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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Hassanmaye(m): 8:24am On Nov 18, 2020
EndRape2:
I pity you, if the mother is good, and not selfish or money conscious, then good, feel free to marry her, but I bet you, if the money is still alive, and she is money coucious, you will regreat the marriage, except you love her genuinely, only love will now keep u with her, a broken relationship, is better than a broken marriage, Igbo culture is too deep and barbaric for outsiders, let them deal with themselves.




uote author=Hassanmaye post=96153374]

No amount of talking will stop from my girlfriend chidinma, only rela
tives wahala be the problem.

Chai I'm scared.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Okike2019(m): 9:07am On Nov 18, 2020
AOB1:
Make una reduce una bride price grin
. I SWEAR NA MY THOUGHT BE THAT. EAST AND RIDICULOUS BRIDE PRICE ARE LIKE 5AND 6 BUT ESPECIALLY OWERRI. THEY WILL TELL U "THIS IS HOW WE DO IT HERE" THOSE OLD MEN WHO DONT GIVE A Bleep ABOUT THESE LADY WILL BE INSISTING THE LIST MUST BE COMPLETE. MANY GUYS ARE OUT THERE WHO CAN FEED AND CARE FOR THESE LADIES BUT THE TRAUMA OF GOING THROUGH RIGOROUS MARRIAGE PROCESS IS NOT FUNNY �. SOME TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE LIST ARE CLOSE TO ONE MILLION, WHERE IS THE MONEY IN THIS CURRENT ECONOMY!!! ALL EASTERN STATE SHOULD DO AWAY WITH THOSE DEMANDS AND THEIR DAUGHTERS AND SONS WILL MARRY WITH EASE. NOTE: ME NOT FROM EAST, BUT I MARRIED FROM EAST AND I AM LIVING IN THE EAST... SO I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I AM SAYING

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Abiliboi: 9:14am On Nov 18, 2020
pele, naso fresh vegetables take dey do shakara dey wait for highest bidder until market end, vegetables don dry , nothing but to cry
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by SweetCunt97(f): 9:26am On Nov 18, 2020
simplesearch:


Nobody breaks up with a sensible, wise, virtuous woman. They are adored like rubies, unfortunately we have few of them left, don't bother trying to defend the indefensible if you are a lady you know it yourself that what has become of that particular race in our present days leaves much to be desire. If you ever see a decent lady being maltreated, such should be among the narrow unfathomable exceptions.
Baba leave talk. Everyone was once innocent until life bleeped us. So forget this ur myopic reasoning.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by SweetCunt97(f): 9:27am On Nov 18, 2020
vickydevoka:

Artificial insemination na free?
d traditional method dey

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by SweetCunt97(f): 9:29am On Nov 18, 2020
galantjoe:


You can get child like Linda Ikeji
Going for assisted reproduction is too expensive and unnatural. No father. What if your child wants to identify with his father.
Nature can never be cheated.
Lolz. Lemme not stretch d matter.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Okike2019(m): 9:41am On Nov 18, 2020
[quote author=allwell51 post=96148199]“Millions of Ladies in Nigerian are approaching Menopause and yet no man wants to marry them” - Nigerian Lady from Owerri C r i e s out!!

Watch video here
https://youtu.be
Make una reduce una bride price grin
. I SWEAR NA MY THOUGHT BE THAT. EAST AND RIDICULOUS BRIDE PRICE ARE LIKE 5AND 6 BUT ESPECIALLY OWERRI. THEY WILL TELL U "THIS IS HOW WE DO IT HERE" THOSE OLD MEN WHO DONT GIVE A Bleep ABOUT THESE LADY WILL BE INSISTING THE LIST MUST BE COMPLETE. MANY GUYS ARE OUT THERE WHO CAN FEED AND CARE FOR THESE LADIES BUT THE TRAUMA OF GOING THROUGH RIGOROUS MARRIAGE PROCESS IS NOT FUNNY �. SOME TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE LIST ARE CLOSE TO ONE MILLION, WHERE IS THE MONEY IN THIS CURRENT ECONOMY!!! ALL EASTERN STATE SHOULD DO AWAY WITH THOSE DEMANDS AND THEIR DAUGHTERS AND SONS WILL MARRY WITH EASE. NOTE: ME NOT FROM EAST, BUT I MARRIED FROM EAST AND I AM LIVING IN THE EAST... SO I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I AM SAYING
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by pocohantas(f): 9:42am On Nov 18, 2020
OcVoice:


What ever suits you
But in your heart of hearts, you know I'm right. smiley

I wish I understood what you’re even on about, but like my dad says “Yes no dey cause problem”.

