Scientists:


That you were careful during your Fuc.k days doesn't mean that others are careful too

apatheticme:



Not everyone married after fuc.k days, you know.

Some of us preserved ourselves, our dignity and married untainted.

That is the exact reason why this campaign of pressuring girls to do the bidding of men with their bodies must stop. You and your species are hypocrites, a girl decides to stay chaste, you open threads to say she shouldn't under the guise of infertility or that she should be 'test runned' as if she's a piece of machinery. She decides to sleep around, you and your ilks will still slut shame her and call her a hoe. Can you see you lots are confused!

Will women leave this planet for you?

[s]PS: The way you've taken this issue personal and attacking everyone on the thread, one wonders maybe you got a very bad case of gonorrhea during your Fuc.k days which gave you gonococcal urethritis and you can't father a child. Because no other reasons explain why you're taking Panadol for another man's headache.[/s]

Meanwhile kid, I'm not the cause of your ambitionless life, so run along go vent your frustrations and explanations on another person or open another misogynistic thread again, however, let me reiterate that at the rate you're going, destruction is not far from you, keep working hard at misogyny, Ozwor!

jimmychang:




I was once in your shoes ...but life is not that way my boy ....no go looseguard or them go use your head .

Omoge87:


What is this one saying. If you do not know Nigeria has one of the best reputations in terms of their IVF success rates and treatments... I used the West as an example to differentiate between Western mentality and African mentality ...

Anyway not having any further discussion with a simple person like yourself.

Remain blessed.

SonOfScientists:

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SonOfScientists:

You're just running your mouth as if IVF is that cheap The most intelligent Scientist ever gave a simple and clear way to avoid childless marriage, it's an advice baby girl. Take it or leave it at your own discretion, if you don't like it, do your own research.
Moreover if we're talking about sinful effects and moral righteousness, it's mixing of sperm and egg in labs for insemination God's plan of reproduction? In some cases, one of the gamete might not even be from the couple so how is IVF so good in your sight and the idea of pregnancy before marriage seem so preposterous and heinous?

apatheticme:



Not everyone married after fuc.k days, you know.

Some of us preserved ourselves, our dignity and married untainted.

That is the exact reason why this campaign of pressuring girls to do the bidding of men with their bodies must stop. You and your species are hypocrites, a girl decides to stay chaste, you open threads to say she shouldn't under the guise of infertility or that she should be 'test runned' as if she's a piece of machinery. She decides to sleep around, you and your ilks will still slut shame her and call her a hoe. Can you see you lots are confused!

Will women leave this planet for you?

PS: The way you've taken this issue personal and attacking everyone on the thread, one wonders maybe you got a very bad case of gonorrhea during your Fuc.k days which gave you gonococcal urethritis and you can't father a child. Because no other reasons explain why you're taking Panadol for another man's headache.

Meanwhile kid, I'm not the cause of your ambitionless life, so run along go vent your frustrations and explanations on another person or open another misogynistic thread again, however, let me reiterate that at the rate you're going, destruction is not far from you, keep working hard at misogyny, Ozwor!

apatheticme:
The thread is not to mock someone, but you ended up making infertility (or whatever the hell you're tryna imply by that crap you wrote up there) about the female gender as usual!

You're a scientist, yet you don't know that infertility is caused by male and/or female factors. Male and female factors each account for approximately 35% of cases. And often, there is more than one factor, with male and female factors combined causing 20% of infertility. In the remaining 10% of cases, the etiology is unknown.

Other lifestyle factors that have been associated with an increased risk of infertility include environmental and occupational factors; toxic effects related to tobacco, marijuana, or other drugs; excessive exercise; inadequate diet associated with extreme weight loss or gain; and advanced age.

More often than not, several males are the cause of infertility, but because society is patriarchal and focuses on blaming women for almost every thing, that's why you never hear from these category of men who use the opportunity to keep quiet and allow their wives take all the blame.

