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Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 1:51pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
I believe most people in Nairaland know me very well. My supposed wife to be packed out of my house with no excuse with my two kids after we have both suffered together for the past 9yrs because of money. I am the physically disabled Yoruba man from ondo state. Truly I have not actually paid her dowry since she is from Imo state. Anybody that knows her should please talk to her or return my kids back to me. I have BP issues and I don't want to die young. bjprodint Now my family is fully ready to do the necessary and she said NO saying she has seen her new husband meaning she has been cheating on me for a long time. No problem but I need my kids. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Seriously In Pain by MJBOLT: 2:00pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
you might also need to do a DNA test.
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Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 2:11pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
MJBOLT: No Problem |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Okuda(m): 2:12pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
botrix: what happened to you leg? |
Re: Seriously In Pain by BlessedNuel: 2:13pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
This life no just balance.....take it easy on yourself sir. 1 Like |
Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 2:24pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Okuda: I was told so many things. My father said polio attack, mother said spiritual attack. the fact is am specially made by God 8 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 2:28pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
I will by his grace. She should just let me have my kids. BlessedNuel:
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Re: Seriously In Pain by BlessedNuel: 2:34pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
botrix: Just relax.......like someone clearer stated up there...if you can be able to go for a DNA test with the kids and the results shows that you are their true father. Just don't worry...leave the kids with her...when the kids grow up,they will surely come to look for you no matter what. Women are unpredictable right from the days of old 6 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
biko try and watch ur blood pressure o as u said u have now developed it over the problem in ur marriage marriage in nigeria is just total stress 6 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 2:42pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
No Problem, I will just do that. They are unpredictable truly. This is a woman that suffered when we were trying to erect the one room I am managing now by his grace. Anyway thanks very much for your concern. It is well BlessedNuel: |
Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 2:43pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
I am really trying my best to do that. Thanks very much. lefulefu: |
Re: Seriously In Pain by fati2001(m): 3:05pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
eyahhy.... Pls don't think too much ooo... and sorry for your legs, may God see you through.. 8 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
1. Don't U Know Her Parents, Their House Or Where Dey Live?
2. Did U Just Pick Her 4rm D Street & Start Living With Her? |
Re: Seriously In Pain by powerkey: 4:32pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Be strong and of good courage. |
Re: Seriously In Pain by oluwole70525: 4:43pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
:biko try and watch ur blood pressure o as u said u have now developed it over the problem in ur marriagemarriage in nigeria is just total stress 1 Like |
Re: Seriously In Pain by chinchonglee(m): 4:56pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Ahhh! Lemme nt talk |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Nazgul: 5:04pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
You said she's from imo state. In Igbo land, you can't claim any child you had with a girl until her dowry has been fully settled. That's why even in death her family would still tell you to pay her dowry before allowing you access your children. All you have to do if you want your kids back is to simply go to her people and do the needful, they are they ones who would hand over your children back to you. It's not an issue of court it's the tradition. If you don't have the finances to do that at the moment, then call her or any respected member of her family and arrange for a meeting where you guys can settle. Finally, country hard, try and engage in something doing no matter how small so that if you succeed in bringing her and the kids home, they won't starve. Good luck. 12 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by hashtagged(m): 10:45pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
fati2001: Fati I am going to do Thanksgiving next Sunday for your first meaningful comment 2 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by fati2001(m): 10:48pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
hashtagged: LEAVE ME ALONE! 3 Likes
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Re: Seriously In Pain by hashtagged(m): 10:50pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
fati2001: You are a buzz kill, I hope you get more matured and make posts with sense. well I'll leave you be just don't end up like Yenefer |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Foodqueen(f): 10:52pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Bjprodint, u are needed here. |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Sixfeetbelle: 11:03pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Simple dowry you couldn't do but yet you were popping babies with her? If I say you're wicked, they'll come for my head but I'll still say it. Dowry/Bride price is important to women, especially those that have had kids for you, unless it was stated clearly from the outset what the relationship entailed. I don't blame her for changing it for you cause as it stands, you're aren't married to her, she's a single mother and on top it all, a disgrace as far as her village people are concerned, and until that is remedied, she'll not see staying with you a viable option. Unless you aren't interested in the marriage again, then do as you please. However I must warn you: in some Igbo lands, if you didn't pay dowry, you can't have access to the kids ooh. If your wife is back home with her parents, they won't allow her send the kids back to you. Hopefully sha, she's not from that part of Igbo land. 5 Likes |
Re: Seriously In Pain by fati2001(m): 11:15pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
hashtagged: SAID BY A EVIL MINDED BEING! |
Re: Seriously In Pain by pocohantas(f): 2:28am On Dec 01, 2020 |
With the way you have been playing victim all over Nairaland, one would think that woman never tried. Anywhere you touch her, “my husband, my husband”. Who would have guessed you are the husband she speaks so highly of. That is how much she respected you. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Seriously In Pain by hashtagged(m): 7:13am On Dec 01, 2020 |
fati2001: Seems you are back to your old self |
Re: Seriously In Pain by fati2001(m): 7:16am On Dec 01, 2020 |
Re: Seriously In Pain by hashtagged(m): 7:22am On Dec 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: It's not that she didn't try, before they married he was same, if she knew she couldn't stay why did she marry him, even if she left him how can she just vanish with his children too, imagine your husband just disappears with your children how would you feel. |
Re: Seriously In Pain by hashtagged(m): 7:26am On Dec 01, 2020 |
fati2001:Ty |
Re: Seriously In Pain by pocohantas(f): 9:56am On Dec 01, 2020 |
hashtagged: She never MARRIED him. He never MARRIED her. Nothing is binding, no bride price, nothing... There are so many #TeamBabymama on Nairaland. One of them should give him their sister to continue the babymama-hood. It should be somewhere in the brocode hah? Pffttt He doesn’t know her parents house? No relative? This is the disadvantage of Lagos marriage. He should thank God it isn’t death. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Seriously In Pain by botrix(m): 10:33am On Dec 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: I cannot paint her bad at all its just that she has really suffered a lot for her to just go like that. I love her so much that it is really affecting me now. I can actually do things on my own. My family is not just ready now becos they want her to continue taking care of me and the kids. They also want to establish me now with the little they can raise. It is time for her to start enjoying the labour she has suffered for 9yrs and before this incident we have agreed to let her know that we will fully engage her next year. I really want her back becos she moved in with the new husband she claimed with my kids. I find it difficult to move on or I just remain single for the rest of my life. I love and will always cherish her for the rest of my life. |
Re: Seriously In Pain by Ginaz(f): 10:42am On Dec 01, 2020 |
Hmmmm. Your wife tried o. Kindly beg her to forgive you. 1 Like |
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