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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Dollanaira: 10:55pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Nothing is perfect it’s all about mako it work |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by SweetCunt97(f): 10:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:But while you guys were together and having sex you grew rich, so how come she the cause? She committed adultery? Personally the nonsense that pained me in this ur story is the bullshiit about being fragile and unable to learn or work.. Like wtf. Best you go for a divorce not all marriages are meant to be. In ur case you simply ignored a very bad boil and it festered. Who knows if the kids are yours sef 2 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by PS712: 10:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
[quote author=Perfectsouth post=96430848]Cc royalroy] Your experience isn't a sweet one but surely it is one that can have happy ending... Do you know why? Beacause you are fortunate to - 1. be alive to tell your story, meaning you can change the narrative if you act right 2. you already know the causes of your set back, so why not avoid them? i.e. your wife and her family. 3. Your kids will not suffer what you suffered because of the consciousness you attach to the desire to not have them tow that path. In your case your dad neglected you, in their case you don't sound like one that will neglect them, except if you choose to and as for their mum you can't force her to give them care and love beyond what she intends giving. Finally, it's obvious you still love your wife and you also don't want to tow the path of divorce, if after thorough and careful considerations you find you still want you two then make up your mind to carry the cross while seeking divine help for her trusting God to help rescue her. Wish you best. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by bethyz(m): 10:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
You need direction oo. Seriously. You seem to be going round in circles without destination. You knew what your brother in law was capable off yet you entrusted your brain because you feel he wont do same to you. You knew what your wife was capable of yet you over look because she is your wife. You knew the beginning of your misfortune but you ignore and enter like a goat. Reading this i just concluded you need sence. You havnt made use of any since you met this woman. You are just doing things like a lost sheep. You need to go for counselling cause your problem is beyond you. You want to avoid what happened to you to happen to your kids that is why you want to die on top that woman. If this your story is true please na you no get sence las las. Please move on from your fears and face reality |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by futurerex: 10:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
What's the name of this movie? Bcoz no reasonable person in his right sense can be this dumb. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by BabbanBura(m): 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Guy, you need an out of that relationship asap. It is no longer a husband and wife matter but two families, get your family involved and get your kids out of that evil family before they get inducted. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by laughter25: 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Your problem is not your wife even if you did not marry her you would still have same problem but in different form, what affected your father is the same thing fighting you, thou sayest the spirit of Lord |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by cescky(m): 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
ahnie: Dont be siiily.. Some one is facing a serious dilemma and your here asking foolike questions.. Isn't a man allowed to sleep with his wife, is he supposed to believe everything thing the prophet or who ever told him? At least at the beginning stage.., gum type? A man wants to be good and family man, and what you see is gum.. Women like you are in tje same boat with his wife.. Empty brain Keep shut if you can't be mature 4 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Omuuvwie(m): 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] Perfectsouth:such is life |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Sirconnect: 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Love is a curse and you have been cursed.please let her be and live your life cut all ties with her and her family and find a way to have your children your curstdy.she we never be a role model to them.Always remember this,a hoe is a hoe. she will never ever gonna change.let her go you will live long you keep keeping in touch with her just hope you don't die young. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by mardis: 11:00pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Op are you sure those kids are yours? Have you proven that? Ehn. Your parents have nothing to do with your current predicament. Everybody has his or her own life to live. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ipobarethieves: 11:01pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
I lie? I even knw one SB Ojo like dat[quote author=Perfectsouth post=96543255][/quote] |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by abumeinben(m): 11:01pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Your wife's mom to me is the problem. So how do deal with her without "your" wife? The mom is the influence. Her experience with her husband is what she's transferring to her. Handle the mom or forget about them. 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Paromarc: 11:02pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
I blame you sha. You saw the red flag but you still went on with it. Wahala for who marry repentant Olosho 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by BHarmony(m): 11:04pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