Go to school you won't, only to come and circulate hatred inspired falsehood and dumbass ideas on nairaland. Who cursed the black race for God's sake

Dumbass scientist with wack unfounded misogynistic thread. God will still punish you Las Las, you can't escape it, except you repent from this misogyny, dumb kid!

sparog:



Damn, you're so angry

Please forgive his stupidity ma'am

Scientists:

apatheticme:


Lol @the bolded!

Notice how quickly you were scared for your dic.k?? That's the same way it feels when you come here to say despicable things about the next human with a warped mindset!

I was only trying to educate you about infertility, it is not always a female thing. Get the message I'm tryna pass across!!!!

I personally know several patients and people I've come across whose husband's are the problem and they know it, no one opens threads to bash such men!

PS; you should always read to the end, don't be a lazy scientist, like they say the bottom of the pot is always the sweetest

Scientists:

Scientists:

Scientists:




He is my son and is reasonable than you.

Scientists:


That you were careful during your Fuc.k days doesn't mean that others are careful too

apatheticme:


Of course we understand having a dic.k automatically confers sense on you! Mental capabilities like coming to nairaland to create threads to wail on another person's headache, Mumu. A fool always thinks he's wise, until he enters a ditch!

I also know that you will rather die than admit your post was dumb and filled with hatred and stark ignorance.

Keep rejecting sound counsel and authentic knowledge until you self-destruct!

Scientists:

Omoge87:
No wahala... nowhere did I imply nor have previous posters implied that IVF is cheap... myself and others have mentioned IVF as well as other fertility treatments as a way of educating you that their are so many options for those facing fertility challenges ... and fertility challenges do not/ should not disqualify someone from marriage....

Are you not the one that used Banky W and his wife as an example to try and discredit their marriage because they do not have children? Adesua knew what challenges she and Banky W would face as a result of his health issues and she married him anyway... because why should she or anyone deprive themselves of marrying a good man or woman whom they love because of a particular health challenge, when there are treatment options available? Please wake up to the 21st Century.

For you we understand that the sole purpose of marriage is only to have children ... nothing more and nothing less so hence your advise ... and that’s fine... each to their own.

If God forbid you were involved in a car accident ... became a crippled... lost your limbs and was now confined to a wheelchair... should women look at you and think yuck... should that illness/challenge that you have no control over disqualify you for marriage?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nick_Vujicic - this man is a motivational speaker... a woman married him as he was/is despite the health challenges he faces...

Your thread implies that children are the sole purpose of marriage and if that is your belief then I wish you god speed in your quest to impregnate a young naive lady... By the Grace of God you will not demote her to single mother/baby mama’s club once the deed has been done as is often the case.

I bow out of this thread and wish you all the best. May God give you all the children your hearts so desires in Jesus Name. Amen.

Scientists:



This thread is not to mock anyone but to open our eyes to reality.

Fmghewzy:


The name scientist doesn't suit you , you are very dull and shallow minded.
You heap the blame towards adesuwa,what if it is banky w having issues.

Even as at that ,and so fuc.king what,is it a must you give birth.

God does his thing in different ways,Nature has a way of balancing things.
To me it is natural way if controlling population,some give birth some don't.
It may be painful,but at least thank God for what you have.

People who give birth to numerous kids but no money to take care them nko.
Sometimes the kids end up dieing.
Most times they even wish they never game birth at all.

So op, next time you want to post something, THINK FIRST!
STOP POSTING TRASH!

Scientists:


I didn't read your trash to the end sha.

You spoke like a woman. They are usually the ones with poor understanding like this to engage in constructive argument.

Couples should try it out to see of they are capable before getting into marriage. It is benefitial to both parties.

Gift96:
they may be planning to to have a child in Nigeria. just because they don't tell you their moves doesn't mean they don't have a plan

Malanius:
There are people that always say that they love their partners so much that even if it turns out that their partner can't give them children then they will stay with them. Apparently that is not what always happens. There are some people who are just not able to handle it. It is just what happens and sometime it so very unexpected until it happens.

Anayalv:
The one thing that men fear greatly is not being able to have children, Most men will choose to have children outside the marriage of their wives cuanto give them children. On the other hand some of them chose to let go of their wives or they become bitter and make their lives miserable. We all want our lineage to continue after we die.