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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by SmartPolician: 10:16am On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
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Oga sharap

Because you married one sister in church from avery poor home who had no choice because she has never seen anything better than the mediocre life you gave her doesn't make you an expert

Ewu

I am even single, but your attack on the ladies is senseless, to say the least

Give these ladies a break

It's not like we guys are perfect

Every second, you lots are on Nairaland using unprintable words on women like some bunches of jobless orangutans!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:19am On Nov 14, 2020
SmartPolician:


U just dey write NONSENSE

Some of you realize your mistakes when it's too late.

Nobody has it all

Marriage isn't meant for everyone
and everybody will get married. I'm tired of hearing this comment
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Afolashade00(f): 10:19am On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste buns





NA WA OOO, WAHALA BE LIKE BICYCLE FOR WHO NO BE MAN OOOO grin

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by NoFucksToGive: 10:20am On Nov 14, 2020
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Oga na the reality be that
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:21am On Nov 14, 2020
RedPhoenix:
The rise of yahoo girls everywhere and the difficulty in differntiating tongue
yahoo girls no laptop
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 10:21am On Nov 14, 2020
Lucrativress:

Forget about Olosho or non olosho
Decent people are getting single cause of stringent options and situations
Leave olosho talk alone jare


Could you be kind to shed more light on " stringent options and situations "
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:23am On Nov 14, 2020
SpeciMental:
@sirjamesjnr, isn't it obvious?
The truth is a societal evolution took place towards indecency and the loss of virtuous standards at a very rapid rate that left the decent ones behind.
Now the decent ones are scarce in the midst of so many indecent ones. So the decent ones are many times single.
You are right. Sometimes I ask myself when did we accept baby mamas and baby daddies as an ideal form of family structure.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 10:23am On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins




You're a wicked soul

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by livinbygrace: 10:23am On Nov 14, 2020
Connected1:
The Nigerian Econage omy isn't friendly at all, unless you are well to do and don't expect much from your partner then you won't enjoy the full benefits of dating instead you will be frustrated.
Everyone is a Gold digger right now.


You are absolutely right.I am in my 40s and I can count so many of my friends in same age group sighting economic hardship for their reason of not ready to settle down .Meet an average lady today ,immediately she starts demanding and put all her generational problems on one innocent man.So men are not really into marriage these days ,instead go for baby mamas

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by SmartPolician: 10:24am On Nov 14, 2020
Liposure:
and everybody will get married. I'm tired of hearing this comment

That's a statement of fact

Many people never prepare for marriage

They think it's a bed of roses

Sooner rather than later, they will seek a divorce

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:24am On Nov 14, 2020
misterme:
All I can say is that if I knew what I now know I wouldn't have married. I would have stayed single or wait a bit longer before taking that plunge
growing up i was told marriage was sweet
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Afolashade00(f): 10:24am On Nov 14, 2020
SmartPolician:


Ewu

I am even single, but your attack on the ladies is senseless, to say the least

Give these ladies a break

It's not we guys are perfect

Every second, you lots are on Nairaland using unprintable words on women like some bunches of jobless orangutans!



Seriously the perception of females here got me speechless sometimes.
Seems most of ya'all heart is broken.
May God comfort ya'all

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by frankblinkz(m): 10:25am On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

one chilled gulder for you, I swear u said it all..... I'm in my late 20's and yet I'm not even thinking of settling down, not bcus I don't want to, but truth be told I'm getting more scared of who I will call my life partner, their demands are just too high, more like u will always dance to their tune when they clearly know that they are keeping you so uncomfortable with their silly hell of attitudes, and they end up reminding you it's for better for worse..
I'm scared

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by owobokiri(m): 10:25am On Nov 14, 2020
SmartPolician:


Every single girl whose hymen has been broken is a potential prostitute

It's one of the ills of the 21st century
Chai
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by RedPhoenix: 10:26am On Nov 14, 2020
Afolashade00:




Seriously the perception of females here got me speechless sometimes.
Seems most of ya'all heart is broken.
May God comfort ya'all


I agree
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Bimpe29: 10:26am On Nov 14, 2020
No matter how such excuses might look, they don't worth the end result of not being married.
Marriage is natural.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Bmaster(m): 10:27am On Nov 14, 2020
grin grin grin grin grin I'm just thinking we invite Oga Ubunja over this matter grin grin

He might fully have all the answers to every bothering questions of us undecided

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by harrwix(m): 10:27am On Nov 14, 2020
Decent people are very opinionated , selective and vision driven.

