. Why will you be a load to someone daughter? |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 1:01pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by NoFucksToGive: 1:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Your useless generation 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by stanliwise(m): 1:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
blinking001:For God sake what is this garbage you wrote up there? Just simply say you like the baby mama strategy and don’t want commitment. Why now start the blame game on women? |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:03pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
anochuko01:Before I met my girl, I have girls who try this with me, but I always have my Exit plans. I can't develop myself and I stoop low for one lowlife. |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:06pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
OB7Foreva:We have a lot of guys who takes advantage of good ladies 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by DrFunmisticGlow: 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
omooba969:tell that to those old gossip loving and scowling aunties who are miserable in their marriage and still want you to share in their misery |
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by stanliwise(m): 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
omooba969:well said, although the person you quoted didn’t put his word well but the lifestyle of many randy men/women today is that they can afford to be committed to one person l except such person is everything in their dream world which is not possible |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
"I Love You" To A Girl - A Broke Dude Vs A Rich Dude (picture) / Man Buys IphoneX, Wines For His Girlfriend After She Had A Bad Day (Photos) / Man Proposes To His Girlfriend On The Road In Ojuelegba (photo)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 65 |