So... grin

Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Dshocker(m): 9:56am On Nov 18, 2020
JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY

Islam is the causes of most death in Northern Nigeria
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Wisefellow(m): 10:00am On Nov 18, 2020
Marriage is an institution ordained by God for humanity to procreate and multiply in this world with consent of parents or guardians.

Not every human will get married as some will never attain marriageable age due to death, while others may not marry out of choice or circumstances beyond their control.

Single parenting are now order of the day by choice or chance. However, marriage like every other thing has the good and bad side.

Vehicles are expensive but do get damaged, faulty or have accident and people still buy, enjoy and carefully maintain them. As the owner/ driver, its your choice! Same similitude goes with marriage, the couples are the joint owner/driver. Can two walk together unless they agree?

Above all, right attitude to life with respect and humility to all results to love which most people, unfortunately, does not possess. Lets reflect on this!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by CheGuevara102: 10:40am On Nov 18, 2020
Jman06:
Just a small number of women are into that sh1t
Then you've been sitting on a long thing. Don't worry until you find out your wife or girlfriend is into that shit.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by achaemeka(m): 10:40am On Nov 18, 2020
ZIINI:
Me!!! Sorry when was that?

When commented on one of my thread I created.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by ZIINI: 10:46am On Nov 18, 2020
achaemeka:



When commented on one of my thread I created.
Ahhhh I don remember bro
No vex baba mii
That level don cast nii na wetin happen be that
You sabi em22 for here na him yarn me that paro and na the evening of that day that work cast.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by achaemeka(m): 11:16am On Nov 18, 2020
ZIINI:

Ahhhh I don remember bro
No vex baba mii
That level don cast nii na wetin happen be that
You sabi em22 for here na him yarn me that paro and na the evening of that day that work cast.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Ghettologist(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2020
Who wan marry shrinked pussy ? Una don taya ? Una never see anything yet.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Regex: 11:22am On Nov 18, 2020
pansophist:


Such a dishonest and manipulative response. Since you're playing the blame game, oya, lets play.

Blame the reaponsible men that the only crime they committed was not being over 6ft, even if they are even still taller than the girls with such standards.

Blame the men that even though they can reasonably afford to carry their duty in a potential marriage, they can't meet the leechy materialistic standards of women.

Blame the men for not wanting a woman that have seen more p.enis than a urologist, and blame the man for not able to satisfy her sexually because her sexual climax has been overstretched, rendering her insatiable.

Also blame the men for refusing to marry women that their only contribution in the marriage is nagging, honeypot and parasitic tendencies.

Should we continue? undecided

And while you are at it Sixfeetbelle, blame the men who have seen what other responsible men weren't through in the hands of women through divorce court, and their shenanigans.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by DennisEche(m): 11:44am On Nov 18, 2020
JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY
by beheading abi
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by millionboi2: 12:11pm On Nov 18, 2020
Gerrard59:
I read to the end. Even broloshos, irresponsible, abegros with access to the Internet, yahoo yahoo and brostitutes are complaining grin.

Check your circles 'cos within mine, people get married almost every week which makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. Anytime I login to Facebook, I must see a wedding invite or anniversary or child birth celebration. But brostitutes say otherwise. grin
do you think at all before you type,can you read what you type?
Exactly what the post is talking abt, you see that on Facebook because Covid19 provided an opportunity for marriage cost reconsideratn and datz y guys are taking advantage of it.
Oga thy is nothing special about marriage no kill urself is just a norm.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Smile4mee01: 12:15pm On Nov 18, 2020
Hmnn....

I know lots of guys are here to laugh at the ladies, but for me, I wonder if these are signs of the end time. Are we seeing the prophesy where we shall have 7 women to 1 man coming to pass gradually?

I wonder if women are happier without men in their lives,

I can imagine the X chromosomes in a man's ejaculation all trying to hit the reverse brake seeing the number of women waiting and hoping for marriage to be happy.

As a man myself, I tremble at the fact that Am I that important of a human that God created another whole human being to help me achieve my dreams. As in her prayer point, all the days of her life is to see me do good. Ordinary me.

Anywayz, I dont see this trend stopping soon. The only that can reverse this trend is if for some reason far less females are born. you will see how men will rush the few available women to ensure he passes on his gene.

Also do you think polygamy is as bad as they make it seem ?