Getting married most times for them is beyond physical and sexual attraction

With a highly physical and sexual world we find ourselves today, most often at times they find themselves left behind the phase of things

Finding another decent person that fit their choice is another challenge

I feel decent singles should just create a hangout where they can meet like minds and connect

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Bmaster(m): 10:28am On Nov 14, 2020
Afolashade00:




Seriously the perception of females here got me speechless sometimes.
Seems most of ya'all heart is broken.
May God comfort ya'all
e pain am grin!!!!!!!!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Lamanii22(f): 10:30am On Nov 14, 2020
Connected1:
The Nigerian Economy isn't friendly at all, unless you are well to do and don't expect much from your partner then you won't enjoy the full benefits of dating instead you will be frustrated.
Everyone is a Gold digger right now.


"Everyone is a gold digger right now" that part really cracked me up lol

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:31am On Nov 14, 2020
NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins


Goodness gracious! You are so bitter.

May God have mercy on your dark soul.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:33am On Nov 14, 2020
owobokiri:
If you are not careful these days you are going to marry a retired or even an active olosho these days... The rate at which young innocent ladies end up in the middle of oloshoism these days is just too rampant.. one has to take his time.

Only broke ass niggas will blame oloshoism as the main reason why they aren't married yet. Mtcheww. We know the format Ogbeni

Radarada oshi.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by makanma(f): 10:35am On Nov 14, 2020
So me that's married... I'm indecent? Mr. OP its all about choice.......my husband is not perfect.....me I'm not perfect......but our union is that of two imperfect people that wanna build a perfect life by learning from our past mistakes that made us imperfect in the first place.....dont attach too much seriousness to marriage and you gonna enjoy it

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:35am On Nov 14, 2020
skales67:
I am single because marriage these days is synonymous to emotional slavery and bondage! Women are the ones who benefit more in that institution than the men and the men are more disadvantaged than the women.

What ever goes wrong in your marriage, you are most likely to be blamed as the man and the woman seen as the victim!

I have shagged some men's wives and still do so tell me what is spicy about marriage today?

Marry at your peril as a man!
what about old age
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:40am On Nov 14, 2020
livinbygrace:



You are absolutely right.I am in my 40s and I can count so many of my friends in same age group sighting economic hardship for their reason of not ready to settle down .Meet an average lady today ,immediately she starts demanding and put all her generational problems on one innocent man.So men are not really into marriage these days ,instead go for baby mamas

Men who go for baby mamas are incorrigible cheats who hide their inadequacy under "ladies are not loyal".

Why I say so? The logic behind baby mama is ludicrous. Answer these questions first.

Is going for baby mama cheaper? Is it less stressful? Does it offer peace of mind? Is it not the same lady that's demanding heaven and earth from you now that will be the baby mama abi you import them from overseas? Tell me the benefits seriously

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:43am On Nov 14, 2020
Lucrativress:
See ehn some are single cause the one they love is not ready
While the one they love is not ready cause of instability and confusion
While others are thinking about the possibilities of not making mistakes in poverty
Let's just leave it there
Single hood should rather be embraced
This matter can so break and shatter the heart

Thanks once again to our Darling Country
Forever finding its way into every bad situation
how can you say that. The People getting married do they have two heads?
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by pocohantas(f): 10:43am On Nov 14, 2020
ILoveDemMANNA:

True talk.
people see only what they want to see in life

Below is my friend’s WhatsApp update as at last night. Right now I can see some “HML amadioha” on my recent updates. It is only NL guys that know why they are surrounded by oloshos. Do they live in brothels? Hian!

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by nauto: 10:46am On Nov 14, 2020
Because I never complete my research on them

Good Girls materials is not easy to find
Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Bakin3(m): 10:48am On Nov 14, 2020
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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by XRJP: 10:49am On Nov 14, 2020
harrwix:
Decent people are very opinionated , selective and vision driven.

Getting married most times for them is beyond physical and sexual attraction

With a highly physical and sexual world we find ourselves today, most often at times they find themselves left behind the phase of things

Finding another decent person that fit their choice is another challenge

I feel decent singles should just create a hangout where they can meet like minds and connect

You literally spoke my mind

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by livinbygrace: 10:49am On Nov 14, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Only broke ass niggas will blame oloshoism as the main reason why they aren't married yet. Mtcheww. We know the format Ogbeni

Radarada oshi.


Forget this your broke ass mentions.There so many well to do rich single guys out there and the reason most of them are not yet married is because most girls these days have nothing to offer and they re gold diggers .I have a friend working with British Petroleum as an expatriate in Texas,he is 44yrs ,and still single,also complaining of the same reasons.
So the economy has affected the mentality of most ladies whereby they turn any man that comes their way as meal ticket.Work up to most ladies today and the next story Na billing.

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Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Liposure: 10:49am On Nov 14, 2020
owobokiri:
If you are not careful these days you are going to marry a retired or even an active olosho these days... The rate at which young innocent ladies end up in the middle of oloshoism these days is just too rampant.. one has to take his time.
as in eee! These days at least two in ten girls is a slut or a onetime hoe one way or the other

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