A very sad experience. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Traininghub(f): 11:04pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Hmph, give me this your pastor's number (I need to ask him/her some things Abeg. Please stop having sex with her, if she's badluck to you and refuses to go for deliverance as well as change then please divorce her. You can't continue in badluck na. Have nothing to do with her and her family as wlllt please, you deserve better. Also, why will you marry someone with no prospect? She even said she's too fragile to work! Lol. Check my signature Abeg. Class is for a week and starts on the 9th, don't wallow in your joblessness and low paying job! Don't waste money buying things you can learn to make yourself. I'll also guide you on how to run your business! Don't sleep on this, limited space! Edit: by the way, when they say be careful whom you have sex with, some of you will not hear! Una don read this one now. Guys, ladies, please be careful! Some people are nothing but badluck! 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by captainamiedi1: 11:05pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I think it's time to move on. Cut ties with that lady and do all u can to take ur kids from her. They are safer with you than her. One of my friend had to stage kidnapping to take away his child from a lady. Try and take away those kids from her and let her do what ever she wishes with her life. Say to yourself it's time for a new start. Cut ties with her family members as well and surround yourself with positive minded people. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Olisehinnocent: 11:06pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
With all this you are still sleeping with her, what about if she give you hiv? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by SAD007(m): 11:07pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
She be olosho u still dey Call am ur wife, Bros if you don't wake up you will Jess have HIGH BP for noting, pick ur Kids and move on, tiz kind Olosho nofit train pikin Oooo!!! MARRIAGE NO BE BY FORCE! Perfectsouth: |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Yankee101: 11:08pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Walk away with your kids |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by 7BigSquids: 11:09pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Beverlyjean: Easy my dear. Not to the already psychologically weary |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by xtervaganza(m): 11:10pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Savagethe21st:no. But hopefully very soon as I'm still trying to get a divorce from my ex wife. But the door is closed now. I'm never going back to suffering |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by 7BigSquids: 11:11pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Genea: D sweating almost ruined the fine makeup |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by xtervaganza(m): 11:11pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
7BigSquids:it's a long story. Maybe one day I'll share but all I can say is that the guy needs to leave without ever looking back |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 11:12pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Hey mehn, you sure those kids are yours? 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by 7BigSquids: 11:12pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
xtervaganza: I agree. I avoided 2 by first of all checking and I ran unscathed |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by kbright2(m): 11:13pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Korllami007:Bro, OP has sent himself already to grave. I wonder how... Just let me caution myself to avoid using abusive words here. Why on earth would you go back to a confirmed prostitute in the name of valuing your kids. If care is not taking, your kids will leave the worth life you can't imaging if you can't distance that prostitute you called a wife before she infected you with incurable disease that may leads to death. Let me tell you, she will dump them (your kids) for a useless man without thinking twice after your enemy has passed on; so tell me who will now take care of the kids you value and wants to die for. Even Christianity allows you to divorce your wife on formication level. I have seen pastors remarrying on the bases of fornication so who are you not to? If truly you love your kids as you claim than yourself, for their sake leave that prostitute and move on. If guys here get your wife no, in lease than 3 days they will flood your DM with her nudes. So MOVE ON 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Tonitoniton(m): 11:14pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: So sorry for ur troubles We all have our fair share of similar mistakes. U had a good resolution of not wanting to toe ur fathers line. But, there is one big mistake u made which I have equally made: When u come from such family and dont want to make similar mistake, u must avoid premarital sex, ensure u wed properly in a living church. Also, a lady that will sneak out to club while with u is a no go area when it comes to marriage, not even as a bed mate. A woman that sends nude pix is a disaster waiting to happen let alone a married woman, she is doomed. The only legal ground the bible gives for a divorce is adultery. Yahoo plus men done use her destiny. She is just a walking corpse. Help her if u can. The work no go easy. U equally need deliverance urself. And pls, remove those kids from her for now 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Adexvivacity(m): 11:14pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: It seems it is your destiny to suffer I swear. You are mentally affected and the matter is affecting your health but you are ignoring the sign. I dnt pray you die, those kids will face that nightmare at ur absence. Runaway and continue your life. You can secretly abduct those kids from where they are after she stop taking care of them but not so soon. If not, you may not live to takecare of those kids as you wish. You are weak I guess. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by kbright2(m): 11:14pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Korllami007:Bro, OP has sent himself already to grave. I wonder how... Just let me caution myself to avoid using abusive words here. Why on earth would you go back to a confirmed prostitute in the name of valuing your kids. If care is not taking, your kids may leave the worst life you can't imaging if you can't distance that prostitute you called a wife before she infected you with incurable disease that may lead to death. Let me tell you, she will dump them (your kids) for a useless man without thinking twice after your enemy has passed on; so tell me who will now take care of the kids you value and wants to die for. Even Christianity allows you to divorce your wife on formication level. I have seen pastors remarrying on the bases of fornication so who are you not to? If truly you love your kids as you claim than yourself, for their sake leave that prostitute and move on. If guys here get your wife no, in lease than 3 days they will flood your DM with her nudes. So MOVE ON |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by golddust6000(m): 11:15pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Not just you married to a wrong family, Nigerian women in general are useless and pure water waste bag. Pu:ssy is no longer expensive, you can get it with just a bottle of coke. |
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