Just saying#

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Greenbirth: 12:39pm On Nov 18, 2020
Gerrard59:


Poverty no good o. So a young woman cannot work for her money legitimately and use it to enjoy life through travelling? embarassed
meaning?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by moststylish(m): 12:44pm On Nov 18, 2020
seproperties:
Marriage is Fading away joor ,Male are getting to know that the many reason they have to marry does not really worth it . Washing of Clothes ,I have washing machine to do that ,Cooking ,I be wonderful cook ,Moreso Better Restaurant dey my area to buy food if am tired ,Cleaning of the House ,It's my Hobby ,Washing of Dishes ,Na very easy thing be that oooo ,Na how many plates person dey use self .Sex ,Person can always arrange a sex Partner .Pastor Abeg shift I don't need your Preaching .The only thing I fit get hooked unto a woman na because I want Children ,One or two is ok ,After that I Go Japa ,No Court , Registry marriage oooo ,Life is short than to go get locked down to one Nagging ,Wahala woman .I go just work hard to Make sure I pay my children school fees ,Pay for the Upkeeps ,Food ,care etc .Credit the Account of the Woman for taking care of my kids ,When they grew up I go arrange one Boarding for them ,Simple .I no go kon kill myself ....
nice idea buy don't forget you have to have money to achieve this kind of lifestyle or else na wahala be that
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 12:48pm On Nov 18, 2020
pocohantas:


I wish I understood what you’re even on about, but like my dad says “Yes no dey cause problem”.

So... grin

Off course you should. Guess you forgot so soon! It's ok.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Gerrard59(m): 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2020
Greenbirth:
meaning?

So to you, any lady who has travelled extensively is a prostitute?

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Gerrard59(m): 1:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
millionboi2:
do you think at all before you type,can you read what you type?
Exactly what the post is talking abt, you see that on Facebook because Covid19 provided an opportunity for marriage cost reconsideratn and datz y guys are taking advantage of it.
Oga thy is nothing special about marriage no kill urself is just a norm.

So how come others aren't seeing same? I should listen to broloshos and brostitutes that there are no marriageable ladies?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Greenbirth: 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020
Gerrard59:


So to you, any lady who has travelled extensively is a prostitute?
i don't want to enter in any outrageous conversation with you pls.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Sixfeetbelle: 2:05pm On Nov 18, 2020
Regex:


And while you are at it Sixfeetbelle, blame the men who have seen what other responsible men weren't through in the hands of women through divorce court, and their shenanigans.

Right back at you.

Blame women for the actions of abusive, manipulative husbands that have made other women draw up unnecessary claws just to not endure what their married seniors went through
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Sixfeetbelle: 2:06pm On Nov 18, 2020
kurupt1:


Ur eye go clear, feminist

E pain am

Ntorr grin grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Sixfeetbelle: 2:07pm On Nov 18, 2020
CzarChris:
Babes relax, don't be too dramatic over my innocent comment. I get the biting sarcasm, honestly I do. But........ think am now. Some of our ladies of today have totally lost it.

Same as the guys, but you don't see women pointing it out
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Oshokalo: 2:25pm On Nov 18, 2020
they should also go and huzzle to contribute something to the table,they shouldnt be looking for husband as a means of escaping their poverty
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Pelxmiye(m): 2:57pm On Nov 18, 2020
pozehnani:
It's not as if there are no men to marry them but the thing is the ones that are coming for them are not up to standard but the ones that tick all the boxes are not forthcoming. This life is just somehow.

Baby girl, don't kill yourself. Maximize your singlehood because even the marriage itself is not an easy task. It's a lifetime load of responsibilities and duties that only the fittest can survive.

My twin is married and I see how she stresses to keep the homefront in order and still manage her business. Even with hubbys support, the stress is something else.

With marriage, you lose yourself, your time, your leisure and "freedom" only to regain it in old age when you're too frail and weak to do anything or have fun again. So enjoy your singlehood while it lasts.

Not totally true though the stress part is a normal side of it...both of them just need to find a balance, Nigeria also plays a role in this wink wink wink, the country's bad bad bad and bad,it's rubs off on our day to day lives, marriages, finance and life expectations, nigerians in general just need to be extra extra patient with one another in this country, I hope she doesn't get depressed cos of the stress ,it's not her fault or her husband's, it's just the country, let them find a way to make themselves happy at least until the calamity called Buhari dies or leaves

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by genii96: 5:08pm On Nov 18, 2020
JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY


Considering every terrorist group is Islamic in origin, it's more like the problem
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by DHaran: 7:09pm On Nov 18, 2020
NeoWanZaeed:



Because it's a total way of life with absolute morals

So that U can Marry many wifes abi? Rendering women to be house wife, restricting them to the kitchen and the other room.. your religion(islam) is gender based that is belittling women.
If a man in Islam can Marry more than two wife's why can't a woman marry more than one husbands

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